First of all, write the requirements of the memorial tablet. You know, writing a memorial tablet is to set a place for these ghosts and gods. If we don't write memorial tablets for ghosts and gods, they can't enter the Dojo. How can they get in? Write them a memorial tablet. The memorial tablet is their passport, not their position.
Be respectful when writing a memorial tablet. When writing a memorial tablet, you can't write homophones or variant characters. Every word of the name should be written accurately and cannot be replaced by other words. It's wrong, and ghosts and gods can't get in. So when we write a memorial tablet for someone, we must ask the correct name. Chinese characters are very complicated, and there are many homophones, so be careful. When family members provide names, they don't understand or pay attention, but we should pay attention. Be sure to ask word by word, word by word.
Secondly, writing should be neat. Some people write cursive characters and write the memorial tablets in a mess, which is not acceptable. What should I do? Writing in print, one stroke at a time, this is one. The other one cannot be changed. In the process of writing, if I make a mistake, I have seen many memorial tablets. When I make a mistake, I will smear it with a pen and then write again. This is not allowed, not allowed, and not allowed. What if I did something wrong? Fold it respectfully and rewrite it with another one. This must be known.
Two lines should be written behind the memorial tablet: which year, which month, which day and when; On the other line, you should write "died of", that is, when, when and when you died. After writing this way, when I get to the ghost king, I won't mention the wrong person.
Tell you, the writing of memorial tablets and tombstones should be clear to others. People don't have to ask whether the parents, in-laws and elders of the deceased are still alive, just look at the tombstone. When a woman dies, people will know whether the husband of the deceased is still alive, whether she has grandchildren and whether her parents are still alive by looking at the memorial tablet. The memorial tablet is clear at a glance.
According to China's writing method since ancient times, after the death of parents, parents can't be written or called. They call their parents when they are alive. After their death, their father's name was Gao and their mother's name was Cong. Kao Kao and Cong Cong, Kao Kao is the father and Cong is the mother. When my father died, I can't say that my father died. That's the biggest disrespect for my father. I must call it the first test or the obvious test. If we examine the memorial tablet first, outsiders will know that it was set by the dead son of his father. But there are old people in his family, that is, the deceased has a father and a mother. At least one person is here, or his parents are gone, and his parents-in-law are still in the world. Why do you say that? Because as long as one person in the world is with his parents and elders, he can only be told to go first when he dies. He goes first and leads. In this family, he hasn't shown it yet, so he is called "the first".
If his parents, in-laws and elders are gone, and he still has a grandson, then he is the oldest person in the family. Just write "show", show. He is the most distinguished person in the family, known as Xiankao. If there are no grandchildren, he can't be called "Xian" but "Xian", which is what we must know.
So do women. Cong is the mother, Xian Cong is dead, and there are in-laws, parents, and at least one elder still alive, named Xian Cong. Xian Yan and Xian Kao are the same. The elders are gone and have grandchildren. They are all "sages".
The difference between Xianxian and Xianxian is that there must be no elders, but there must be grandchildren. There are no old people on it. You must have grandchildren below to be called "showing off", otherwise it is called "showing off", which is the same for men and women.
But if an outsider comes over and asks, "What's your father's name?" When someone asks, you have to answer. It is impolite not to answer. To answer my dad, that is, my dad, if my son calls his dad's name, say a taboo first. It is taboo for me to mention his father's name, but I have to say it. What if I have to say it? Bow to each other first and say a taboo word in front of your father's name. For example, my father's surname is Cheng Zhizhong. If I mention my father's name, my father's surname is Cheng, and he is afraid of loyalty, I will say so. This is the truth that others have heard that your father's surname is Cheng Zhizhong. This taboo is caught in the middle and not spoken as a name, which shows that the son is humble and respectful to his father. There must be a taboo in the middle, and the writing of memorial tablets is still the same.
If you write a memorial tablet, you should first write a preliminary test or an obvious test. For example, write my father's memorial tablet: my father's surname is Cheng. If I have a grandfather above me or an old man at home, my father will take the exam first. His surname is Cheng and his name is Zhizhong. When writing a memorial tablet, you should write a "Gong" under Cheng Gong, which is a respectful name for him. Besides taboos, we should also talk about names. We should be loyal to our ambition, and the government will give birth to the lotus position in the west. This is a very satisfactory article. The full name is: first, we should test the position of lotus in becoming a public, keeping a secret of ambition and loyalty. If the elders are gone and the father is the tallest generation in the family, then write: Xian Kao Cheng Gong is afraid to know the position of Xi Lotus in Zhongfu Shengjun. Father wrote it simply.
Mother's memorial tablet writing is more complicated than father's. Take my mother for example. My mother's surname is Du, my father's surname is Cheng, and my mother's name is Du Xiuzhen. When my mother died, my grandparents and grandparents were gone. When my mother died, my father died, so when I write my mother's memorial tablet, I can call her Xianxian. You can't say Du Xiuzhen below Xian Yan. It is wrong to say that Xian Yan Du Xiuzhen. What do you call it? Her maiden name is Du, because she married my father. According to the traditional custom in China, she married a chicken and followed a dog, so after she got married, her surname was Cheng, not Du. This should be understood.
