First, the mature eight-character motto of love, I will tell you in the first class: treat each other as equals and work together.
Second, the three stages of love maturity:
Considerations before falling in love:
The most important thing to find a partner is to seek common ground while reserving differences. In important aspects, they have the same pursuit, trivial things admit differences, respect and understand each other. Just like two diamonds, we only need the largest cross section to reflect each other, so as to have a good foundation. Good people are not the first to get there. If you marry him, you will die happily and live a good life. The so-called good man and his wife grow up together, which is a creative love. I made you, you are the only thrill, and you made me. True love is creation, not acquisition. The art of love
Mentality in love: (marriage stage)
It's not easy to keep in love, just like playing video games and rubbing your hands for by going up one flight of stairs. One level will be more difficult than another, but one level will gain more than another. About marriage, marriage is the stage of love, not the grave. If you have a multi-stage view of love, you will know that the difficulty is different between different stages. Practice a lot and get high marks.
Face after love: mature love-boiling water theory;
After learning this course, you will find that there is nothing mysterious, and the most important thing is sincerity. Mature love reaches the highest level, and the most precious thing is affection. Love comes to the family, just like a glass of white water. It has no special taste, but it can quench your thirst (life comes for love, and love and being loved are the foundation of people's survival and struggle). This is the highest state. The triangle theory of mature love. Passion, passion, intimacy, intimate commitment, commitment
Third, the details of love
1 ambiguous.
Ambiguity, to a certain extent, is a sign of self-distrust. If you believe that he likes you, why are you ambiguous? Life is short, ambiguity is not a guarantee, it is self-deception. Don't let anything fool you. Ambiguity is the sweetest period. Ambiguity is the first small stage in the progress of love relationship. Don't be stuck here, it's complicated, it's hard for yourself, and it takes time.
About unrequited love. Bad men have no unrequited love.
A I remember suffering from the right girl/right girl syndrome: Teacher Sun recalled his first love and was often stuck in why a good man didn't get a good reward here. Thought sincerity would be exchanged for sincerity. Solution: contact with the opposite sex more. The prodigal son (bad man) in love has a stunning effect on girls, that is, uncertainty. Playing with girls in applause, the prodigal son feels that he has capital, three noes, no responsibility, no heart and nothing …
B learn to deal decisively with unrequited love (which can rise to personality problems). If one party's expression is not answered or improperly expressed, it will often get into trouble.
3 About long-distance love.
Long distance love in love is not a problem, but an excuse. In the distance is a street lamp. If you lose your key, don't get stuck under it. The key lies in love itself.
4 on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
My girlfriend and mother fell into the water. This is a hypothesis. Don't fall into the trap. If your girlfriend asks, what do you say? Oh, dear! Of course, I saved you first. Mom is old. According to the theory of evolution, the survival of young people is more valuable to race and society ... If mom asks, just say, Oh, of course, I saved you first, mom! How can I forget my mother for the bride! The bride can find another one, I only have one! If everyone is present, hehe, then we can only say, let's learn swimming together. Dilemma is a boring question. Answer with wisdom.