When is the wedding date? 1. When is the wedding date?
How to choose China's wedding day?
1, choose Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.
2. avoid the three seven nine. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
3. avoid three niang sand. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.
4. Yang Gong's "No Sun", also known as "Thirteen Taboos of Yang Gong", was handed down by Yang Junsong, a geomantic master in Tang Dynasty. These thirteen "taboo days" are 1 month 13, February 1 day, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 3, July1day, July 29, and July 29. These thirteen "forbidden days" are not suitable for everything.
5. It is absolutely inappropriate to break away from four.
6. usually choose the date of marriage
Yi: Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Xietian, Tian Yue, Sanhe, Tianxi, Liuhe and Bujiang.
Taboos: broken moon, weekday, closed day, robbery, disaster, evil month, punishment, moon-weariness, five tombs, evil month, big hour, celestial officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty, five separation, eight specialties and sun-weariness.
7. Parents' birthdays are inappropriate.
8. Newcomers' specific zodiac characters and five elements.
9. The first and fifteenth days are not suitable.
10. Not suitable for bundles and hooks.
2. What do you think of marriage?
Do the math yourself
1. Choose a year: Don't get married in a year without spring. The so-called year without spring means that there is no beginning of beginning of spring Day in that year, which is also called "widowed year". It is customary to think that a "widowed" person will be widowed when he gets married. The "animal year" does not get married, which belongs to rabbits. It is said that it is not good for them, and they can only postpone their marriage to the next year or advance to the previous year. In addition, there are many "forbidden years" related to men's and women's marriages, such as men's marriages: snakes are forbidden in the next year, horses are forbidden in the ugly year, sheep are forbidden in the next year, monkeys are forbidden in the next year, chickens are forbidden in the next year, dogs are forbidden in the next year, pigs are forbidden in the afternoon, and rats are forbidden in the next year. When a woman gets married, she should avoid rabbits, tigers, cows and rats in the first year. In other words, it is forbidden for men who belong to snakes to get married in the year of the rat, and it is forbidden for women who belong to rabbits to get married in the year of the rat. ...
2. Choose a month: after avoiding the "forbidden marriage year", choose a fixed month. Based on the woman's "birthday". According to the old Marriage Certificate, each zodiac has two "good luck months" and two "small profit months" a year. The formula of "Happy Month" is: "chickens and rabbits are welcomed in the first seven days, tigers and monkeys in the second eight days, snakes and pigs in the second nine days, dragons and dogs in the second ten days, cattle and sheep in May and November, and rats and horses in June and November." The formula of "Xiaoyue" is: "welcome dragons and dogs on the 7th, cattle and sheep on the 2nd and 8th, rats and horses on the 3rd and 9th, chickens and rabbits on the 4th and 10th, tigers and monkeys in May and November, snakes and pigs in June and December." People use "good luck month" more to pray for good luck. In case you can't get married in the big month for some reason, you'll have to find it in the small month.
3. Date selection: according to the age of the married person in that year, the "Zhoutangtu" is "one year old" or "two years old". In the past, this picture was painted in an almanac. The picture is marked with a big circle, in which the month, the number of days and a certain day of the year (black and ecliptic) are marked respectively. According to the principle of "double positive SLR", avoid the "moon taboo", that is, "the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third days". As the saying goes, "A mouse with a bad mouth will never leave buddhist nun on the fifth, fourteenth and 23rd day", and then avoid "Yang Gongbi". There is a saying that "everything goes wrong after committing Yang Gongbi". In addition, there are "Red Evil Day" and "Red Pine Down to the Sun", both of which belong to Mafia Day. In a month, it is difficult to find an auspicious day except one death day or another. So I didn't find it in the second half of the year; "Big profit month" has no "small profit month"; There are no profits for four months in a year, so we have to wait for another year. If you meet the "year of widowhood" or "year of birth" next year, it will be another taboo of marriage. There is no choice but to choose a day with fewer obstacles or fewer laws to solve it. In addition, local customs believe that every day after the 23rd to 29th of the twelfth lunar month is a good day to get married, so more people get married during this period every year. There is a saying that "after the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, you should marry a wife any day".
3. How to read the full version of Wedding Day?
How to choose China's wedding day?
1, choose Runnian Runyue. China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date and the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.
2. avoid the three seven nine. It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
3. avoid three niang sand. According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.
4. Yang Gong's "No Sun", also known as "Thirteen Taboos of Yang Gong", was handed down by Yang Junsong, a geomantic master in Tang Dynasty. These thirteen "taboo days" are 1 month 13, February 1 day, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 3, July1day, July 29, and July 29. These thirteen "forbidden days" are not suitable for everything.
5. It is absolutely inappropriate to break away from four.
6. usually choose the date of marriage
Yi: Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Xietian, Tian Yue, Sanhe, Tianxi, Liuhe and Bujiang.
