1. Title Etiquette
1. Do not address parents and elders by their first names, let alone use rude words to address them. Use accurate titles, such as dad, grandma, teacher, etc. Uncle waits.
2. Nicknames given by others.
2. Greeting etiquette
When greeting parents and elders, different greetings should be used according to different times, occasions, and festivals.
1. After getting up early, ask dad and mom good morning.
2. Wish dad and mom good night before going to bed.
3. Parents come home from get off work: Dad and Mom are back.
4. Birthday: I wish the elders a happy birthday and good health.
5. Celebrating the New Year: I wish my elders, relatives and friends a happy New Year.
6. When dad and mom go out, say: I wish dad and mom a safe journey and smooth work.
7. When dad and mom come back from an outing, they say: Mom and dad are back, thank you for your hard work.
8. When you say goodbye to your family: Don’t worry, I will take good care of myself. If you are away from home for a long time, write or call to greet your family.
9. When you go home, you should say hello to your parents and elders.
3. Table manners
(1) When at home:
1. Ask the elders to sit down first.
2. Wait for the elders to take the bowls and chopsticks first, and then take the bowls and chopsticks yourself.
3. When eating or drinking soup, swallow in small sips, chew with your mouth closed, chew slowly and try not to make any noise.
4. When eating, hold chopsticks in one hand and hold the bowl with the other.
5. Don’t knock the bowl, don’t pee and pick the dishes.
6. Say "thank you" when others bring food to you. When you don't need it, you should say: "Thank you, I really don't need it anymore."
7. Take the initiative to add food to the elders.
8. After finishing your meal first, say "Everyone eat slowly."
9. After the meal, help parents put away the dishes and clean the table.
(2) At school:
1. Do not run and enter the restaurant in an orderly manner.
2. Sit on the designated seat, with your feet naturally together, your legs naturally flat, sitting in a natural posture, and your back upright.
3. When eating, hold the spoon in one hand and hold the bowl with the other. Don’t knock the rice bowl, eat quietly and civilly.
4. Eat all rice, vegetables, and soups (except in special circumstances); do not be picky or picky about your food.
5. After the meal, the stools should be placed neatly under the dining table.
4. Hospitality Etiquette
1. When guests come to visit, prepare in advance and keep the room tidy. You should give a warm reception, help your parents arrange their seats, hand them tea, and then say goodbye and leave. When your parents see off the guests, you should say "goodbye" to the guests. If your parents are not at home, you must receive guests as hosts.
2. When your classmates and friends come to visit, you should warmly welcome them. When you are visiting for the first time, you should introduce them to your parents one by one, and then give the best seat to the guests. You can entertain them with tea, fruits, books, etc.
3. When parents’ friends bring children to visit, they should play with the children, tell them stories, and read books, listen to music, and watch TV with them.
4. When eating, if classmates or friends come to visit, you should take the initiative to invite them to eat together. If the guest declares that he has eaten, arrange for the friend to sit down first, find some books, newspapers or magazines for him to read, and then continue eating.
5. Receiving teachers should be as warm and solemn as receiving elders.
6. When seeing off guests, send them outside the door and welcome them back next time.
5. Guest Etiquette
1. When visiting relatives and friends’ homes, you should be punctual, look neat and tidy, and bring some small gifts as much as possible to show respect for the host.
2. When at the home of relatives and friends, you should not speak loudly and in a civilized manner.
3. Don’t use things in the owner’s house without the owner’s permission. Even close relatives and friends should say hello first and obtain the owner’s consent before they can use it.
4. If you are dining at the host's house, you must pay attention to dining etiquette. Do not rush to be seated or touch the food first.
5. When saying goodbye, say words of thanks, such as "I'm so happy today" and "Welcome to my home."
6. Dressing Etiquette
1. Do not wear fancy clothes. When attending important gatherings, wear the prescribed school uniform as required.
2. Keep yourself clean and tidy, dress neatly, plainly and elegantly, do not tie your shirt around your waist, or wear clothes loosely buttoned.
