Cancel the sky-high bride price, but rural bachelors are unwilling to take this "shortcut" to marry, for fear of being looked down upon? This shortcut is to go to the woman's house as a door-to-door son-in-law. There are many bachelors in the countryside now. Because of family reasons, they don't have the money to marry their wives, but they don't want to take this shortcut because they are afraid of being laughed at. The disappearance of "exorbitant bride price"
Nowadays, it is difficult to get married in rural areas, which has become a status quo. It has also become a normal state that the bride price is rising. In some places, besides the bride price, there are many various attachment conditions, such as the most common purchase of a house, a car, three gold, etc. These are the normal conditions for marriage. The rising bride price has made many ordinary rural families miserable, and some people bluntly said: this is not to marry a woman.
The sky-high bride price is everywhere, which is also the last straw to crush many young men. Some of them are from ordinary families, and they really can't get the bride price and other conditions. They can only be single, and now some rural areas also have zero bride price, but these zero bride price gifts are for a reason, which is different from men's families. There is a "zero bride price"
In fact, there are many preconditions for some zero bride prices, some of which are formulated by local village rules and regulations, and everyone can't obey them. This precedent has been implemented in many places, and the effect is still good. In fact, it is also a vicious circle, especially for some families with sons and daughters, if their daughters want more when they get married, it will be enough to marry their sons and daughters, thus forming a dead knot again and again.
some men have a good family and don't need a bride price, others really need a bride price because of their outstanding talents. It's ok to be bullish in the later period, and some additional conditions are that the man will settle in the woman's house, commonly known as: caring for the elderly and inserting the door backwards. There are also many such situations, but there are also many problems about the man's psychological endurance and family status in the later period. Rural bachelors still can't be happy
It's good that the bride price is more or less reasonable. The past, which is hard to say without spending a penny, will also cause a superior psychology of men, thinking that there will be different situations in treating people and things without the bride price. Although the bride price problem in rural areas is one of the reasons that hinder marriage, the difficulty in getting married is ultimately caused by the fact that there are more men and fewer women. In addition, the momentum of rural young women entering the village is getting higher and higher now. Rural young women have a two-way choice in getting married. They can choose to marry in the city or return to the countryside. This brain drain makes it more difficult for rural young men to get married.