1. Allusions: (The story of marriage awakening) is also called "Use you to advance, not rely on you to retreat" and "Use anyone to advance, use anyone to retreat". Example: (1) Kang Wang fled to Nanking. Although he ascended the throne, what influence did it have on you? Don't you lean forward instead of backward? (Chapter 28 of the Biography of Yue Fei by Liu Lanfang and Wang Yinquan) (2) People who do business ... can't make a profit now. Whoever needs it will move forward, and whoever doesn't need it will retreat. This bear, who will love you? (Hao Ran's Sunny Days, Chapter 29, Volume/kloc-0)
Second, examples
Capable people are ahead, mediocre people are behind.
Use is near, and use is far.
You can come at once or you can leave at once.
Emotional color: a derogatory term