Taboos: broken moon, weekday, closed day, robbery, disaster, evil month, punishment, moon-weariness, five tombs, evil month, big hour, celestial officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty, five separation, eight specialties and sun-weariness.
7. Parents' birthdays are inappropriate.
8. Newcomers' specific zodiac characters and five elements.
9. The first and fifteenth days are not suitable.
10. Not suitable for bundles and hooks.
4. How long does it take to get married?
1, it is more appropriate to select the year and month of operation. People in China attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay attention to the saying of "going to the moon" and "going to the year". Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there was no "Runyue" or "Runnian" in those days, there was no need to force it. Note that "Runnian" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar. This year is a leap year in the Gregorian calendar.
2. Avoid March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and should not be held for happy events.
3. Avoid the days when San Niang was jealous of Yang Gongbi. It is said that Yue Lao didn't lead the red line for San Niang, so she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.
4. Dates should be based on women. One principle of choosing a date is to take the bride's date of birth as the main reference, and refer to the man and other dates of birth. As the saying goes: "Give birth to children, marry a woman and marry", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore.
5. Parents' birthdays must be avoided. In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married.
6. Registration and wedding date. If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.
7. Harmony is the best, and the five-in-one and six-in-one are suitable for the four pillars of the day shift, and it is not appropriate to choose the pattern of fighting. Harmony leads to a smooth marriage, while conflict leads to an unstable marriage.
8, the yen should be angry, the financial official seal has roots, and it is best to have an official seal on the engagement day. The official star represents the husband star and the wealth star represents the wife star, which should be prosperous rather than declining. The main document contract, that is, the engagement, should be prosperous and solid. 4. It is not appropriate to use Japanese yen without gas.
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5. How to choose a good date for marriage?
Many people ask themselves that they are not superstitious, but when it comes to marriage, in order to get a good start, they can't help but choose a good wedding date from the master of the Book of Changes. From the perspective of auspicious experts, human activities should be balanced and harmonious with nature. The significance of choosing the auspicious day of the ecliptic is to make the married people respect nature and obey the time sequence of nature, so that the married people can be unified for a while and for a hundred years. How to find an auspicious day for marriage? The following are some widely circulated basic principles for choosing a day.
First, the principle of winning.
The "Tong Sheng" or "Huang Li" mentioned here is based on the China lunar calendar, and many calendars indicate good luck or bad luck on this day. According to legend, the Huangli calendar was created by Emperor Xuanyuan, so it is called the Huangli calendar, which is also commonly known as the "general book" among the people. However, because the word "book" and "lose" in Tongshu are homophonic, it is also called "Tong Sheng" because of taboo. The main contents of the Gregorian calendar are the schedule of the twenty-four solar terms, the good and bad luck of each day, the luck of the zodiac and so on. After experiencing the perfection of sages, there are the following principles for the wedding date:
1, the year of good luck
Shuangchun
There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.
Leap moon-the leap moon in the lunar calendar
It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, which was thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.
Double spring and leap month
"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!
2. Year, month and day not suitable for marriage
Blind year
Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.
festival
Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. Avoid the Tomb-Sweeping Day and Orchid Festival, which is full of yin and qi, that is, March and July.
three niang evil spirit
According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.
Birthdays of newcomers and relatives
Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.
Happy or sad.
Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year.
Second, the special principle of date selection.
Winning a lucky day is not universal, because individuals are different, and strictly speaking, the birth time of the married person should be considered.
Generally speaking, the following principles need to be followed:
1. Calculate the most auspicious wedding date by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except many financial officials).
2. The "auspicious day" that the selected date does not conflict with parents' birthdays should at least not conflict with parents' horoscopes (five elements of demand) and should not conflict with parents' food-eating stars (except those with serious food injuries).
The date chosen does not conflict with the prediction. Some people are not sure of their exact time of birth. Only through divination can they determine the date. This date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.
However, on the other hand, choosing an auspicious day to get married is not as difficult as expected. The general principle is: day is more important than month, and month is more important than year. Blind years also have auspicious days, so it is not necessary to pay too much attention to the so-called blind years, and it is not necessary to postpone or advance the wedding date by one or two years.
Our suggestions are: First, choose the wedding season according to your imagined wedding form and local climate characteristics. For example, if you want to hold an outdoor wedding, you should choose a sunny and rainy season with suitable heat and cold. At the same time, we should also consider the difficulty of relatives and friends attending the wedding. If many relatives and friends you want to invite don't work locally, then choose Class 11 for a holiday. Secondly, we should also consider the work and study of the newcomers, and try to avoid the distraction caused by planning the wedding before the exam or in the project research stage. Finally, we can't ignore the opinions of our elders.