The second floor was originally integrated with the third floor. I don't know if it's ok ...
If you lose today, you won't be a failure, because you will come back tomorrow.
If you lose money, you are not a failure, because the value of life is not in the purse.
If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.
Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue personal moral perfection; second, to safeguard public interests and public order.
when it comes to manners, I think of a story. Once, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the woman worker sees Lenin, she will retreat to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're already halfway with something, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first!" He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the female worker go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also the embodiment of good manners?
I don't want to cite too many examples of great men here, because it's easy to make people have the illusion that civilized manners are only possessed by great men and famous people, so we won't have to feel guilty for our more or less uncivilized words and deeds; Or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, it does not make you a great man or a celebrity. Not only do we need moral figures, but we also need a group of moral people.
the level of civilization of a society can reflect the level of civilization of a society and a country. If a person does not abide by social civilization, the small one will affect his own image and the big one will affect the national reputation. In the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. On a public occasion, he had a bad habit and vomited one mouthful phlegm everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and mocked by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.
public civilization is a reflection of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Just imagine, if someone doesn't pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good civilization? No! Personal civilization etiquette is the root and the foundation. If people want to have a good civilization, they must start from themselves and start from the side. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to survive and compete in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then people will do everything." The meaning of "cultivating people" is to improve people's thinking and civilization. People's civilization is not innate, but is constantly improved by the day after tomorrow. To improve personal accomplishment, we must first devote ourselves to studying and improve our cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, it has the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good from evil, we should correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: to be realistic, to know, to be sincere, to be upright and to cultivate one's morality. Perfecting personal moral cultivation will have the basis for promoting social civilization.
and the civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why do you say that? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan, and they have personal experience. Don't talk about the big ones, just look at the small things like crossing the road. As long as the red light is on, even if there is no car on the road, foreigners will never cross the road. They think this is a public civilization that must be observed. I would like to ask, in such an atmosphere, who will run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think again, if we don't start from ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?
A reporter interviewed a scientist who won the Nobel Prize. "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in your life?" , "in kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me for life, such as having good things to share with friends, being humble, and washing hands before eating ... "The same is true for us to improve our civilization, not necessarily having any great measures, but starting with these small things: eating and washing hands around us. Cultivate the habit of civilization, make the concept of civilization enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, and make civilization run through our every move.
We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing the lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and listening to the swearing words from some students, how can we not teach people to grieve! Are we all "giants of language, dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is an ontology and a kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We accept the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.
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We don't have to complain about the low level of civilization in this society; Don't complain that your strength is too thin and has little impact on society. Imagine, isn't there very little yeast in bread? However, this yeast alone, isn't it initiated the bread? Each of our classmates should be the yeast of this era, and let their own enzymes play their due role in this society.
Students, let's take action, "New century and new era, new country and new civilization". Don't let civilization appear only on paper, let it be active among us, let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization and let civilization walk with me!
We need a civilized life
Wang Bingxiang, Grade 6
As the saying goes, "Parents are the best teachers for children". However, I became a teacher for my mother and influenced my whole family with my practical actions. In my mother's words, I not only changed my mother, but also changed the people around her, including her colleagues, by changing my mother.
it dates back to the winter of the year before last, and it was already very cold. It's cold in winter in Beijing, so my family went out to see a movie by car. Because Olympic officials visited Beijing, all kinds of plastic flowers were everywhere on the streets of Beijing, which made people feel a little warm in winter. We ate snacks and listened to music in the car, which was very comfortable. When I arrived at Dongzhimen, my mother threw the garbage bag with waste outside along the window, and it was too late for me to stop it. I asked my father to drive the car back to pick up the garbage, but my mother said that the car could not return. Besides, there were so many cars on the road. What should I do if I go back and crash? Mom even said that she would just change it next time. But I resolutely refused to do it, and finally my father finally drove the car back. Mother found the rubbish she had thrown away. Although it took a lot of time, the whole family thought I was right. On the way home, many garbage bags of different colors were hung on the trees on both sides of the airport expressway, and the whole family had a profound reflection.
