Therefore, the relationship between teachers and students was the first content that the ancients discussed about women's life. What "Wang Fu hurts children"; Or "Wang Zi hurts her husband"; Even "hurting her husband" even talked about her own virtue and Fulu's "quiet self-control, long life" and so on. , all in a secondary position. It seems that husband and son are all the ideals, achievements and blessings of a woman's life; Even harsh, even the most important thing in your life is not as important as theirs.
This may also stem from the rights of men in ancient society. Because in ancient times, men paid special attention to marriage. When a man marries a woman, the first concern is whether the woman is rich and whether she can benefit from the success of women. Secondly, there is a Sandy. If a son is denied, then the man himself has broken the "incense", and the lack of successors is great "unfilial" and rebellious behavior.
In fact, even in terms of numerology, a woman's life can't be decided by herself, which is a very complicated problem. For example, as a man, you should see if you can get a rich woman in your life; If I have always been jealous of my wife, or if I run into a wealth star, and there are many wealth stars, how can I marry a rich woman?
What's more, "Wang Wangbu"; If your man's beating is not equally bad for your child, if you beat your child, it won't help that woman's life no matter how prosperous it is. Similarly, no matter how you choose, you can get a long-term and wealthy wife. Is there such a blessing? Is there such a marriage? Also, the actual situation may be varied and endless.
For example, if a woman has been married twice, it is also a question whether she can continue to have a second husband after remarriage. If her second husband is incompetent, unhealthy or even disabled, it depends on what angle to judge and how to distinguish it.
Another example: if you hurt your husband, should every husband be punished? Is it necessary to let the first husband die, the second husband die and the third husband die? After all, such a life is rare. After her husband died several times, he was afraid to marry himself. However, even if most women get married twice or even three times, few people die one after another. Therefore, this kind of female life can't be killed with a stick. It is irresponsible to regard "official injury" as her husband's life.
Let's talk about Wang Zi again. Children are the hardest thing to talk about. First of all, from the perspective of women's life, the children born to the same man are not necessarily different? Especially a polygamist, his fate is different from that of his predecessor, his successor and his children. Also, "Wang Zi" and "Shangzi", in many cases, children's gender, order and combination with different male lives will also have various results.
For example, a woman who has been married twice and three times has given birth to several children. Not all the children died young or developed. It is common for young children to die young in ancient times. In modern society, abortion, abortion, surgical birth control, etc. It is also considered to be many children who died young. At the same time, some women gave birth to several sons. Some children are very capable, and some sons are very timid. Six or seven children, one or two died, leaving four or five. Is it Wangzi or Kezi?
Therefore, for such a very specific and complicated problem, no one can bear to give others the title of "Wangfu hurts the child", "Wangzi hurts the husband" or even "Husband hurts the child" in a rash manner. For example, as a man, do you have a son to carry on the family line in your life? As far as feng shui is concerned, what is the key to feng shui in male ancestral graves? You and your ancestors have covered everything, so why bother women?
In addition, it is very important for two people in marriage to restrain and dissolve the matching degree of marriage, whether it is for a woman's life or a man's life. This is why some women have no children with you, and some women have children with other men, and the children are still healthy as usual.
Then, is it completely unreasonable for the ancients to say that "the prosperous son hurts the husband" in "Eight Patterns of Female Life"? The author's answer is: No, then let's take a quick look at what is the content of "Wang Zi hurts her husband" in "Eight Situations of Women's Fate" in "The Tripartite Meeting"?
"There is a prosperous child who hurts her husband? This method is designed to be pushed at the end of the month, saying that those who criticize me are all officials and husbands, and husbands will bless when they are angry; When the branch is out of position, the moon cannot be angry, and the column has no anger. However, when the son who has been born is cited, the life, the official and the emperor are prosperous, and there is no punishment.
"Like a woman's life: Ji Mao, Jia Xu, Yi Mao, Wu Yin, B takes Geng as her husband, and Geng Jin is lifeless in September; B takes C as the son, C is in the shade, and it is a fire with the society. There was no Dolly in Moon Order, and when it attracted Jedi, it was burned to death, hurting her husband's star and making her son restless. So Wang Zi hurt her husband. I imitate this push. "
The above is quoted from the original text of "Three Children's Songs". As far as the expression of this passage is concerned, it is basically objective and practical, only for women. Because, unlike the previous "Wang Fu Wounded Child", this discussion not only talked about the time, but also talked about the month; More importantly, it also talks about whether the main branches are misplaced and what is the combination?
