First of all, don't be superstitious. Look for problems from reality, and don't explore things that are superstitious about birthdays. You may think of these first, then have a bad feeling in your heart, and then get along with others with this bad feeling. When you encounter misunderstanding, you will naturally think of metaphysics instead of thinking about how the problems in reality happen. Or after the incident, I want to escape from reality, change physical things in the direction of metaphysics, and seek psychological comfort.
Deal with things, seek truth from facts, look at the problem dialectically (that is, don't just consider this side of the problem, it's either black or white, and don't go all the way down when there is insufficient evidence), and seize the main contradiction to solve the problem. This is my advice to you.
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