From then on, our whole family became ambassadors of "stressing civilization and protecting the environment" with practical actions. Last week, my family climbed Xiangshan, enjoyed the red leaves and took a lot of food for a picnic. After the picnic, everyone will collect the garbage separately, carry it down the mountain and throw it away where there is a trash can. Such a thing will be done consciously in our family without my supervision. My mother moved me with practical actions. She often picks up the rubbish on the ground in public places and throws it into the trash can.
to be civilized and polite, we need everyone to start from me and start from small things. We are small masters of the country, and we have an obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we have a rich material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. In this way, our country can become a strong and highly civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.
once, I saw Germany, an ancient European civilization, on TV, calling on the people of the whole country to be civilized and polite and to find back the ancient etiquette of the Germanic nation. At the same time, for example, an old woman passed the road. Although she was the only one on the road, she still waited for the red light to turn green. The old woman replied, "I'm afraid the children upstairs will think that the red light is passable when they see it." I send this story to all grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers and mothers. How important your words and deeds are to us. When you have uncivilized behavior, think about your children! Think that we are an ancient civilization!
I want to tell my classmates with this little experience that our words and deeds can also influence and change adults! Try it if you don't believe me! Let's all be civilized and polite middle school students! In this way, our life can be better and our country can be stronger.
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For example, picking your ears, nose and even feet in public; When listening to others, look around and despise; When you get on the bus, you rush, compete for seats, and even fight; Spitting in public places, littering and urinating on the side of the road. On October 6th, 24, Beijing Radio and TV News reported that the roadside to the east of Muxidi Science and Technology Hall has become an open-air toilet for taxi drivers, so that it can smell every few hundred meters, and residents have great opinions. It is impossible for residents to have a small opinion. In broad daylight, in broad daylight, it is convenient to say that it is convenient on the side of the road without a fence. It is indeed uncivilized. It is convenient for people who urinate, but it is not convenient for pedestrians in the past. Not only is it inconvenient for pedestrians, but if foreigners see it, they will not laugh at the low quality of our whole Chinese nation, because your convenience has discriminated against and implicated the whole nation. What a scandal! Be worthy of the motherland that raised you?
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John Locke, a famous British educator, said: "Politeness is an important event that children and young people should be especially careful to form habits." We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon once commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is the essence of various China civilizations that have been developed for centuries. He is very modest but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners and his convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, superior wisdom and beautiful and noble mind.
it seems that civilization and etiquette are very important. So, what should we do? First of all, pay attention to cultivate your beautiful and noble mind. On the surface, politeness is external, but in fact, the external form contains internal thoughts and emotions. A truly civilized and polite person is one with a beautiful mind, and a beautiful language comes from a beautiful mind. This is what people often say: "Words speak from the heart" and "Form appears from the inside". Secondly, we should standardize our words and deeds with the requirements of civilized and polite moral standards in practice. Politeness is important in performance. It mainly includes four points: ① modesty and courtesy; ② civilized speech; ③ dignified behavior; ④ paying attention to hygiene. I think, if you can do the above four points, you are worthy of being a member of the "State of Etiquette".
Goethe, a famous German writer, said it well: "A man's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you according to your manners. Because politeness is the golden key for human beings to live in harmony, and only with it can there be happiness and happiness.
Civilization is the quality that everyone must possess
Deng Xuewen of Grade One (1) Senior High School
The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years, and China is known as an "ancient civilization" and a "state of etiquette". In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, it shines with the brilliance of civilization and etiquette.
When we get in touch with a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and elegant"; "This man is educated and speaks elegantly"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a kind word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This person is too sloppy, his clothes are wrinkled, and even his face is not cleaned" ... A person with high quality and education must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed.
we should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and form good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you be respected and trusted by others and succeed in your career. Zhou Enlai devoted his life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to thank him. Premier Zhou is a model of respecting others and an example for young people to learn. Some people think that in modern society, it doesn't matter whether you are free or not, as long as you study well, work well and have real skills. Modern society does respect individual's choice and has greater freedom. However, it requires more people's civilized manners, because civilized manners are an important symbol of the degree of social civilization. There are more and more "elegant halls" in modern society, and no one wants to be a person who is difficult to climb the "elegant hall".
Japanese family education attaches great importance to the education of children. The mother cooked the meal and didn't tell the child to eat it. The child can't eat it by himself first. Children must say "You're welcome" before eating. Children have a set of etiquette rules every time they leave home or go home. Children should say "I'm leaving" to their father and mother every time they go out, and say "I'm back" every time they go home and enter the door. Japanese children's civilized manners have become their habit.
There are strict manners and customs in Japan, not to mention our ancient country with a culture of 5, years.
At present, our country pays more and more attention to civilized etiquette, such as promoting civilized etiquette; Publication of "A Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Capital Citizen Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once I was in the street, I saw four eight-or nine-year-old children moving their bicycles away from the blind road. The sweat on their foreheads flowed down one after another, but they had no time to take care of it. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved by them. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of civilization and etiquette education in China.
civilized behavior, civilized behavior, plus tranquility and elegance.