Everyone has a name of their own from birth. A name not only represents a person, but is also a carrier of information between people. Have better recognition in collective life. Our names not only contain the good wishes from the elders to the younger ones, but they may also commemorate the major events that happened when we were born.
Regardless of whether we have a two-letter name, a three-letter name, or a four-letter name, the surname must come first. The surname is the identifier of the family, and children can inherit it from either father or mother. Most of the "names" are chosen by the elders. In our country, names can also be divided into many types, including nicknames, nicknames, pen names, stage names, etc.
Usually after we are born, our name will accompany us throughout our lives, so many parents will take it seriously, and some parents even take a long time to determine the name of their child. However, some parents are very casual and give their children a name at will. This name may accompany the child throughout his life and affect the child's life.
Recently, there was a primary school student in Shiyan, Hubei Province, whose name was so special that it aroused heated discussion among the whole school. It turns out that his name is "Mount Zhumulangma". Except for the first character, the other four characters are the same as "Mount Everest", the highest peak in my country. His name was determined by a random stroke his father made when registering his household registration when he was born.
Xiao Zhumulangma was ridiculed and ridiculed at school because of his name. I am also becoming more and more introverted in the class, unwilling to communicate with my classmates. He was even afraid of teachers and classmates calling his name in public, because every time he called him, there would be a burst of laughter, followed by endless sarcasm from his classmates.
There are many children like Xiao Zhu. Because their names were teased at school, they became depressed and their personality was also affected to a certain extent. Many willful parents believe that their children are their own and it is their right to name their children, so they deliberately choose some "distinctive" and weird names, and even use some "uncommon words".
When we were young, although the names were relatively simple, for example, the names of our parents' generation were mostly "Jianguo", "Lifen" and so on. But their names have a strong commemorative significance and are to commemorate the founding of New China. There are also many names whose parents name their children based on their birth dates, hoping that their children will have a safe, healthy and bright future.
Although the younger generation of parents are no longer easily superstitious, they give their children random names for their own reasons. It has neither a good meaning nor a smooth tone. Many homophones and uncommon words may even affect children's normal life and study in society when they grow up.
The parents of today’s new generation were basically born after the reform and opening up. They have experienced the openness and tolerance of the entire society and culture, so their personalities have become more and more prominent. When choosing a name for your child after birth, you pursue individuality. Therefore, comparing the names of our generation or previous generations, it seems even more dazzling and varied.
Names often accompany children throughout their lives, and even changing them later is very troublesome. So as parents, we must think twice before choosing a name for our children. The names we choose for our children must have beautiful connotations or have certain meanings. Although we choose a name in pursuit of personality in order to make it fresh in everyone's memory, we must also consider it carefully.
In order to avoid "falling into the pit", I would like to give you some personal suggestions. First of all, don't get a name that is too loud, such as: Tianyi, Emperor, etc. This will put a certain amount of psychological pressure on the child and make the child ridiculed by people around him. Secondly, don’t have the same name as a great person or celebrity, so that children can easily compare them in life. Then don't choose a name that sounds homophonic, as it is easy to misunderstand and make the child laugh. Finally, do not use uncommon characters or names that are too long. This will not be conducive to the children introducing themselves to the group and making friends, and it will also be conducive to name input on electronic devices, which will affect the children's life and work.
Summary:
Although a name only represents a person’s title, this title accompanies us throughout our lives. A name that sounds good and has a beautiful meaning will make you feel happy, and a "sparkling" codename will also make others refreshing and memorable.
Therefore, as parents, we must be careful and pay attention when choosing names for our children. Often, a good name we choose may make the child brighter, otherwise a willful name may spoil the child for a lifetime." trouble".