First of all, what I want to say is: all children have fear, which is a very natural phenomenon in the development process of children.
After being frightened, most children show signs of listlessness and no desire to eat; some have restless nights, insomnia, dreaminess, or bouts of babble. Some cried loudly and stopped suddenly. After babies are frightened, most of them show signs of not sucking, being lethargic or crying uneasily. Older children may even experience visual and auditory hallucinations.
Babies often cry after being frightened. At this time, they should be gently hugged, or gently moved after being hugged, which can often make them quiet or gradually fall asleep. Try to do the following as much as possible:
1. Keep the rest room as quiet as possible and not in a noisy place.
2. Family members should not speak loudly or harshly to the baby, and try to use a calm and friendly tone.
3. You can hug and pat the baby often, and talk to the baby with smiling eyes
4. Newborn babies have skin thirst and like to be touched. Adults can do this Use clothes to perform baby massage exercises on your baby to enhance your baby's sense of security.
5. When you are awake, you can play some beautiful music or children's songs, but the volume should not be too high.
The main thing is to pat him and touch him more. Children need to show intimacy from time to time. You need to have more physical communication with him to let him know that you are protecting it, not a human bed. Pat him gently and shake him from side to side with your body as the axis. Use its language to communicate with him, even if he doesn't understand it yet.
A few little tips:
1. Find a postmarked stamp, preferably from somewhere far away, and burn it on the ground above the child’s head in the dead of night. , while burning, I read: XXX is going home with dad (mom)!
2. When the child sleeps at night, place the child's shoe buckle on the pillow or head, with the toe of the shoe facing the child's head. Just take it away in the morning. Haha, although the method is a bit superstitious, you can try it for your children and it can be used both ways.
3. Find a new, unused needle (used for sewing clothes) and put on the white thread. The length of the double thread is the height of the child. , put the needle in a small bowl of water, put the thread outside the bowl, and put it above the child's sleeping position at night. If the needle is rusty the next morning, the child will be frightened. Leave it for three days in a row (I haven't tried this. Pass).
In short, we don’t care whether we are superstitious or not, as long as it works, as long as the children are safe and healthy.