Life is an unchangeable or extremely difficult part, which reflects the limitations of life. It mainly includes two parts:
First, the background. When a person was born, what country, what region, what family, is doomed at birth, he can not choose. For example, a child born in Syria, Iraq and other turbulent countries will face the fate of poverty, hunger, beatings and even death from an early age and cannot get rid of it. Children born in Switzerland are born with good social welfare and excellent growth environment.
Also at the age of 27, when millions of young people in China were still struggling for a monthly salary of several thousand dollars, Wang Sicong, the second ancestor of Wanda, returned from studying in Britain with a venture capital of 500 million yuan.
The rich second generation and the official second generation are standing on the shoulders of giants, while the poor second generation is standing barefoot in the mud.
Second, genetics. Such as personality, appearance, physique, talent and other factors. These factors can be changed to some extent the day after tomorrow, but they are difficult.
These two parts determine the starting point of everyone's life. With a high starting point, you will have great advantages in social competition and live a rich and happy life more easily.
However, we will find that a high starting point will not necessarily bring prosperity and peace in life, but a low starting point will definitely lead to poverty in life. Some well-born people have achieved nothing in adulthood and even become penniless; Some people from humble origins eventually have successful careers and happy marriages. These phenomena show that background and heredity are important, but there are other factors at work.
From the perspective of numerology, fate depends on the resultant force of three factors:
Congenital fate+acquired luck+personal efforts = fate.
Our innate destiny is generally difficult to change, but it can be improved to some extent. For example, we can't choose the place of birth, but if we think the place of birth is not good, we can choose to move to a place that is beneficial to us to live and develop. We can't choose our appearance, but we can learn to modify and accept our appearance; We are not geniuses, but we can bring our natural potential into full play. We may be weak, but we can choose a healthy lifestyle, learn health care and keep ourselves away from diseases.
Acquired fortune refers to the changes in the number of predestinations at various stages of life. People's fortune has its inherent regularity. By the date of birth, we can accurately analyze good and bad luck. However, what the eight characters can analyze is only the inherent law of personal fortune. In real life, personal fortune is also influenced by fortune, national fortune and family fortune, so its quality can be predicted, but the specific content cannot be accurately analyzed.
For example, if a fortune teller told Ma Yun's fortune 30 years ago, he could infer that Ma Yun would become a rich man in the future, but he could not infer that Ma Yun would open Taobao.
Although the fortune of the day after tomorrow has certain regularity, it mainly expresses the influence of our external environment on individuals. Good luck shows that we can get support from the external environment and have many opportunities. Bad luck means that we will be restricted by the external environment and have few opportunities.
So, can people's fate be changed? My opinion is that people can't change their destiny at will, but they can improve their destiny to some extent. For some people, there may even be a breakthrough change.
The amount of fate and the fortune of the day after tomorrow are very restrictive, and we must break through the heavy restrictions of fate through personal efforts.
How can we improve our destiny?
Let me tell you a real historical figure.
Two hundred years ago in the Qing Dynasty, a great man appeared in Xiangyin County, Hunan Province. His grandparents were farmers for generations, but his father was a scholar. However, his talent and luck were not good until he was forty-three. His father took part in the provincial examination for the seventeenth time, and only then was he qualified as a scholar.
His own IQ is not high, even stupid. One winter night, he was reciting an article under the lamp when a thief was hiding on the roof of his house, ready to steal. As a result, until midnight, the thief couldn't find a chance to do it. Why? Because he has read an article many times, he just can't recite it. The thief was shivering with cold, and finally jumped down in anger and ran in to tell him, why are you so stupid? I can recite it. The thief learned the article by heart and left angrily.
The name of this stupid scholar is Zeng Guofan. I've seen this story before, and I don't quite believe it. Because Zeng Guofan was too famous, too wise and too outstanding, he was the first minister of ZTE in the late Qing Dynasty. Historians consider him to be an outstanding politician, strategist, philosopher and writer in the history of China. But Liang Qichao also said that Zeng Guofan was the person with the worst qualification among his contemporaries.
Why did Zeng Guofan achieve such outstanding achievements when his qualifications and background were so poor? I have carefully studied his eight characters and life, and think there are three important reasons.
First, although Zeng Guofan's qualifications are average, he is determined, conscientious and diligent all his life.
Zeng Guofan only lived sixty-two years, and kept a diary for thirty-two years! His life's works have 6.5438+0.5 million words. This is enough to show how hard he has worked all his life!
Second, Zeng Guofan's family is ordinary, but he has noble support.
Zeng Guofan, as a Han Chinese, entered Beijing for the third time and only got the 38th place, and only got the 42nd place in the palace entrance examination. Traditionally, his grades can only be assigned to the ministries as principals, or to local county magistrates, which is a great blow to Zeng Guofan who wants to enter the academician courtyard. Even he has no intention of taking the Korean exam. He plans to pack his bags and take the exam next year, and reluctantly stays to take the Korean exam under the persuasion of his classmates.
