Hello, what they say means simply that you don’t look like a man. No big deal.
Although I get angry when I see very unmanly people, I have to say that nature cannot be changed. We cannot discriminate and should give them enough respect.
Some people like radishes, and some people like cabbage.
According to my analysis for you, you have a male body and female appearance, and if the difference is true, it should be that the chromosomes were originally female, but later changed, and you became a boy but had the appearance of a woman.
In fact, this situation can be easily solved. You just have to grow a beard. Don't want that kind of mustache or eyebrow mustache. It's the feeling of being honest and trustworthy that is good.
Manliness means doing things cleanly and neatly, behaving majesticly, and having a rough and unpretentious image. What do you say? . .
Finally, I wish you better and better luck with women.