Not only that, you can forget some love birthdays and wedding anniversaries when you were young, but the concept of time that you remember clearly in your mind begins to shrink, which means that your wife's feelings have problems. 2. Emotional impermanence When a person is doing something that even he feels disgraceful and loses to others, his psychology is often timid. He always tries his best to cover up the truth, hide traces, and try to minimize things so as not to expose his failure and arouse the vigilance and suspicion of onlookers.
By the same token, a wife who has changed her mind and found another lover, no matter how she disguises or creates false appearances to confuse your judgment, as long as she observes carefully, it is not difficult to find the clues of her change of heart, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody, critical and heartless than before. 3, habit change According to common sense, most of our sudden changes in some habits and routines are for a reason.
For example, a person who is not very enthusiastic about the work of the unit suddenly claims that he is very busy at work recently, needs to work overtime, and wants to go out on a business trip. This is incredible. For example, a wife who is very enthusiastic about housework suddenly becomes negligent in housework, often goes out in a hurry, and says she won't go home for dinner tonight. It's as strange as always being a close friend, and suddenly it becomes close. These two people either have ulterior motives, or they have hidden dangers and changed their faces to show their tails.
4. Increase activities This is actually one of the most important details in habit change. Women's strategies are often simple. It is generally impossible for you to marry a woman with calculating strategy like bond girl, so once an unsociable lover begins to go out in various occasions, we can't say that the wife's personality has changed from introversion to extroversion in morning runs and bar parties, but we can attribute the reason to an excuse. A woman who keeps saying that she doesn't like oranges has a high phone bill every day. The US federal agents can find out your specific address according to when you call, and can also infer whether it is an affair according to the frequency of your wife's phone call. Telephone is a common way of communication and dating in life.
However, the phone number of an affair is often abnormal, just like Yan Shouyi's lie in Xiaogang Feng's movie Cell Phone, and women are no exception. When lying, you can ensure that your face is not red, your neck is not thick, you are out of breath, and you are as realistic as nothing. Of course, I'm not here to ask you to doubt your lover for no reason, but to find it in time and save it. 6. the cost has soared. I wonder if your family's income is open? It would be much easier if your salary income was reimbursed once a month and there were large expenditures recorded at any time.
After a woman has an affair, her expenses increase, and most of the money is spent on buying a series of private cosmetics to ensure that her youth is invincible and attract men. Sometimes, she will deliberately express her true feelings to the man she likes, such as suits. Men spend money on mistresses, and so do women, so she secretly saves money and hides all the extra income from her husband to meet her own needs. 7, dull eyes Only in menopause, women will forget to buy milk powder for their children today and put the clothes to be washed in the washing machine tomorrow. When they are free, they will be in a daze with no light in their eyes and look trance. Looking at the mountains seems to be full of worries, but she will not take the initiative to tell me what is wrong, but silently ponder.
At this time, if you ask her if she is sick or not, she won't pretend not to know that you are calling her and talking to her, but she will turn her head and keep smiling at you with a different expression: honey, I'm fine, go to sleep first, hmm. 8. Amnesia has been said countless times in previous articles. Women in love tend to have much smaller hearts than men. Men are often careless, but women can remember interesting things about your love period.
And every time I talk to you, I always say, you see, we were often chased at that time. If I let you walk half a step at night, I may marry that man, or you are lucky. But if you ask your wife now, if she used to talk to you often, I dare say she is getting impatient. You find it as if da ji were possessed by a fox. Second, judging whether the husband is having an affair starts with the following points: (1) 42 changes.
1, he started exercising, especially jogging (he may have gone to another woman's house). 2. He stopped having sex with you often, or began to try new methods.
He began to pay attention to diet or lose weight. 4. He started to buy new clothes; From boxers to crotch guards, I don't even like it; The material of clothes changed from cotton to silk.
He gets nervous when the phone rings. When answering the phone, he will try to speak in a low voice. He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends.
7. He began to look for reasons to stay out of it. 8. He is on a business trip and doesn't tell you the itinerary, flight and hotel information.
When you ask him where he is going and when he will come back, he will yell at you, and he will say, you can't contact him at all. 9. He will go out alone on weekends for some bad reasons.
10, when you ask him when to go home, or where to go, he will be very unhappy and angry. He began to hide credit card receipts and phone bills.
12, he started to have his own private telephone. 13. As soon as he got home, he went to take a shower or brush his teeth.
14. He kept his travel and the people he met secret. When you show some interest in his private affairs, even if it is only normal interest, he will recognize it.
2. A hate for disloyalty to his wife is divorce!
Your wife is a bitch who can't even be loyal to her marriage. She challenges your bottom line with luck at the expense of her family. When she dares to betray you and cheat on another man's bed, it is well thought out. It also shows that two people have known each other for a long time, and chatting has cultivated feelings. You have been kept in the dark, and a family can't resist the feelings of other men for her. More and more addicted. There are only women who never cheat once in the world, and there are no women who cheat only once. What you need is an excellent woman with a sense of family responsibility, not a prostitute you let other men fuck behind your back!
