Notes on narrow workplace 1: the face of a gentleman

The ancients said that you are a saint inside and a king outside, that is, if you reach the level of a saint inside, you will naturally have the appearance of a king on your face. Laozi: Liang Jia hides Ruo Xu deeply, a gentleman is virtuous, and his appearance is foolish. Of course, your face was born when you were a teenager, but your later face was really self-cultivated. Your personality determines one part of your face, and the other part is what you pursue for a long time (domineering, elegant, peaceful, heroic, etc.), so what is reflected in your face accordingly. Generally speaking, unreasonable people face "present"; The insidious person's face muscles are tight and "blue-gray"; People with "triangle eyes" have many calculations; "Glass presbyopia" people, face to face, behind a set; People who kill their hearts have "rage" on their faces; People with "big ears" are open-minded; "People with thin and moist lips" can speak, speak and so on.

? What is the face of a gentleman? It is called "looking at it as if it is warm", which is the face of Zhou Enlai and Shao Yifu in his later years.

? It is just serious and solemn, but there is no other murderous look, hostility, domineering, arrogance, humor, etc., just serious and solemn (this is very important). Even if they are warm, they are really in contact with the conversation, and they are warm, gentle and moist. Simply speaking, this kind of person can believe him in two seconds as soon as he sees his face and posture, and you don't doubt that he exists (because you really can't see anything else). In terms of efficiency, it takes two seconds to make people trust and how many times or months to trust, and how many opportunities you have to lose.

Take a look, there are few provincial and ministerial-level cadres with sharp edges and corners. Because peacetime is too sharp edges and corners (due to personality), it is difficult for you to stand out when you are young (except when you meet special events). When you are not sharp edges and corners, you are over the age group and often stop at the county level. Angular people tend to have outstanding personalities. On the one hand, they tend to be arrogant, on the other hand, they will not be respectful to their superiors (they always believe that they can do it on their own). On the other hand, there will be one or two opposites or people's evaluation of him will be polarized.

the face of a gentleman is the road to life cultivation. If we are not a big official, we can't make a fortune. We don't have to work hard. But reaching a higher level of accomplishment is completely self-effort (including associating with some friends in the upper position, through whom you can truly understand the world, the ups and downs, and the "avenue" …, because the accomplishment divorced from the national economy and people's livelihood is false accomplishment; Nan huaijin said that "the real practice is the world of mortals to practice the mind"), and after entering a higher level of psychological and spiritual wisdom, the brilliance of people's hearts and human nature is also unknown to outsiders.