How to write mother's last name? Her surname is Cheng, and her maiden name should be added. This is the so-called immortal becomes wood. Because she gave birth to a son in the Cheng family, she is the mother of the Cheng family's son. Her maiden name is in the back, but her full name cannot be called Chengdu. She can be called Chengdu when she is alive, but she can't be called Chengdu when she is dead, otherwise she can't find anyone in the underworld. You should write your name, but her name cannot be written directly. If Du Xiuzhen is wrong again, why? She married the Cheng family. The girl's name was given by her parents. What was her name when she was married and alive? Her name is Cheng Du. But it is not good to write Cheng Du's name on the memorial tablet. It is not easy to find her in the underworld. It is necessary to find her childhood name, so that she can find someone, because people have files in the underworld.
So under Cheng Mu, Du Ruren should be written. Confucian people refer to children. Let's write "boudoir name" below. The boudoir name is the prostitute's name, and the boudoir name is Xiuzhen, complete. That is to say, she is now married to the Cheng family and has a baby. Her mother's surname is Cheng and her maiden name is Du. Her childhood name was Xiuzhen. Here, women have one more rule than men. What is another rule? If the deceased meets the requirements of celebrities and her husband is gone, it is not called "Confucianism" but "Tairu".
Because when my mother died, my grandparents were gone, and my father died before my mother, so my mother was not called "Confucianism" but "Tairu". When people look too Confucian, they know that the husband of the deceased is gone, the elders above are gone, and they already have grandchildren. Therefore, the full name of my mother's memorial tablet is: immortal becomes mother, too like her maiden name, and Xiuzhen was born in Xilian. In this way, writing the memorial tablet is complete and people can understand it at a glance. So this memorial tablet makes people look awe-inspiring. This is the writing format of mother's memorial tablet.
The writing format of evocation complications is basically the same as that of memorial tablets. The writing of the memorial tablet is that the title above is the super recommendation of Buddha, and the following is an excellent exam or outstanding person. For example, Fo Chao recommended that Cheng's mother was a girl with a good name of Xilian. Below the tablet is the lotus position.
The name of the evocation flag was not recommended by Buddha Force, but by Buddha Light. The format of the Buddha's light is the same as the memorial tablet, except that the spirit of two places is written below the evocation banner. The memorial tablet is the lotus position, and under the evocation banner are the two spirits. For example, Buddha's light leads to the enlightenment of mother, mother, maiden and your surname, showing the true god of Jane. Writing evocation paper can make the dead feel safe and not run around.
The old man died at home. If you want to write the memorial tablet, you must write it by your son and daughter-in-law. If the sons and daughters are gone, they can also be written by their daughters. The master in the sun is a descendant, and the title is the first in the exam or the first in the exam. Only when the son and daughter-in-law die can the grandson mourn. If the master Yang is a grandson and his title has changed, the memorial tablet is not an outstanding test, but an outstanding test of his ancestors, that is, we are called grandparents in the world, and the title must correspond.
But remember, there is one condition. If grandparents' memorial tablets were written by grandchildren, it must be their parents, uncles and aunts, so grandparents' memorial tablets can be written by grandchildren, and grandchildren can manage them. If mom and dad are alive and uncles and aunts are alive, then they are not grandchildren. As long as the elderly have children, daughters-in-law and grandchildren, they can't be in charge, so they can't write casually. If the ancestral tablet was tested, people would not ask, and the grandson of this old man was in charge, and all his children were dead. Do you dare? Your parents are not dead yet. As a grandson, you can write a memorial tablet and kill your parents with a stroke of a pen! People who know, at first glance, know that your parents are dead, so you can't write casually. This must be understood.
And write memorial tablets between spouses. If there are no children, the wife writes a memorial tablet for her husband, that is, the first husband. The name is below, followed by a "Jun" to show your respect. The son called his father Fujun, and his wife said that his husband could only call him a gentleman, followed by Xilian. My late husband xxx is the lotus position in the west. The husband wrote a memorial tablet for his wife, calling it the first room. Because there are no children, here is her maiden name, and the full name is: xx, the maiden name of the first room X, gave birth to the lotus position in the west.
If there are children, the wife will write a memorial tablet for her husband, which reads: My husband X is jealous, and your husband was born in the West. If there are children, the husband writes a memorial tablet for his wife: the first room X mother X maiden name xx was born in Xilian. Because she gave birth to your child, if your surname is Li and her surname is Li, you must write: Li's maiden name is Xiuzhen, and she was born in the west, so you must write this. If there is no son, that is: Wang's maiden name is Xiuzhen, and she was born in the lotus position in the west. This memorial tablet is relatively simple.
Writing memorial tablets between brothers is particularly simple. The younger brother writes a memorial tablet for his brother, and he wants to write: Brother Xian. Respect your brother. If an elder brother wants to write a memorial tablet for his younger brother, he can directly write "Dead Brother", "Dead Brother" and directly address him. But if a younger brother writes a memorial tablet for his younger brother, he can't write a dead brother. If a younger brother writes a memorial tablet for his younger brother and a dead brother, people will know that this person has no rules and should write his brother first.
Parents write memorial tablets for their children, which are about dead men and dead sons. Parents can call their children by their first names without hesitation. Below is the name and lotus position, which is very simple and easy to write.
In addition to the above, the date of birth and the date and time of death of the deceased must be written on the back of the tablet. If people turn the memorial tablet over and look at the back, birthday, you don't know. You don't even know your parents' birthdays. Are you filial? People don't have to ask. So why is China's traditional culture particularly profound? Do people still have to ask you if this son is filial?
Now all the pills in the country are yellow, and we also follow fate, using yellow pills. I hope that reading clubs all over the country will learn to write memorial tablets, and they must learn.