When it comes to marriage, it's not natural at all. As we all know, some people ask that fate is natural, and it's not natural at all. In addition, some people want to ask what marriage is predestined. What do you mean, do you know what this is about? In fact, everything is life, and it is not human at all. What do you mean? Let's take a look at the fate together. It's natural, and it's not human at all. I hope I can help you! Marriage is doomed to nothing
1. Marriage is doomed to nothing: fate is doomed to nothing?
A Zhe tells a story: Marriage is predestined, and it's not special at all because of people
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There is a couple who are congenial to each other, almost to the point of "not marrying unless you are a gentleman or a concubine", and not only do both parents agree to their association, but even relatives and friends think that they are a natural couple. But yes, the woman's mother took their birthdates to tell her fortune, and the result was: the eight characters didn't match, so she made a mistake. After the fortune teller came back, the woman's mother began to strongly oppose their continued contact.
Disappointed, the man promised his mother to arrange a blind date for him soon, and decided to get married after two months of contact with each other. However, two days before their wedding, their ex-girlfriend suddenly called and said: Her mother took their birthdates to ask God again a few days ago, and the result was exactly the opposite of the last time: she got a "sign". Now her mother has agreed to their marriage.
The news came as a bolt from the blue for him, telling his parents that he wanted to break off his marriage, but his parents didn't agree, thinking it was a kind of harm to others. Besides, the restaurant was booked, the invitations were sent out, and the wedding photos were taken. How can he say that he would break off his marriage? He also told him that marriage should be carried out in the blessing of all, and should not be obtained by hurting one party. He had to compromise when what was done was done. Everything is life, and nothing can be helped by people. What do you mean?
As the saying goes, "Marriage is predestined, and nothing can be helped. That is to say, there is a force in the dark that brings two people together, and sometimes it is impossible to force them.
2. Marriage is doomed by fate: Marriage is doomed by fate. What does it mean?
Source: Ming Feng Menglong's "Warning to the World" 17: He was thirty-two years old, and he was lucky, just as Mr. Zhang Tiekou predicted. It can be seen that everything is life, and nothing can be helped by people. The marriage is predestined.
Interpretation: (Ma Gongzi) was thirty-two years old, and he was lucky, just as Mr. Zhang Tiekou calculated. It can be seen: it's all destiny takes a hand, and no one can decide at all.
Marriage, in the old days, was called the fate of marriage. It is not only fate, but also importune. There are several houses in life that are doomed.
Source: Ming Lingmengchu's Surprise at the First Engraving, Volume 5: If it is not a marriage, you can't force it before your eyes.
Interpretation: If it is not a marriage fate, you can't force it even if you put it in front of you. It was miserable before zhengyuan came.
Life really predestines who you marry.
1. The concept of predestination is rarely used directly between friends and relatives. As an abstract virtual concept, it aims to connect all people with unstable relationships, but this statement is basically not used among people with mature relationships.
Of course, in weddings, conferences and other occasions, outsiders often play a role to express their views on "fate", which is actually a way to describe the status quo of alienated relations. The word "fate" often has a certain far-fetched attachment meaning, adding "fate" to those who have no "fate".
2. Social idioms. As a panacea concept in interpersonal relationships, the concept of predestination hardly contains any derogatory meaning in the traditional concept of China people, and has become a safe social term.
3. Marriage is predestined by people: everything is fate, and it is not helped by people at all. What do you mean?
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