By the way, don't be too superstitious and feudal, as long as they really care about your children. ...
This custom varies from place to place, but there are no more than three situations:
1, friends get along very well, recognize an adoptive parent and often walk around to deepen feelings.
2. There are many friends, and relatives have complementary advantages, so they can help each other in transfer, promotion and employment.
3, with superstitious color. Most of them say in person that children have to find a foster parent to avoid disaster.
Every year we send eggs, because we want parents to treat their children as their own, and there is nothing else to pay attention to.
Listening to the old people, when they were born, parents were afraid that their children would be difficult to raise, so they went to "recognize dopted mother." There is also a ceremony about "recognizing godparents", and I want to prepare a big gift. I don't know how much it will cost. When I was old, it was a red envelope, Xiaomi, which seemed to weigh at least 40 pounds, and clothes. Then there must be pork, a large piece, and Xiaomi should be carrying "recognize the godmother". There should be more behind, and there should be ancestor worship or something.
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In old Jiaozuo, adopting parents is called "recognizing michel platini (Da) and godmother". In the past, people thought that children adopted their parents for good care, especially those with many children or poor families. The reason was that children from families with children, like flocks of small animals, grew up easily. There are generally more children in poor families, who are not effeminate, but will grow up; There are also two parents who recognize each other's children as adopted sons and daughters in order to enhance the feelings of the two families and have more relatives. All parts of the country have the habit of recognizing relatives, but the manners and customs are different. Now let's talk about the etiquette and custom of "recognizing michel platini and godmother" in old Jiaozuo.
The old Jiaozuo people think that recognizing dopted mother and michel platini will be unfavorable to dopted mother and michel platini's own biological children, so they are not close friends and never dare to agree to strangers' demands; Moreover, the two sides should give gifts to each other and hold banquets. Every year, after three festivals and two birthdays, all godsons and goddaughters should give gifts, and Michelle Platini and godmother should return gifts, so they can't afford entertainment.
It is a happy event to recognize the godmother, so it is natural to choose an auspicious day for the ceremony. On that day, the child's biological parents should prepare a banquet and a gift for the child to pay tribute to michel platini and dopted mother. The most important thing about this gift is michel platini's hat, dopted mother's shoes and materials. Michel platini and dopted mother will also send some gifts to their adopted sons and daughters. There must be a rice bowl, chopsticks and a longevity lock, as well as a set of small clothes, shoes and socks, hats, bibs, stomachs and so on. Rich people always order silver bowls and chopsticks in jewelry stores, or they go to temples to buy wooden bowls. Never use porcelain bowls to avoid being broken by children, which is unlucky. The ceremony for ordinary people to recognize their relatives is much simpler because the economy is not well off. As long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother, change their names to michel platini and dopted mother, and exchange symbolic gifts, it will be over. If the child is young and particularly delicate when recognizing the dopted mother, then when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will put on a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will hold the child out of the crotch, indicating that it is the same as their own children. Then his godmother will bring him a longevity lock and give him a nickname, and then he will eat with plates and chopsticks given by michel platini's godmother. It means: it is his children who eat his food, not his biological parents. From then on, with the blessing of michel platini and dopted mother, they will be able to live a long and healthy life.
I think people recognize affection, first for children, and second for embellishing their own lives, before they come up with various ways to find excitement and relieve loneliness. So this kind of thing is really caused by superstition, but it also has a strong human touch. In modern society, people's contacts are more frequent than before, and the economy is much richer. The phenomenon of recognizing relatives seems to be more than before, but there is no superstition anymore, just to decorate life, and the procedures are much simpler. For example, my son has recognized three michel platini (all my good friends) and a godmother (my wife's good friends), and my husband and wife have also recognized an adopted son and an adopted daughter, and they only acknowledge each other verbally, so that adults and children can often walk around each other during holidays and holidays, which will add some feelings.
Superstition is also common among Chengdu people.