3. The poem describes Wang's infidelity to his wife: Ye Shaoweng.
Perhaps my master was worried that my wooden shoes trampled his precious moss and tapped Chai Men lightly, but no one opened it for a long time.
But this spring spring, after all, can't be caged. Look, there is a pink apricot sticking out of the wall.
-It's not worth going to the park.
Sentence annotation
(1) It's not worthwhile to visit the park: I didn't enter the door if I wanted to visit the park. Value, encountered; Not worth it. I have no chance.
(2) Should be pitied: I am distressed. Should, say guess; Pity Toe(jρ):Toe is a kind of wooden shoe with high heels on the front and back of the sole, called Toe.
(3) Small buckle: tap lightly. Chai Fei (fēi): A door made of firewood and branches. [2-3]
Vernacular translation
Perhaps the owner of the garden was worried that my clogs would trample on his precious moss and tapped Chai Men, but no one came to open it for a long time.
But the spring scenery in this garden can't be caged after all. Look, there is a pink apricot flower on the wall. [2-3]
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Literary appreciation
Poetry and painting "Garden is worthless"
This poem is about February in the south of the Yangtze River. The clouds are light and the sun is shining. On impulse, the poet came to the door of a small garden to see the flowers and trees in the garden. He knocked on Chai Men a few times and didn't respond; I knocked a few more times, but no one answered. The poet guessed that he was afraid that the moss in the garden would be trampled, so he closed the door and thanked the guests. It is disappointing that the poet is thinking and wandering outside the garden. When he was helpless and ready to leave, he looked up and suddenly saw a blooming apricot flower sticking out of the wall. "Spring scenery can't be closed, and an apricot is out of the wall." From the blooming apricot flowers, the poet appreciates the vibrant spring scenery in the garden and feels the beauty of spring. Finally, he is glad that he has come.
Poetically speaking, there is moss in front of the door, indicating that the garden is quiet and the owner is not at home. Knocking on the door for a long time and no one answered, it was even more deserted. However, all the love is still revealed. Writing prosperity from the cold silence makes people feel an unexpected joy.
This poem has many advantages in writing. One is to write about spring scenery, grasp the characteristics and highlight the key points. "Lu You's" Work at once "says:" The rain comes early, and it is in the clouds during the day. Willow doesn't cover spring scenery, but an apricot goes out of the wall. "Be good at highlighting key points, and set off the beauty of' red apricot' with the golden color and green color of' willow'. Ye Shaoweng's poems should be born out of Lu You's poems, personifying the red apricot with the word "Chu", grasping the characteristics of spring scenery and highlighting the key points.
The second is "doing more with less money", which is implicit. For example, "an apricot" is a concrete expression of "all love", and an apricot represents a hundred flowers in the wall.
The third is that there is love in the scene and characters in the poem, and they are beautiful and noble people. Although the door is set, it is always closed, and it goes without saying that it will not open for a long time. He is too lazy to socialize and has no intention of making money. Although the door is often closed, all the love overflows the wall. His nature, Gao Fushuai, is even more touching and reverie.
Fourth, not only the scenery contains emotion, but also the scenery contains reason, which can cause many associations, thus giving people philosophical enlightenment and spiritual encouragement. "Spring Garden can't be closed, and an apricot is out of the wall." Spring scenery is between "off" and "out", breaking through the fence and overflowing the garden, showing a vigorous and locked vitality. Later generations endowed these two poems with philosophy of life: new things will definitely break through many difficulties, stand out and flourish. These two poems have been reborn and circulated endlessly. [ 1] [4]
4. Poems that satirize women's affair. In ancient poetry, "apricot blossom" has always been synonymous with spring scenery, and related poems are full of famous sentences such as "red apricot branches are full of spring" and "apricot blossom news rain". Compared with peach blossoms, apricot blossoms are more appreciated by literati and poets. Why? Yang Wanli has a poem "Apricot Flowers": "White words are not true white, and scarlet letters are not red. Please red and white, don't look at nature. " This is neither white nor red, it's very powerful. If you are a delicate and shy person, it is easy to cause a lot of reverie. Peach blossom has always been an adjective of "death" and "death of peach". Brilliant red splash is far less subtle than the apricot blossom with "white inside and red outside".
The famous beauty associated with apricot flowers is Yang Guifei. After Yang Yuhuan's death in Maweipo, Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty was obsessed with this and sent someone to collect his body. There are no more beautiful bones, only apricot flowers. So Yang Guifei was honored by the people as the God of Apricot Blossoms in February. Once the apricot blossom is associated with Yang Guifei's beauty, the word romantic will naturally fall. Li Yu, an erotic novelist in the Qing Dynasty, even talked nonsense: "People who plant fake apricots will bear countless fruits if they tie their skirts to trees. Yu Chu did not believe it, so he gave it a try. There is nothing better than the apricot tree, which is called the romantic tree. "