3. Do not wear vests, slippers, or pants when walking on campus or entering classrooms.
4. Do not take off your clothes or shoes in class.
5. Do not compare yourself to classmates (such as not wearing famous brands, etc.), do not wear medium-high heels, and do not wear thick-soled fashion shoes. Sneakers or flat shoes are better.
6. Do not wear necklaces, earrings (needles), rings, bracelets, bracelets and other accessories.
7. Trim your hair as required. Do not dye or perm your hair. Boys do not have long hair, and girls do not have disheveled hair.
7. Walking Etiquette
1. When walking, you should raise your head and chest, look forward, swing your shoulders and arms naturally, and walk at a moderate pace. Avoid splayed feet, wobbling, or swaying steps. .
2. When going up or down stairs or crossing corridors, keep to the right and walk slowly. Do not ride on the railings and slide down. Follow designated routes when entering and exiting classrooms, offices, conference venues, etc., without crowding, and walk quietly and slowly when entering and exiting various functional rooms, so as not to disturb others.
3. When you meet acquaintances, you should say hello and exchange greetings. Do not turn a blind eye. If you need to talk, you should talk by the roadside or in a corner. Do not stand in the middle of the road or in a crowded place.
4. Pedestrians should be courteous to each other, take the initiative to give way to the elderly, and take the initiative to give way to the disabled and those in need.
5. When asking others for directions, first greet them with polite language, such as "Sorry to bother you", "Excuse me", etc. Young people should choose appropriate titles when asking for directions, such as "Grandpa", " "Auntie", "Uncle", etc., and then ask for directions; after listening to the answer, be sure to say: "Thank you!" If you are asked for directions by a stranger, you should answer seriously and carefully. If you are not sure, you should say: "Very well." Sorry, I don’t know. Please ask someone else.”
8. Respecting teachers and respecting filial piety etiquette
1. When you see the teacher, take the initiative to say "Hello, teacher" and respond to the guests when you see them. Take the initiative to say "Hello, guest teacher" with a smile, and say "goodbye" when you say goodbye.
2. Keep to the right when entering and exiting the school and going up and down the stairs, and give way to the teacher.
3. If you are late for class (including self-study classes), you should call "report" first and only enter the classroom with the teacher's permission. When speaking in class, you should stand at attention and look directly at the teacher.
4. When entering the office, shout "report", and only after hearing "please come in" can you enter; when asking the teacher, use "excuse me", and after the teacher answers, thank him and say "goodbye" before leaving; no Feel free to look through things in the teacher's office; do not open the teacher's computer without permission. If the office is unoccupied, students are not allowed to enter it at will.
5. Point out the teacher’s mistakes politely and pay attention to the occasion.
6. Listen to the teacher’s teachings with an open mind, accept the education of the teachers, and have a correct attitude.
7. Tell the truth to the teacher and do not deceive the teacher.
8. Cherish the fruits of the teacher’s labor and complete the tasks assigned by the teacher on time and conscientiously.
9. Obey the teacher’s management and do not contradict the teacher. If you have your own views and opinions, you should choose an appropriate method to sincerely exchange opinions with the teacher.
10. When you meet a teacher on the school road, take the initiative to stop, bow slightly or nod to say hello. When you meet two or more teachers, ask "How are you teachers?"
11. When talking to the teacher, stand up and offer your seat to the teacher.
12. When the teacher is doing things or talking to others, do not disturb the teacher at will. Stand aside and wait for the teacher to finish doing things or talking before looking for the teacher (except in emergencies).
13. When parents are away from home for a long time, they should frequently report their recent study and life situation by phone, text message or letter. Listen to the correct teachings of your parents and be modest and not willful.
14. If you have opinions about your elders, you should express them politely without losing your temper or contradicting them.
15. You are not allowed to come home late, go out far, or stay out for no reason without your parents’ permission.
16. Don’t disturb your elders easily when they are resting. If your elders are not feeling well, you should greet them frequently and be considerate.
17. When watching TV programs, do not make noises or compete with elders for program channels.
9. Classmate Etiquette
1. Classmates should greet each other with "good morning" and "hello" with a smile, and can nod and wave.
2. Be sincere and humble when talking to classmates, and have a calm tone. Listen attentively when listening to classmates, look directly at classmates, and do not interrupt others easily.