A child who is ill and difficult to take care of is considered to have committed the "evil spirit" (encounter difficulties or evil spirits), so it is necessary to find a person of the same genus (calculated according to the five elements) for the child to be a michel platini to ensure peace, commonly known as. ......
What's the point of recognizing michel platini's dopted mother?
In rural areas, although there is no fixed procedure, michel platini, godmother, godbrother and godsister are recognized as godmothers. The reasons for the formation of confession are roughly like this. The two families are friends and have a good relationship. In order to make this connection relatively fixed, the method of letting the next generation recognize and confess is adopted to deepen communication. For example, foster parents, foster mothers and so on. Some are because one party has great kindness to the other family, and one party repays the kindness of the other party, so a long-term relationship with relatively fixed procedures is formed by adopting relatives and adopting children to achieve the purpose of gratitude. Also, because the children are delicate and afraid of premature death, they adopt the method of betraying relatives, and let the michel platini brothers and sisters leave their children behind, so that they can avoid misfortune and grow up. There are also some families, in order to climb to the top, become expensive, so that their children can recognize wealth as michel platini, or they can benefit from it in the future. There is also a new relationship between children and wet nurses by sending them to the wet nurse's house for breastfeeding. In rural areas, they are called wet nurses, wet dads and wet brothers. In fact, this is also a godmother relationship. There are various reasons for recognizing kinship, but the appearance of this kinship naturally makes the relationship between the two families enter a sequence of kinship exchange. Rural customs, once the dopted mother is recognized, everything should be carried out in accordance with the general procedures of rural exchanges. All children who recognize michel platini's godmother should follow the procedures of rural customs in celebrating the Chinese New Year and celebrating their birthdays. To be a godson, we should take care of michel platini and dopted mother, do our godson's duty and give some financial support. Michel platini dopted mother, on the other hand, has to ask her son about major activities such as getting married, having children and building a house, and give necessary support and funding. It is a happy event to recognize the godmother, so it is natural to choose an auspicious day for the ceremony. On that day, the child's biological parents should prepare a banquet and a gift for the child to pay tribute to michel platini and dopted mother. The most important thing about this gift is michel platini's hat, dopted mother's shoes and materials. Michel platini and dopted mother will also send some gifts to their adopted sons and daughters. There must be a rice bowl, chopsticks and a longevity lock, as well as a set of small clothes, shoes and socks, hats, bibs, stomachs and so on. Rich people always order silver bowls and chopsticks in jewelry stores, or they go to temples to buy wooden bowls. Never use porcelain bowls to avoid being broken by children, which is unlucky. The ceremony for ordinary people to recognize their relatives is much simpler because the economy is not well off. As long as the children formally kowtow to michel platini and dopted mother, change their names to michel platini and dopted mother, and exchange symbolic gifts, it will be over. If the child is young and particularly delicate when recognizing the dopted mother, then when recognizing the dopted mother, the dopted mother will put on a particularly fat red trousers and sit on the kang, and others will hold the child out of the crotch, indicating that it is the same as their own children. Then his godmother will bring him a longevity lock and give him a nickname, and then he will eat with plates and chopsticks given by michel platini's godmother. It means: it is his children who eat his food, not his biological parents. From then on, with the blessing of michel platini and dopted mother, they will be able to live a long and healthy life.
What rituals and precautions should be paid attention to when worshipping relatives?
