In many places, a tombstone can only be erected on the third anniversary of a person's death. Why is this practice?

No matter in ancient times with stable thoughts or now with advanced technology, it is a great event to set up a tombstone for a family or even a family. The tombstone of the grave is equivalent to the door of the house, which is full of life. The only difference is the difference in the object of action.

The door of the house mainly acts on me, and the tombstone acts on future generations. The quality of grave headstones is directly related to the wealth, fortune and health of future generations. Every direction contains different vitality.

First, choose the orientation corresponding to the tombstone color. In rural areas of China, tombstones are mainly made of dark stones, most of which are black.

Granite or marble.

Some people will repair their tombstones to show their wealth and status at home, and it is easier to get the blessings of their ancestors. However, they don't understand that this will not only be a blessing, but also a catastrophe. Tombstones should correspond to graves, just as the size of residential doors has a great relationship with the area of residential buildings.

Similarly, the choice of tombstone color is also very particular. The choice of color should be decided according to the color of the cemetery backer, and the five elements of geomantic omen should also be considered. If it is the northwest direction, it is more appropriate to choose yellow and white, because the northwest direction belongs to gold in the five elements, and these colors can also be replaced by the color of the font on the tombstone.

The last thing to pay attention to is the time to set up the monument. When erecting a monument, Mr. Feng Shui is usually asked to choose a good day. People present can't be at odds with the deceased or conflict with the monument. If you make a mistake, it will cause unnecessary harm to the people who stand on the monument, and future generations will be easily troubled by diseases. At the same time, there will be great damage to wealth and fortune.

Generally, monuments can be erected during the twelfth lunar month and the Qingming period. Monuments can be erected in a year, three years or five years.

Choose an auspicious moment according to your host's constellation; Choose an auspicious day according to the specific situation of the yin house; The direction of the monument should be consistent with the direction of the altar; The level of the monument and the specific situation of the monument should be inspected on the spot;