Text | Ding Xiaomi Amy
After a long wait, Wang Xiaofei finally responded to the news that his ex-wife Da S remarried and wished her all the best. However, the words of blessing make many people who eat melons feel uneasy:
This man who used to talk about "my wife", "my daughter-in-law" and "my little girl" now calls his ex-wife "Barbie Hsu" by name and surname, which makes people feel so alienated and strange.
However, the title of "heartless" seems to be mixed with a hint of Wang Xiaofei.
When Wang Xiaofei unilaterally announced his divorce because of his "indiscretion", he was very surprised: as a husband, he was the last person to know the news.
After that, Wang Xiaofei tried to save the marriage. At that time, he probably didn't expect Big S's divorce attitude to be so firm, and he also apologized to his wife and adults for his words and deeds on vb.
Although there is a lot of news about Zhang Yingying and Wang Xiaofei, it is obvious that it was difficult for Zhang Yingying to enter the Wangs' family until Big S announced his remarriage. Otherwise, she wouldn't argue with netizens: if he wants to marry, someone will marry. And claimed that it was impossible for him to marry Wang Xiaofei.
Wang Xiaofei blessed "Barbie Hsu" after posting, and returned Miss Zhang's innocence. I don't know if it is because there is no hope of getting back together with big S, so I settle for the second best.
Speaking of love, Big S and Wang Xiaofei must have been in love before. Those eyes can't fool people. However, as Big S said, the divorce of two people is "Rome was not built in a day". I don't know when it started, but their love is getting less and less, and their impatience and boredom are getting more and more.
I used to think that Big S kept spitting about Wang Xiaofei and her mother-in-law in the program, not only for the effect of the program, but now it seems that those are really all kinds of dissatisfaction in her heart.
For example, she said that her mother-in-law was "full" and her mother was "dissatisfied";
For example, she said that Wang Xiaofei had a bad temper, and so on.
Divorce may not be the end, but after remarriage, the chances of ex-lovers getting back together are slim.
Stars and ordinary people are like this, but this is only human nature!
There was once a friend who was free to fall in love with her husband. That's true love. Even though her husband later became rich in business, the relationship between them was still very good.
However, there are too many women who can't stop this jump. Once, her husband got drunk and lost his body, feeling guilty. After the friend knew it, he insisted on divorce. Her husband begged and begged and finally had to agree. He left his house and money to his friends and then left innocently.
When divorced, her husband said, "I'm sorry. You can come to me if you have anything in the future. "
Indeed, in the next twenty years, her ex-husband gave her everything she wanted.
When a friend's father died, his ex-husband came to give gifts, and was treated as a son-in-law by relatives and friends, kneeling in front of the coffin, and all expenses were paid by him.
Even if my friend later found a new boyfriend, my ex-husband wouldn't refuse if he wanted to see me.
He once sent a message: "You don't want to get married. It doesn't matter if you talk about friends, but don't get a marriage certificate. We will live together when we are old. "
However, at that time, friends couldn't let go of his affair and didn't want to get back together at all. So I later found a divorced man and remarried.
In this marriage, friends are quite worthless. The man took his son to live in her house, and she took care of another son to finish high school and college, get married and have children.
In the meantime, a friend fell ill and had his uterus removed, and the man stood by without giving money or looking for a doctor. Or is the ex-husband desperately looking for experts in the provincial capital to pay all the expenses to cure his friend?
He said, "I hurt her."
Unexpectedly, a man who has been married twice lied that he was terminally ill after his son developed well. He didn't want to drag his friends down and wanted to divorce again and again. Finally, I cheated my friends for tens of thousands of dollars.
This incident hit my friend hard, probably because of these two things, and my ex-husband has never remarried for so many years and has no more children, which made her have the idea of changing her mind.
But the middleman mentioned remarriage with her ex-husband, who said, "Forget it."
Probably, although divorced, as long as you don't remarry, we are still a family psychologically. Once you choose to remarry, you will be someone else's, and the rest of our lives will be impossible!
It's just that Song Like's little girl's attitude changed greatly after she remarried in Zhang Yuhuan, which may also be the reason: because she wants to remarry, the other party remarries and all kinds of show love make her emotionally unacceptable.
Speaking of returning to Wang Xiaofei and Big S, after Big S announced his remarriage, he never said a word in the first live broadcast in Wang Xiaofei, full of worries. I'm afraid he can't digest the news for a while.
After all, he and big S have a son and a daughter. First, he didn't expect to remarry so soon. Second, the children will have a new father soon, and they may be taken to Korea. They are likely to get angry.
Therefore, the word "Barbie Hsu" is full of anger.
However, the decision to divorce after ten years of marriage is probably not impulsive, but has been well thought out.
I have seen a staff member of the Civil Affairs Bureau appear before. She said: If a young man is divorced, she will persuade him to make peace. If he is middle-aged, she usually won't say anything.
Because middle-aged people's divorce is often difficult to return, even if the problem has not been solved, then remarriage is just a new beginning of pain.
Just Rainbow, Xiao Fei and Big S, the differences in living habits, behaviors and even three views will not disappear because of divorce, and even if they make do together for their children, they will never return to the past.
What's more, the word "make do" usually appears in the dictionary of ordinary people. There are more and better options for them. Where can they stay where they are and guard a tree?
So this meaning is hard to be flat. After all, it's just the people who eat melons.
Now that we are divorced, the other person's name is a strange code name. Whether to call him by his first name or surname has no substantial influence on the relationship between the two people.
In the future, the two are just the parents of the children, that's all.
I think, since I'm divorced, I'd better break up neatly, so as not to drag my feet and give others the illusion that I can't get happiness. Why bother?
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