The other is to worship michel platini and dopted mother. Friends may have heard the fortune teller say that the child is weak, so worship a godmother and help him. In fact, there is some truth in this. In the eight-character numerology, partial wealth is the father and positive seal is the mother. The eight-character weak body naturally uses the seal to help, and worshipping a godmother is the seal star. Giving more help to nature will also help you, and your children will be healthy and easy to raise. It is natural for rich and poor to worship michel platini. In real life, there are some beautiful girls, clever boys, and many people worship michel platini. These are actually to broaden their financial resources and find more convenience for their career. Some children are too prosperous, and those who offend their parents can't worship their godmother, because they are also prosperous, and worshipping a godmother will be even more prosperous and counterproductive. On the other hand, people who are healthy and have no vent can accept some adopted sons and daughters, which is also good for themselves, and can vent their arrogance and be healthier and luckier. Of course, these words are simple to say, depending on the combination of eight characters. The so-called pattern depends on the level and wealth with the gods, which cannot be explained clearly in a few words. All people in the world have their own lives, and these personal problems should be tailored for everyone. Whether you worship Platini's godmother or Jin Lan, you should be brothers and sisters. You can choose your marriage partner according to your zodiac sign. The following is teacher Tao's summary of the marriage of the zodiac: Zodiac rats: good luck and ill luck are accompanied by children, rats, sheep and horses will not live long, rabbits and chickens will be separated and broken, and dragons, monkeys and cows will be lucky. Zodiac cattle: mixed luck. Dragon and horse are sad, and sheep and dogs are reunited after the disaster. Daji will always be a rat, snake and chicken. Zodiac Tiger: It is a sea pig with mixed good and bad luck. Monkeys are suffering endlessly. Snakes destroy people and hurt their lives. Good luck depends on the match between a horse and a dog. Zodiac rabbit: The second auspicious snake, monkey and rabbit are also suitable. Cows and tigers are happy when they are in trouble, and dragons and phoenixes are lucky as sheep, pigs and dogs. Zodiac Dragon: Rabbits and dogs are difficult to match, but it is not appropriate to punish yourself in the morning. Rats, monkeys and chickens are the most auspicious, while snakes, horses and sheep are half suitable. Zodiac snake: Gigi has rabbits, sheep and rats, and there are fierce tigers in Gigi. Because of bitter failure, every pig and monkey did not encounter disaster, and no evil matched with cows and chickens. Zodiac horse: monkey, chicken, snake, dragon, second auspicious, sickly and short-lived, meet rabbit, horse and cow and lose their children, looking for a tiger, sheep and dog. Zodiac sheep: the second lucky thing is to find snakes, dragons and rabbits, and the sons are husband, mouse, cow and dog. Giving birth to children is most suitable for pigs, and Wang Caiwang matches rabbits and horses. Zodiac monkey: Gigi has dogs, rabbits and cows, pigs in distress due to illness, silver tigers in disasters and rats and dragons without punishment. Zodiac Chicken: Sheep, monkeys and pigs are lucky. Unexpected disasters meet chickens and mice, and children have no chance to meet dogs and rabbits. Happy snakes, dragons and cows. Zodiac dog: Gigi also watches dogs, pigs, snakes and Yulong chickens. Disasters overlap with sheep and cows, while tigers, rabbits and horses have leisure and fun. Zodiac pig: there is a fierce match between auspicious and yin tiger, and there is nothing wrong with monkeys. In life, pigs and snakes are hard to meet, and sheep eyebrows and rabbits are happy. Below, Mr. Tao will introduce to you the matters needing attention and basic procedures for general folk to worship their loved ones. Note the following points: 1. Worship godmother, consensual, soul mate, do not feel persecuted. If so, the meaning of worshipping godmother will be lost. 2. The relatives of the Godsworn should hold an oath ceremony. For example, brothers, godmothers and godmothers should all have them. You can't prove it by mouth alone. Let the world know the fate between you. 3. After the ceremony, this pair of relatives should get together frequently, make more phone calls, talk more, get together more, get together with each other on holidays, and increase the blending of their fate, so that the effect can be better. Common oath procedure: 1, choose the auspicious day of the zodiac. 2. Prepare fruit offerings, scented paper candles, drinks and wine glasses, and have relatives present as witnesses. 3. swearing-in ceremony. The specific methods are: placing offerings and lighting incense sticks. If brothers become sworn, take blood as an oath, define the division of brothers, worship heaven and earth, and let the people of heaven, earth, sun and moon help you as a witness. From then on, brothers called each other and shared weal and woe. If it's time to worship the godfather and godmother, you should bow down (now you can also worship tea) and then make a good routine promise to the godfather and godmother, which will help you better in numerology. Teacher Tao reminds friends that if you choose the right numerology, it will help people's fortune. Especially some weak children, if they can't eat well, are in poor health and get sick at both ends every three days, they should choose their parents' close friends to worship their loved ones. As long as the numerology is proper, the child will get better gradually.