Unexpectedly, Zeng Guofan got help from the nobles in the exam. At that time, Zhang Mu, the military and political minister who was the chairman of the examination, specially read his paper, made the final examination and approval for his article, and immediately got the first and third place in the examination. When the examination results were submitted to the emperor for examination and approval, Zhang Mu specially praised Zeng Guofan's articles in front of Daoguang. Under the strong recommendation of Zhang Mu, the emperor even thought Zeng Guofan's reasoning and writing style were better, so he promoted Zeng Guofan to the second place. In this way, Zeng Guofan's performance jumped from 42nd place in the top three court exams to the second place in the Korean exam, which surprised people who paid attention to the Korean exam and even Zeng Guofan himself.
After the exam, Zhang Mu and Zeng Guofan talked about many national affairs, and Zeng Guofan also expressed his views on domestic and foreign affairs. As a result, many ideas coincided with Zhang Mu's, and Zhang Mu felt that he had not misjudged others. Zhang Mu also explained the importance of imperial academy to Zeng Guofan and told him to serve the country well. When he left, Zeng Guofan repeatedly thanked Zhang Mu for his kindness.
With the support of Zhang Mu, Zeng Guofan was really smooth sailing in imperial academy and rose step by step. Later, under the ingenious arrangement of Zhang Mu, he met the emperor and won his favor. He was immediately promoted to a cabinet bachelor's degree, ranking second. It's a good thing to rise several levels in a row, which Chen Han has never encountered before. Zhang Mu's zodiac is a tiger, which happens to be Zeng Guofan's noble star.
Thirdly, Zeng Guofan pays attention to self-cultivation and has a very high space.
Zeng Guofan left a magic weapon to change the fate of the world, which was very powerful. That is, "twelve self-cultivation articles". His method of cultivating one's morality and keeping one's nature looks very inconspicuous, but it can really be done and completely transform a person, because Zeng Guofan has done it.
Over the years, I have come to an important conclusion from my research and demonstration of fate: among the methods to change fate, practice plays the greatest role. What is practice? It is to correct your thoughts, language and behavior every day and let yourself grow continuously.
Man's nobility lies not in his position, but in the height from the starting point to the end point. All outstanding people have a high life span. When their character and talent reach a certain level, when luck comes, they can make contributions.
Mr. Yuan Lefan said it well: Life is made by heaven, and life is made by me. There is always a moment in a person's life when he suddenly realizes that he doesn't want to be at the mercy of fate all the time, but wants to grasp his own destiny and create a future life.
However, changing fate is not an easy task. First of all, we need to have enough motivation to break through the trap of fate. Secondly, there must be a correct method. The ancients in China had a very incisive experience in changing their destiny:
One life, two luck, three feng shui, four virtues, five studies, six seven aspects, eight respects, nine friends and ten health preservation.
First, destiny refers to knowing destiny. What kind of fate you are, what advantages you have, and what shortcomings you have, you must first find out. Confucius didn't know his destiny until he was fifty, but we have the tool of numerology, and we don't have to wait until he is fifty to understand his destiny. Through birthdays, we can know what kind of person we are, what kind of mental and natural characteristics we have. What occupation is it suitable for? What are the health and safety hazards? What kind of problems do I have in my emotional marriage? Wait a minute. In addition, we can also conduct a comprehensive assessment of the status quo as a starting point for the present.
Second, luck refers to observing fortune. Wealth includes natural wealth, local wealth, world wealth, national wealth, family wealth and human wealth. Fate and land transportation have a long cycle, which is difficult for ordinary people to understand. You can't study it in depth for the time being. The World Games and the National Games refer to the political, economic and military pattern and development trend of the whole world and country. In this regard, ordinary people can have a superficial understanding, but for those with high power, we must pay close attention to them. In recent years, the economic situation in China is grim, but on the whole, it is still a prosperous country.
Everyone's company and family have their own rules of fortune. Is it in a prosperous period at present? Bad luck? Closing date of shipment? Pay attention to research.
If the unit or company you serve is in a prosperous period, what role do you play at present? Can you follow the trend and seize the opportunity? If you are in recession, you should study whether there is hope for improvement and what contribution you can make. If there is no hope, you should consider leaving early.
Family luck has a great influence on everyone, so we must pay close attention to family fortune. If the family fortune is not prosperous, the owner must be unlucky, or have any major defects in virtue and feng shui.
One's luck is one's fortune. It can be studied from the date of birth. But even if you don't look at the eight characters, you can have a general understanding. If you have made achievements in your work, increased income, full of energy and harmonious interpersonal relationships in the past three years, you must be in a prosperous time; If everything goes wrong, it must be at a bad time; If it is relatively dull, or some gains, but there is a fly in the ointment, that is, in peacetime. In numerology, the law of personal fortune is a ten-year cycle and a three-year cycle. In other words, if the fortune is not good in these three years, it may turn better next year! On the contrary, if the fortune in these three years is very prosperous, it may turn into a flat or declining period next year, so pay attention to adjustment!
Third, feng shui, including yin and yang house feng shui and human body feng shui. I'm going to do a special topic on this.
Articles 4 to 10 are all the contents of spiritual practice, so we can't expand them one by one due to space constraints, and we will discuss them later in the micro-class.
Finally, I want to give you a suggestion:
Spend the whole day arranging everything at hand and leaving it alone. Then find a quiet place and think about three questions:
1. What is the starting point of my destiny?
2. What is my present situation? If the perfect score of my life is 100, how many points can I get now?
What kind of life do I want in ten years?