Different interpersonal relationships also affect people's destiny to varying degrees.
In reality, we can often see that a person who makes enemies everywhere will naturally have poor interpersonal relationships. Everything is hindered and obstacles are great in doing things; and there are often conflicts and antagonisms between relatives, friends, colleagues, or partners.
Of course, we can often see many such people, brothers and sisters are very loyal, good to you, good to me, and good to everyone. As a result, they lose their principles and positions, and often do nothing in their lives; even leading to self-esteem. Lost people are deceived.
This is why people say that interpersonal relationships will affect their own fortune; some have positive effects and some have negative effects. The key is how you handle it correctly.
In fact, for interpersonal relationships, fortune often affects different interpersonal relationships. There are many such examples in reality. As the saying goes: The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, while the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives. This is a true portrayal of the influence of fortune on interpersonal relationships. Extending to the social level, it is said: if you have money, you are three generations higher, but if you don’t have money, you are three generations lower. It is also a description of how luck affects interpersonal relationships.
How to improve interpersonal relationships and thus improve life fortune?
To improve interpersonal relationships, my opinion is: first of all, you need to know which people are worthy of your association. This issue has been well discussed by the sages. For example, Confucius said:
Friends have three benefits: friends are straight, friends are forgiving, and friends are knowledgeable. Benefit also. In other words, you can be friends with people who are honest; you can be friends with people who are honest in dealing with people; you can be friends with people who are well-informed.
It is also said that there are three disadvantages to friends: friends are arrogant, friends are soft, and friends are sycophants. Loss also. That is to say, you must not be friends with those who are pretentious; do not be friends with those who deliberately please you; and do not be friends with those who are quick-tongued and fickle.
In addition, it is necessary to establish a correct principle of interpersonal communication. As my creed in dealing with others, that is: treat others with sincerity, have similar interests, and take into account both trust and integrity. I remember, when I was still running my own business, I saw Liu Yonghao of the Hope Group writing these words on his wall, which really moved me: be kind in words and deeds, and treat people sincerely. It is not an idle statement that you hope that the group can do such a big business. On the contrary, I feel that they are always practicing their creed.
I think that as long as each of us practices the above principles, not only will life and career go smoothly, but I think even evil ghosts and evil gods will be fearless. This is true for making friends, and other interpersonal relationships should be in the same vein.
In addition, to improve interpersonal relationships, you can also explore specific paths based on your horoscope: because of the different combinations in the horoscope, the relationship between punishment, conflict and harm that appears in the game represents you. Interpersonal relationships with the surrounding environment and relatives. For example, in the earthly branches, there are three combinations, three meetings, six combinations, six clashes, six harms, three punishments, etc. Of course, when interacting with people, the other person's horoscope combination, their zodiac sign, and the relationship between the four pillars and stems also represent the difference in the other person's aura, which will also have different manifestations. We can find clues to this good interpersonal relationship from the study of these relationships. 1. Combination is the best, but there is a difference between appropriate and inappropriate
Generally speaking, for people whose zodiac signs, stems, branches and five elements are consistent, the relationship between them can be harmonious and harmonious, which is a benefit; while two people with zodiac signs, People whose stems and branches inhibit, harm or conflict with each other will have more difficulties. Therefore, in activities such as cooperation and intercourse, you need to try to avoid people whose zodiac signs and five elements are seriously opposed to yourself. In this way, mutual understanding is often extremely inconsistent, and collisions are prone to occur.
Of course, it should be noted that this combination also has a question of appropriateness and unsuitability; formally speaking, the combination of life, tomb, and marriage are all harmonious; the combination of restraint, harm, and punishment, Combining out is a sign of easy conflict, which is a combination of differences.
From the perspective of the actual relationship, the so-called Hehao naturally means that the God of Happiness must be combined, or the God of Ji and the God of Joy must be combined together to form a good relationship. If they combine to form a taboo god, or if they combine to mix with the master's own happy and useful god, and the happy and useful god merges out, it will be a troublesome combination that will cause substantial harm. If you get along well, you can form a synergy, but if you don't get along well, it's just a harmony and it's difficult to achieve anything. If you are a good couple, you can often be together and communicate a lot; if you are a couple and like to use each other, you need to be together less often. This can avoid being greedy for the pleasure of words, quick tongue, and pleasure of eating and drinking and neglecting the real things.
Some partnerships are superficial relationships, while others are substantive relationships. For example, if the zodiac signs match, most of them are superficial relationships. If they meet for the first time, the zodiac sign will have a great influence. It is particularly important to have long-term contacts, help each other, complement each other and be consistent. 2. Punishment and conflict are not beautiful, but there are also differences between what should and should not be
Contradictory methods, conflicting punishment is particularly intense, often bold, on the table; harm is often carried out secretly, with lawsuits in the belly, and psychological instability Comfortable.
How to deal with it requires being good at distinguishing whether conflicts are good or bad. If you like conflict, like punishment, like restraint, or like harm, you need to put the topic on the table and everyone should speak clearly; if you avoid conflict, avoid restraint, avoid harm, and avoid punishment, you should avoid conflicts and try your best to resolve them.
3. Between relatives, it is necessary to try to avoid the conflict, restraint, punishment, and harm of the five elements.
Relatives are not friends. You can choose. It is not good to conflict or harm each other. After all, they reflect mutual contradictions. The five elements conflict and harm each other, whether they are likes or dislikes, they are all manifestations of conflicts. Therefore, it is best for relatives whose horoscopes conflict, square, or harm each other seriously, or who cannot complement each other, to live separately.
Marriage is even more sensitive; because marriage requires two people to live together for a long time. Therefore, it is best not to choose to get married if there are too many conflicts, too many harms to each other; at the same time, it is best if the five elements in the horoscope can complement each other. The advantage of complementarity is that two people can each get what they need and have a strong mutual attraction; unlike attraction with many words in the same name, it is just a superficial attraction of like-minded people; at the same time, complementarity also reflects mutual rescue. If the other party is lucky, Unfortunately, when there is a disaster, the other person is often your savior, and you don’t have to look for someone else.
If it is the influence of the luck of the year, you can isolate them appropriately and wait until the conflicts are alleviated before getting together together. Some fathers and sons, or brothers and sisters, conflict with each other greatly. When the luck of the year changes, the conflicts will become deeper. You can also let nature take its course and keep a certain distance, which will be better. 4. There are many disasters due to conflicting horoscopes. Rescue should be the first priority, and happy events can be resolved.
If a family member has many horoscopes with horoscopes that conflict with them, whether it is one’s own horoscopes with many horoscopes and conflicts, or there are many horoscopes with relatives, there will be disasters. sign. When a disaster comes, the god of jealousy is often rampant and harms the god of joy in one's horoscope. It needs someone from the six relatives who can complement this person's horoscope to help. Therefore, we find that many old people are dying, and the person who sends them off is often the person who represents the jealous god in the old man's horoscope; or he or she is a person with relatives who conflicts with the god he likes to use. People say he is a filial son, perhaps because of this person, he can inherit the mantle of the old man and turn the god of taboo into his own favor; of course, it may mean that dying old is a happy event for the old man after all.
Otherwise, why would Zhuangzi beat drums and sing loudly on the day of his wife's death?