What's the custom of recognizing dopted mother?
Worship relatives
"Worship godmother" is an adoptive father and foster mother, which is a popular conservation custom in China. In the north, it is called "recognize michel platini, godmother"; In the south, it is called "recognizing the father and sending the mother away", commonly known as "worshipping the house owner and the house mother".
Friar relatives in infancy may be permanent, and this relationship may last for a lifetime, or it may be temporary. It is irrelevant to meet each other in a hurry every three to five years. The object of "worshipping relatives" is both people and things. One of its purposes is to be afraid that children are delicate and difficult to have children, or that they have died before, and that they have no children, so as to avoid disasters and save their children by "worshipping relatives"; Second, the child's fate is not good, and the father and mother are forced to transfer their fate through "worshipping relatives" in order to achieve harmony and prosperity. In order to make children easy to raise, "worshipping godfathers and godmothers" generally like to recognize families with many children or poor families as adoptive parents, because children in families with many children are like a group of small animals and easy to grow up; In addition, poor families generally have more children and are not effeminate, but they are easy to feed and grow up. Of course, there are also two families who are willing to admit that each other's children are adopted sons and daughters in order to enhance their feelings. As for the rich people who regard Hannah Quinlivan and * * * as goddaughters, they have ulterior motives, which are beyond our discussion.
Due to the different geographical, ethnic and cultural backgrounds, the custom of "worshipping relatives" is also very different in etiquette and customs.
In Beijing, it is generally believed that to recognize michel platini, a dopted mother will be unfavorable to her own children, so she is not a close friend, and people generally dare not ask michel platini and Ma Yu if they are their own children; And worship the godmother, the two sides should exchange gifts and hold banquets. After that, every year, the godchildren will give gifts to michel platini and godmother, and michel platini and godmother will also give gifts back. Therefore, no wealthy family is difficult to socialize.
Since you want to "worship your relatives", you have to choose an auspicious day to hold the ceremony. At that time, parents should not only prepare a sumptuous banquet, but also prepare gifts for their children to pay tribute to michel platini and godmother. In this gift, the most important thing is the hat for michel platini and the shoes for dopted mother. In addition, items such as cloth should be provided. Of course, michel platini and dopted mother can't just go in and out. Michel platini and dopted mother must give their adopted sons and daughters rice bowls, chopsticks and a long life lock. In addition, they should also have a set of small clothes, such as shoes and socks, hats, bibs and stomachs. In the past, for these gifts, wealthy families would go to jewelry stores to order silver bowls and chopsticks, or go to Huguo Temple and Baita Temple to buy wooden bowls to prevent children from breaking them by mistake. It is considered unlucky to break the bowl in case.
In some places in Henan and Shaanxi, "worshipping relatives" is done by "touching". In Zhengzhou and Kaifeng, Henan Province, on the first morning of a baby's birth, the baby's father will go out and "touch" his surname. The first person "touches" the baby's father, regardless of sex, age, and child, will kneel and kowtow, and then explain to him that he has a baby at home and ask the other person to name the baby. In the past, most people in rural areas were old scavengers. Some people were unprepared, but because of customs, it was inconvenient to shut them out, so they had to make up their minds. As a result, names such as "Dung Basket", "Rotou", "Dog Baby" and "Cat Baby" came out. Although these names are a bit indecent, they are just nicknames, which are people's favorite names for children. It doesn't matter much if they are called children. In some places, people who are "touched" not only give the baby a name, but also give the baby a gift and are recognized as godmothers. In some places in Shaanxi, the "recognition of godmother" is usually carried out by grandmother or grandfather on the day of the child's "full moon", and the first adult who meets after going out is worshipped as godmother or michel platini. Of course, this kind of "collision" is random, and most occasions are arranged in advance. The first person Bump meets is someone who has a good relationship with his family or status.