But it also ignores many problems. In addition to the choice of marriage partner we mentioned earlier, the most critical points are as follows:
One is to ignore fortune; Because, due to the intervention of the Universiade, the original game may not be successful, at least it will be much better;
Second, it ignores the analysis of the husband's palace; It also ignores the criminal harm in the eight characters. So there is no small problem with this analysis. But the significance of this analysis is still there, that is, it provides a basic and framework analysis idea. In other words, when we encounter a specific figure of eight, we have to combine the characteristics of the eight characters of both husband and wife, as well as their respective fortunes, and analyze the specific problems in detail.
For example, in the horoscope, the sun is the main wood, the ground is triple, the sky is dry and the body is strong; When you live in a child star, you will live forever. When you are in the second month, you will be arched, which is naturally beneficial to your children, especially your son. If you hit the official of Laofuxing, you can't show it. Hidden in the branches of the moon is another seven killers. What's more, Pianfujin lives in a fire barn. When the moon is full of fire, both jackets are made of earth, and Pianfujin is also severely restricted.
This is a typical life of "Wang Zi hurts her husband". The trouble is that a woman's life is not good. I am more prosperous and can't help my husband when I am lucky all the way to Shui Mu. But in the land of wood fire, food and clothing are good for children. As far as women's life is concerned, this is not the only case mentioned above; It also includes: for example, the food injury in the eight characters overlaps, while the husband star is weak; The injury was more serious than the official, and the official was injured and did not rescue; Or hurt a woman who lives in an official position and can't see money
Another example is: the husband hides the injury bank and gets injured; Fuxing entered the tomb and injured the library; People who are full of food injuries and do not see wealth stars; Like physical injury, the official star is vain; When you sit alone, you will be hurt when you are busy; Wait a minute. However, even the above situation should be combined with the luck of a woman's life. If the direction of luck is favorable to the husband, or the spirit of venting injuries and robbing money is suppressed, it will be much less.
At the same time, we need to remind everyone that this weakness is the official and the partial official, looking at it together; This is in line with the overall characteristics of life. Specifically, who is beneficial and who is unfavorable depends on the official and the partial official; Some people may be unfavorable to officials, while others may be unfavorable to partial officials; Some women's lives may be prosperous and prosperous, while others may be prosperous and prosperous.
In addition, it is necessary to combine the appearance order of the husband star. Some people may block the front marriage partner out of the door, while others may benefit the back marriage partner. On the contrary, some people may be eager for ex-husbands, while others may be eager for successors. At the same time, we have to pay attention to the degree of prosperity and decline; And whether Fuxing can be used together. My husband's star is too prosperous, but his luck is not as good. Wang Fu is just a state of mind, and has not made any substantial achievements.
Neutralization is the best among the eight-character stars. The so-called neutralization is the root of heaven and earth, even if; Then the root gas is the root of the tomb, or one or two is neutral; Neutralized, it is not easy to resist. The sky is dry and dry, and it is airtight. As long as the ground is rooted, it will be neutral without punching or jacket. Even if it is not the root of qi, there are only one or two roots of qi in the soil, which will be neutralized if the moon gets angry or taken care of in time.
Besides, getting married is a matter for two people. If two people's eight characters and five elements complement each other, it can just suppress the shortcomings of men and women's hit, or carry forward the advantages of men and women's hit, and realize the purpose of rectification, then there will be no so-called "Wang Zi hurts her husband", at least it will be very light. From this perspective, the choice of marriage partner and the complementarity of the five elements are of great significance. For example, some people say that there is no need to consider the complementarity of the five elements in marriage. As long as there are many encounters, there is love every day, and the year is in line with life, it is also problematic.
Another example: some people say that children's information synchronization is the real husband and wife, otherwise, the marriage may not last long. Such problems still need specific analysis. You think, if two people have no children, or the children's fortune is particularly poor, this may be fate, but if the five elements complement each other, such problems will not occur; If both men and women are restrained and the five elements are not complementary, I am afraid there will really be no children. Therefore, when the ancients talked about marriage, they just put forward that "men are destined to kill their wives and women are destined to kill their husbands", and such a hard match is also possible; But it doesn't say anything about "the fate of children", so we must say the same thing.
This is because when two people are together, the five elements in the two life forms form a new circular fusion system, which will produce a new comprehensive new magnetic field and energy exchange system. For example, a person's life is a day's work, and his life is better than robbing Kelly's wife; The woman's life withered into two trees, and the woman's life hit the fire and injured Wang Kefu; The fire king can control Geng, save Mu, and meet the official killing of public life.
In the same way, if a man's life is prosperous, he will be a son; A woman's life is printed on the star water, so that two people can be together, although they are in harmony with each other for love; The eight characters have many similarities and are easy to get along with. However, how can such two people live smoothly and develop together? How can I get a baby smoothly? Especially in today's era, career achievement is the first priority for both husband and wife.