3. Students should speak Mandarin and use polite language when communicating with each other. When asking classmates questions, use modest words such as "Excuse me", "I'm sorry", "Excuse me", "I have a question for you", etc. before asking, and thank you after asking. If the classmate cannot answer, say "It doesn't matter, this question is relatively simple." Difficult to answer, it took up your time, thank you" etc.
4. Respect classmates, do not give classmates insulting nicknames, or call classmates insulting nicknames, and do not say words that make others sad and ashamed.
5. Students help each other and love each other, and take the initiative to help students in need. Choose the appropriate method to sincerely point out your classmates' shortcomings or affirm your classmates' strengths.
6. Male and female students respect and care for each other and do not bully each other.
7. If you want to borrow something from your classmates, you must first obtain their permission. You should take special care of your classmates' belongings and return them on time. If they are lost, you should immediately apologize and compensate.
8. Do not gossip, gossip, or laugh at classmates in front of or behind their backs.
9. Don’t worry about it, and be tolerant of classmates’ mistakes or offenses. Apologize when you hinder your classmates.
10. Pay attention to credibility. You must try your best to do what you promise to your classmates without violating school disciplines and rules, and apologize when you cannot do it.
10. Flag-raising etiquette
1. Enter and exit the venue in an orderly manner, and generally wear school uniforms as required.
2. Stand at attention and remain silent. It is forbidden to turn around or look around.
3. Perform the attention salute (young pioneer team salute).
4. Listen carefully to the speech under the national flag.
5. When singing the national anthem, you must be serious and your voice must be loud.
11. Assembly Etiquette
1. When gathering, arrive early, enter the venue on time, line up quickly, quietly and neatly, and be at the designated location.
2. Listen to the report with concentration, keep quiet, sit upright, and do not talk or move around.
3. Do not eat snacks or throw confetti at the venue.
4. At the end of a report or performance, applaud and express gratitude; applaud appropriately for highlights, and do not boo, whistle, or make loud noises.
5. When students take the stage to speak, they must bow and salute to the leaders of the rostrum and the students on the field, and the Young Pioneers must perform a team salute. Thank you after your speech.
6. When you go on stage to receive an award, you should bow to the award recipient with a smile, then hold the certificate (certificate, prize) with both hands, and thank the award recipient.
7. Do not leave the venue without permission during meetings or performances; after the performance, wait for the actors to take the stage and then exit in an orderly manner.
8. If you really need to leave the venue under special circumstances, you must first obtain the teacher's permission before leaving.
12. Bus Etiquette
1. Consciously queue up and wait for the bus after school, pay attention to keeping the waiting area clean, and get on and off the bus in an orderly manner.
2. Do not eat on the school bus, ride in a civilized manner, and consciously keep the bus clean.
3. Don’t fight for seats on the school bus, and take the initiative to give up your seat to primary school students and students in need. When taking a bus or boat, you should take the initiative to give up your seat to the elderly, young, sick, disabled, pregnant women and teachers.
4. Do not do dangerous actions in the car and pay attention to safety while riding.
13. Social Etiquette
1. When asking others for help, say "please" or "please". After receiving help from others, say "thank you".
2. Say "I'm sorry" and "please forgive" when you accidentally affect others' rest or work; when others accidentally affect you and sincerely apologize to you. , should say "it doesn't matter" tolerantly.
3. When talking to others, your attitude should be sincere and your words should be kind. When listening to others speak or speaking, you should look at the other person squarely, and do not be careless or interrupt casually.
4. In public places, you are not allowed to make loud noises, spit, litter, pick your ears, pick your nose, shave your teeth, or cut your nails, etc.
5. Obey traffic laws, do not ride illegally, and use crosswalks when crossing the road.
6. Observe public order, line up to buy tickets and shop, and be polite to the staff.
7. Protect public facilities, cultural relics and historic sites, cherish crops, flowers, plants and trees, and protect beneficial animals and the ecological environment.
8. When condolences to the patient, say: "Take a good rest." and bring condolences or flowers.