In Hangzhou, children also have a custom of "visiting relatives". The godfather godmother they worship is not a real person, but a "ghost" often mentioned in Lu Xun's articles. There, "parents are afraid that their son will not live long, and they are afraid that it will cost a lot of money to worship their parents, so they will not give it to others, but to ghosts", commonly known as "worship Hu Ganye". According to local legend, ghosts are ghosts specially sent by Yan Luowang to detain the souls of the dead. He sent his children to the ghost, hoping that it would not detain his son's soul to protect his longevity. In the past, the world didn't know the name of the ghost and mistakenly thought it was Hu's surname, so it was called "Hu Ganye". The way to pay homage to Hu Ganye is that the children's parents first make a brand-new white dress and then take it to the temple. ......
Who is suitable to recognize michel platini dopted mother?
(1) When you punish your parents with eight characters, you must recognize your godparents. In folk fortune-telling, there was a popular saying that when a child's horoscope was too strong, commonly known as "life was too hard", those fortune-tellers would suggest recognizing michel platini and godmother. After many people's practice and summary, this is really a good way to solve the problem that children punish their parents. Then, there is a problem here, that is, what kind of eight-character is too hard and too healthy. Judging from the eight characters, there are too many shoulders or too many sheep blades in the general pattern, which is called "bow" in the hit. If there is another flying blade, this flying blade is an "arrow", which is too strong and too hard. For example, the following eight words: I didn't apply for an ugly thing, and my daily expenses were dirt, but it was too prosperous. A combination of strength and wealth was formed above the sky. In this case, please be sure to give your child a godmother and a godfather! (2) michel platini dopted mother should also be recognized when the eight-character day rushes. Some people say that it is strange that children in some families have a good relationship with their parents; However, in some families, the relationship between children and parents is always in trouble. Ask me what the reason is. I said, if you look at the cause and effect of the third generation, it must be a kind of karma. Judging from the current facts, it must be the child's own eight characters, and there have been some cases of rushing to the parents' palace. For example, the year and month rushed to the ground, because the year and month generally represent the parents' palace. Once you are in a hurry, it means that your relationship with your parents will be very poor and it is easy to produce contradictions. In this case, please be sure to recognize michel platini and dopted mother for your child! For example, this character: Ganzao: Xin Mao Ding You Ding Hai Geng Zi, there are cases where Xin Mao and Ding Youtian can rush to the ground in June, so we must recognize dopted mother and dopted mother. (3) When the eight-character offender is heartless, he should also worship his godmother and godmother. Therefore, whether you want to recognize your parents depends not only on your personal preferences, but also on your suitability. After years and predecessors' practice, some children have recognized their adoptive parents, which will be much smoother when they grow up, and will also help their children's development. Someone asked, is this a change of fate? This is definitely not. It's just an appropriate adjustment within the scope of fate. Fate is still in everyone's own circle of Tai Chi and radius setting. How can we change our destiny? However, compared with life, it is still relatively smooth. Of course, this is a limited change. All articles are original and plagiarism is prohibited. I reserve the right to investigate the legal responsibility of offenders.
What's the point of recognizing michel platini's dopted mother?
My dad is also someone else's godfather. It's best to just focus on his dad and my dad. And I heard that when he was a child, a fortune teller said that his life was bad, so I found a godfather to raise him to make a big disaster. A little superstitious. . Nothing now, knowing a godfather means having another relative in the family. We usually have a good relationship and can help each other if something happens.
