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Dear brides-to-be, do you feel that there is a lot of information on the Internet about "picking a date", and it is very complicated, and there are also opinions from relatives and friends. No, do you really hear the mist?
Don’t worry, Editor V hears your needs! Here are some tips for V fans to get started easily! I wish everyone a good life!
Now that the Internet is developed, using free website fortune telling or asking a numerologist for help are simple and straightforward choices. But as a petty bourgeoisie, if you don’t know much about the basic concepts and want to save money on fortune telling, just decide to discuss it with your partner on your own. Then here, editor V will give some simple concepts for choosing a date for your reference. .
Basics of Choosing a Wedding Date
The first thing you need to worry about when planning a wedding is "choosing a date". However, you must choose a good day for your wedding. It is already a huge headache; if you have to use the few remaining holidays to facilitate the attendance of relatives and friends, it will really be a big challenge.
But in fact, don’t think about this matter so complicatedly. Editor V is here to give you an entry point: "Look at the peasant calendar, throw a fork and ask the gods."
Among them , the "Peasant Calendar" is an item that is very easy to obtain (for example, it can be obtained in temples, bookstores, or on the Internet). After obtaining and opening the Peasant Calendar, you will find that in the column of each day, it will state whether that day is suitable or not. Notes on marriage.
Next, if you have traditional folk believers, you can go to the temple to ask the gods after choosing a date. When it comes to choosing a temple, it is recommended to choose a main temple or a large temple (for example: Longshan Temple, Xingtian Temple, etc.).
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In addition, the method of inquiry is: after worshiping the gods for a round, return to the main hall to throw bamboo shoots and ask about things (taking Longshan Temple as an example, you need to return to the Three Saints of the West after worshiping for a round) Or ask for rice noodles in front of Guanyin Bodhisattva), and remember to tell the gods when asking for things: name, birthday, partner, date, desired location for the wedding banquet, etc.
Advanced chapter on choosing a date for marriage
This advanced chapter may require a little bit of basic concepts of numerology. If you don’t know much about it, don’t show off. It is recommended to ask your elders, temple officials or numerologists. Books etc.
If you feel that the above-mentioned basic techniques are not enough; next, editor V will give you further tips: "Avoid the sixth and seventh months of the lunar calendar, and do not choose the day when the sun breaks and the year falls on the ninth day. ”
According to folk customs and etiquette, the sixth month of the lunar calendar is said to be a half-moon; while the seventh month of the lunar calendar is the ghost month. Although some people’s horoscopes can choose days in these months, as a novice in numerology You'd better avoid it first!
What do you think about Sun Po? The so-called sun break means that the earthly branches of the sun (Zi, Chou, Yin, Mao, Chen, Si, Wu, Wei, Shen, You, Xu, Hai) and the earthly branches of the moon clash. For example: Chen and Yue meet Xu. Because Chenxu clashes, it is the Sun Break, and other combinations can be deduced in this way.
The meaning of not choosing a day when the age is nine means: the false age (the simple algorithm is the actual age plus one) is not suitable for marriage when the age is nine. Therefore, if your age will be nine after your birthday this year, it is recommended to avoid it and have the wedding banquet before your birthday.
You only get married once and it is a major event in life. There are so many things to worry about in planning a wedding. If you have a lot of uncertainties and questions about choosing a wedding date, V fans are advised to strive for peace of mind. If everything goes well, you can ask a fortune teller to combine the birth dates of the couple and their parents; or you can use appropriate methods such as Ziwei Dou Shu to calculate a horoscope that is acceptable to the elders and will not conflict with each other. It is an auspicious day that combines problems and brings good luck.
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Finally, editor V is here to wish everyone smooth wedding planning and a happy marriage. Phew!
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