How do you know a man is cheating?

When dating, you can forgive your boyfriend for many mistakes, but it is unlikely to forgive him for being merciful. You don't have to use the lip print on his collar to see if he is cheating. The following four simple techniques can predict your boyfriend's cheating "nature". The first characteristic: Is he a spoiled child? Have his parents always spoiled him and helped him out of financial difficulties? Did he brag about how he cheated in the exam? Did he pay others to help him write his paper in college? If your partner has been going smoothly and never had to deal with a hard life like us ordinary people, you have to be careful. Caring children especially feel "empowered" (bad boy syndrome), and they believe that the rules don't apply to them. If he always gets what he wants, then why does he stop now? He may betray you because he thinks all his needs should be met, no matter who he hurts. And he probably can't realize how depressed you will be once you find out that he is a very self-centered person who rarely considers his partner's feelings. Then how do you know that the charming man you want to monopolize has no other women on his wish list? You can pay attention to how he treats his mistakes. If he forwards the erotic letter you sent him to others, does he regret being found out or does he think he shouldn't do it? When he screws up, does he complain about others or take responsibility for himself? If he can't see the influence of his behavior on others, then when he is tempted, he won't say to himself, "Wow, what about my girlfriend?" The second characteristic: Does he work with women most of the time? Does he often come back late? Is he in the office, dining with clients or on the road on business? Does he earn a lot of money? It's certainly nice to date an ambitious guy. His wallet is so deep that it is really pleasing, especially when he brings you all kinds of valuable gadgets, but the office environment is also suitable for sensual private dating. Research shows that most men cheat their partners by having intimate relationships with colleagues. "This is not only because they have similar interests and work together every day, but also because when they are together, they are generally the most energetic and best time of the day." Unfortunately, the deeper his wallet is, the easier it is for yours to pollinate in the office like a hard-working bee. People in the upper circles are more likely to have affairs than people in the lower classes, not only because of their thick gold dollars. The process of evolution makes men understand that if they are better supplied, the more they can attract women. Since hormones make men pursue power, a person who reaches a certain position is more willing to act according to his own desires. Remember the little accident in the Oval Office of the White House? But before you go to the parking lot of his office, don't forget that a career seeker must spend a lot of time at work. If he is happy to receive your call during the day, invite you to his office and take you to his colleague's party, then you are often his only partner. If he acts like a secret police, he may have non-official clients. The third characteristic: Can he talk wittily about any topic? Is he trying to show his charm? Whether they are your colleagues, your sister or salespeople? Going to the party with you, does he insist that you hang out with him more? If your friends and family like him very much and he is committed to making you happy. Can you not love him? However, a sweet talker often needs the attention and praise of others. So what are the risks of dating a friendly and caring person? A person who is good at communication needs to live in the spotlight. He may not be able to satisfy a woman's selfish ego-stroking. If he is very gentle with other women, his chances of cheating will increase exponentially. An attractive man will meet many women, and he can win their favor easily. Even if he doesn't want to have a relationship beyond friendship, they may want to take a step forward, but it is not so easy to resist temptation. Judge whether your perfect lover has two feet on the same boat and observe how he accompanies you in social environment. If this guy is happy to brush off your hand in the crowd, he doesn't like you around when he is talking to strange women, or he doesn't like your public intimacy at the party, he is more willing to act like your opposite sex friend: just accompany you to the party, glance at you once or twice when talking to friends, and spend part of his time with you at the party. So you might as well show off yourself. When he is talking and laughing with the opposite sex in a corner, you flirt with other boys. Once he sees that you have your own fun and games, he will pay attention to you again. The fourth characteristic: Does he often stay with single people of the same sex? Does his same-sex friend encourage him to attend activities and parties that are only for men? Does his same-sex friend have any problems in dealing with sexual relations? Nightclubs, bachelor parties, men's activities, these activities women had better not know too many details, they generally do not worry women. However, the activity of "Men are Men" makes a committed man feel very comfortable, and the freedom of single life will attract him to stay in this state for a long time. A recent study of more than 37, people shows that men and women will be encouraged when they see their friends separated from the meaningful opposite sex in their lives. You may want to believe that his friends are rational enough to prevent him from getting intimate with girls who frequented nightclubs, but they often won't stand on your side. In fact, they will laugh at teasing and even encourage him to try it. At worst, they will cover for him. Of course, if your lover has enough ability to balance the relationship between you and his buddies, it is not the best choice to ban him from partying with same-sex friends. Sometimes you should find a way to attend such a party together. Your boyfriend's buddies are a little hostile to you, so you have to find a way to "break the ice", even if you have to pretend to be friendly with them. Once you win their respect, they are unlikely to push your partner to other women.