What's the point of recognizing michel platini's dopted mother's surname?
Generally speaking, there is nothing particular about it. If both parties agree, the adopted son can change his surname to michel platini, and most people follow local customs.
Are you particular about recognizing michel platini's dopted mother?
Ask the old people at home what they know, or find a fortune teller, but if you really do that, it will be a psychological problem.
Which eight words are suitable for recognizing michel platini and godmother?
Recently, more and more parents will recognize their parents and godmothers when their children encounter any situation. In fact, many times now, some people, whether appropriate or not, give their children a "contract", that is, they all want to find a godmother and a godfather. Not all of them are suitable. So some people's lives are not suitable for recognizing their parents. So from the perspective of fortune-telling, which eight-character people do you need to recognize michel platini and dopted mother? The following is a summary of several situations, which parents can refer to: First, when the weather is urgent, you should also recognize the godfather godmother. Some people say that it is strange that children in some families have a good relationship with their parents; However, in some families, the relationship between children and parents is always in trouble. Ask me what the reason is. I said, if you look at the cause and effect of the third generation, it must be a kind of karma. Judging from the current facts, it must be the child's own eight characters, and there have been some cases of rushing to the parents' palace. For example, the year and month rushed to the ground, because the year and month generally represent the parents' palace. Once you are in a hurry, it means that your relationship with your parents will be very poor and it is easy to produce contradictions. In this case, please be sure to recognize michel platini and dopted mother for your child! For example, this character: Ganzao: Xin Mao Ding You Ding Hai Geng Zi, there are cases where Xin Mao and Ding Youtian can rush to the ground in June, so we must recognize dopted mother and dopted mother. Second, when punishing parents in eight characters, we must recognize the godfather godmother. In folk fortune-telling, there was a popular saying that when a child's horoscope was too strong, commonly known as "life was too hard", those fortune-tellers would suggest recognizing michel platini and godmother. After many people's practice and summary, this is really a good way to solve the problem that children punish their parents. Then, there is a problem here, that is, what kind of eight-character is too hard and too healthy. Judging from the eight characters, there are too many shoulders or too many sheep blades in the general pattern, which is called "bow" in the hit. If there is another flying blade, this flying blade is an "arrow", which is too strong and too hard. For example, the following eight words: I didn't apply for an ugly thing, and my daily expenses were dirt, but it was too prosperous. A combination of strength and wealth was formed above the sky. In this case, please be sure to give your child a godmother and a godfather! Third, when the eight-character offender is ruthless, he should also worship his godmother and godmother. What is heartless? Actually, a friend practiced Buddhism. For example, he was born in the first month, and his time of birth belongs to Zishi, Yin Shi and Youshi, or he was born in April, and his time of birth is Shi Si, Qushi and Shihai, so it is heartless. In this case, it is best to worship your parents again, that is, to recognize michel platini and dopted mother. If this happens to a child, you must! Therefore, whether you want to recognize your parents depends not only on your personal preferences, but also on your suitability. After years and predecessors' practice, some children have recognized their adoptive parents, which will be much smoother when they grow up, and will also help their children's development. Someone asked, is this a change of fate? This is definitely not. It's just an appropriate adjustment within the scope of fate. Fate is still in everyone's own circle of Tai Chi and radius setting. How can we change our destiny? However, compared with life, it is still relatively smooth. Of course, this is a limited change. Parents do their best to consider their children and make their future life smooth and safe. In fact, sometimes it is necessary to combine the child's specific eight-character situation. Never act blindly!
What's the point of worshipping michel platini's dopted mother?
As far as I know, please add:
1, michel platini dopted mother must be happily married; Good health; There are old people in the world and little people in the world.
2. Recognized parents should have children of the opposite sex with their own children;
3. Give parents a red envelope when you recognize it (this should be left until the child grows up), and then take a pair of chopsticks, a bowl and a little rice from his house.