1. When should we get married?
When should we get married? We should not only follow the general principles, but also embody our own values. Friends first need to understand:
A very good year.
1, Shuangchun
There are two "beginning of spring" years in a year: the beginning and the end. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.
2, leap month
It means that there was a leap month in the lunar calendar that year, which was thirteen months in total. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.
3. Double spring and leap month
"Double Spring" and "Leap Moon" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!
A year of caution
1, blind year
Refers to the days when there is no "beginning of spring" all the year round. Usually, the second year of "double spring" is a "blind year". However, the "blind year" also has auspicious days, so there is basically no need to get married in the blind year.
2. festivals
Avoid January, so as not to conflict with the big holiday of Chinese New Year. It is best to choose auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional festivals and should not be held for happy events.
3.sanniangsha
According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang rebelled against the elder, specializing in new people's happy events, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.
People have taboo customs in their daily life. If you are lucky, you can say it. If you are unlucky, you should avoid saying it. Therefore, there is a saying that "the spirit is good or not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen", and all weddings and happy events do not need the thirteenth lunar month.
Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong. He had thirteen sons, and everyone said yes. Relying on his thirteen sons, Yang Gong often said to people, "I have thirteen sons, even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid. Even if one dies in twelve months and one month a year, I still have a son to die for me. "
Coincidentally, one year happened, which happened to have a leap month. Yang Gong's sons got an epidemic and died one after another. By the end of1February, Yang Gong's 13 sons had all died, leaving him alone, and the scene at night was very bleak. People say that everything that happened to Yang Gong was because of his ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number.
4. Birthdays of newcomers and relatives
Avoid the birthdays of husband and wife themselves, parents and unmarried brothers and sisters. If your parents are dead, avoid their jealousy and jealousy.
5. Happy or sad.
Within a year, it is best not to have two weddings at home. If an immediate family member dies, it is not appropriate to hold a happy event that year. Second, the special principle of date selection.
Dr. Zheng said that the wedding date should not only follow the general principles, but also reflect its own value. This value is the zodiac and birthday of men and women.
1, the important principle of choosing a day
Give priority to the bride's date of birth, and refer to the man and other dates of birth. As the saying goes: "Give birth to children, marry a woman and marry", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore. Specifically, the most auspicious wedding date is calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. This "auspicious day" is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. The five elements are suitable for weddings and cannot compete with the man's wealth stars and the woman's official stars (except those with many wealth officials).
2. Parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days.
In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. At least not with parents' horoscopes (five elements demand), nor with parents' food-injured stars (except those with serious food injuries).
3. Can't conflict with the official star day and the financial star day stipulated by the divinatory symbols.
The date chosen does not conflict with the prophecy. Some people are not sure when they were born. They can only determine the date through divination, and the date cannot conflict with the official star day and the fortune star day stipulated by divination.
4. Registration and wedding date
If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it is best to do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.
The above are some common methods and precautions for choosing a wedding date. In the process of actually choosing the date, we should still refer to the opinions and suggestions of professionals. I hope everyone can have their own good days!
The above is about whether the wedding date needs to be counted as eight characters, and about the sharing of marriage. Read the eight characters to see how to choose the wedding date, I hope this will help everyone!