Especially those who have ulterior motives, do not hesitate to hurt others for their own benefit. If they meet such people, if they don't know how to distinguish them, they will be easily deceived.
It is important to learn to distinguish people with bad intentions. If you meet people with the following four characteristics, you should stay away as soon as possible!
You kill yourself, and you want to get someone to help you.
People with ulterior motives, once they encounter something and make a mistake, their first reaction is to pass the buck and find body double. They seldom consider the consequences before doing things, and then find someone to cushion them every time they make a mistake, so as to reduce their punishment.
For example, because of his mistakes in work, he will soon face the punishment of the company, and he will shift the responsibility to others, thus reducing his punishment.
If you meet the task assigned by the leader, but you can't finish it when it is about to expire, he will find someone to face it together. Even if you can't finish it, there will be someone behind you.
This kind of person will not share with others when it is favorable; Once something bad happens, they will try their best to blame others. They can't get away with it, so they fool others into taking responsibility together.
People who don't look for you when sharing benefits, but only when things happen, must stay away from him, so as not to be cheated and help him count money.
Self-centered, selfish
One of the characteristics of people with malicious intentions is that they can't afford to lose money, and they especially like to take advantage. If you can't get along with your friends, you always want to take advantage of others, don't want to spend money on food and drink, and never treat others.
This kind of person is very afraid of paying, but also very concerned about paying, always waiting for others to pay, so that he can pick up the ready-made ones. He is also good at using friendship to gain benefits. Only by taking advantage of himself can he feel cheated.
I have seen a case before. The post-80 s neet is such a person. He is always worried that he will suffer. He cares too much about everything in life. I have been lazy and have no real job. I've always wanted to say that my parents will own a house in the future, pity his mother in her 60 s and work outside to earn money to support him.
Get along with such a person, even if you let him take advantage, he will not be grateful, but will always be dissatisfied. You'd better stay away from such people, otherwise, for you, the future will be endless demand and pay.
To collect other people's privacy and discuss the length.
People with ulterior motives also have a hobby, that is, they like to collect other people's privacy, spy on other people's gossip, and talk about the length of others behind their backs.
Once you confide in such a person, he will swear not to tell, and spread it around immediately after you leave. To make matters worse, he will embellish it.
As the saying goes, "you can't just say three words to everyone, but you can't throw my heart out a little bit." You would rather keep silent than get to the bottom of it. Everyone knows what comes out of your mouth, and some words are only suitable for hiding, not for saying.
Especially when you meet someone with ulterior motives, you should pay more attention! Such a person has a bad heart and there is no need to make friends.
Jealous of talents and fond of gossip.
A true friend is someone who wants you to live better than him, but has an evil heart, but the opposite is true.
These people will be jealous once they know that you are better off than him. Seeing that you are more successful than him, he will feel unwilling, and seeing that you are richer than him, he will feel uncomfortable.
They will not surpass you through hard work, but will make you feel uncomfortable or even hurt through various calculations. As long as they see that you are uncomfortable, they are particularly comfortable.
When such a person can compare with you, he will be very good with you; Once they can't compete with you, they will create all kinds of right and wrong to frame you. With such people, you will suffer sooner or later.