King Huo Siyan's Mm-hmm is a warm man with high emotional intelligence. He dotes on his mother, knows how to appease others' emotions, and is also a master at solving embarrassment.
Once went to a charity sale, Huo Siyan asked Uh-huh to share the candy with the children, and didn't forget to ask him to say hello. Mm-hmm. Go up to the children and say, "Hello, guess what's in my box?"
Unfortunately, the other party lost face and said that they didn't know. Mm-hmm. It's easy to pick up the topic. He said, "Give me another hint. What's your favorite food at home?" The children were attracted by mm-hmm
Mm-hmm's performance is remarkable, and it is also very good compared with adults. He will certainly become an excellent person in the future.
Everyone wants to cultivate children with high emotional intelligence. I think children should exercise these three qualities: speaking, self-discipline and reliability.
Speaking of this, many people will have a misunderstanding, thinking that what they can say is that they can kiss up to others.
Actually, it's not. Will say that when you speak, you understand each other's emotions and take care of others' feelings.
The simplest thing is politeness. Parents should teach their children to be polite in daily life, from greeting people from childhood to being sensible when they grow up, so that being polite becomes a habit, a thing that doesn't need deliberate thinking, and a label for her daily communication.
If you go deeper, if you say it, people will like to listen. Don't poke at other people's shortcomings, get to the point. This requires the consistent guidance of parents, so that children can think more before speaking and think more from each other's perspective.
Self-discipline, I think everyone must strive to acquire a quality.
Self-disciplined people can persevere, persist in doing things, demand themselves and control themselves.
We generally think that high emotional intelligence is manifested in the outside world. In fact, I think high emotional intelligence is manifested in self-management. The successful people we know, such as Ma Yun, Yu and Dong Qing, are all people with high emotional intelligence. Their lives are very regular and their execution is very strong. People with high emotional intelligence should be able to make efforts for their own decisions and persevere.
And our children want to exercise this quality, I think we can start with time management. Parents help their children make time and plans together, follow them together, and gradually form self-discipline.
Reliable, the main point is that there is evidence to follow in what you say and do, and don't be an indecisive person.
This is good for adults, but it is a bit difficult for children. I suggest that my friends exercise their thinking habits from an early age, train their children to find causality and tell them that nothing comes out of thin air. Why do children learn? Why are you being polite? Why can't you lose your temper? When children know its deep-seated reasons, they can naturally do it.
People with high emotional intelligence will not easily deny themselves, nor will they be easily denied by others. Then every step he takes is down-to-earth
Imagine a talkative, self-disciplined and reliable child. When he does things, he will have his own reasons, be firm and make others and himself comfortable. Then such children are certainly welcome.
Of course, there are still many contents about the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence. We only mentioned three characteristics today, and the specific operation still requires parents to pay a lot of effort and attention. Let's work together, come on!