There are many methods of marriage in ancient and modern times. Here are some common wrong marriage methods.
(1), the marriage law of zodiac signs:
This method believes that any man and woman whose birth years are in conflict with each other, harm each other, or conflict with each other are not suitable for marriage. The person should get married. For example, if Chou is in the year of Xu, a person born in the year of Chou Ox should not marry someone born in the year of Xu Dog. The children are not harming each other, and those born in the Year of the Rat should not marry those born in the Year of the Sheep. Zi and Wu are in conflict with each other, so those born in the year of Zi and Rat should not marry those born in the year of Wu and Horse. Yin and Hai coincide, and those born in the year of Yin and Tiger will get married with those born in the year of Pig. This method simply bases the marriage on the relationship between the year, branch, conflict, punishment, and harm of the four pillars of both parties, and ignores the overall coordination of the fate of the two. It is obviously one-sided and unsatisfactory.
(2), God-shame marriage method
This method is represented by the God-shame marriage law of Lu Cai in the Tang Dynasty, and is based on the gods of the original destiny of the man and woman. Intermarriage. This method has always been controversial in the numerology community. In particular, Zhang Nan of the Ming Dynasty severely criticized it and said: "Only the number of men and women is determined, and the combination is called combined marriage. The heavenly medicine is arbitrarily established, and the good fortune is the upper marriage, and the wandering soul and the returning soul are the middle marriage." Five ghosts, it is very rare to have a life of two years, regardless of the moon and the day. If this is true, then everyone in the world can discuss marriage. Choose the one who is married to the middle and marry him, and choose the one who is married to the second and give it up. The method is very easy and not difficult. It is suitable for all the women in the world and the widowed men. How can the husband have Gushuang's disease in his future generations? Although it is determined by the past life, it is also due to the unclearness of the person who proposes the marriage. However, when it comes to wedding etiquette, one should not be careless. If a woman is destined to be a wounded official, she must be matched with a person who has a strong food god. If a female is destined to be a wounded official, and the god of food is important, then a male destined to be worthy of robbery and wealth must be chosen to match her. How can it be said that Lu Cai is ranked higher, middle and lower? Is it true that marriage has no roots and that there is no basis for the marriage of people? What Lu Cai said is not enough to be believed. However, there are still some critics who continue to use Lu Cai's method to this day. There is a certain degree of accuracy in some aspects, which shows that this method has some kernels worth studying. Although Zhang Nan's method of matching calamity, food and injury, has some truth, it is too simple and rough, and needs to be supplemented and improved.
(3) Other factors include the matching of the Year Pillar or the Sun Pillar of both parties (suitable for birth, avoid conflict), the couple's stars matching (positive wealth matches official, partial wealth matches Qisha), and year life matches ( Nayin should produce each other) and other methods.
No matter which method, there are some merits. But they are not perfect enough. It is precisely because of the flaws in the above-mentioned marriage laws and the limitations of the technical level of the commentators that they often bring together unhappy couples who are not suitable for marriage, and ruthlessly separate couples who are suitable for marriage. The tragedy caused by wrong marriage will follow the native throughout the painful journey of marriage. How can we treat it as a child's play? !
The perfect method of marriage
Based on the overall destiny combination of both men and women, and taking numerology as the criterion, this is the law of marriage. Guided by this principle, we seek to achieve the most perfect marriage possible.
The purpose of intermarriage is to enable both parties to seek good fortune and avoid misfortune as much as possible, and to improve the fortune of the marriage to the greatest extent. To achieve this goal, we must rely on reasonable methods of marriage. As mentioned before, the essence of marriage is the intimate combination of the five elements of the human body of men and women. In order for marriage to produce a good numerology effect, this combined new aura of the five elements of the human body must be beneficial to both parties. The energy of the five elements cannot be seen or touched, so how can we tell whether it is beneficial or harmful? This can only be analyzed from the overall fate of both parties. From the perspective of numerology, marriage should meet the following standards as much as possible:
(1) The combination of the fortunes of both parties should not harm each other's destiny.
(2) It is best if the taboo god of one party's destiny can be transformed into the favored god of the other party's destiny. The second best option is that the taboo god of one party's destiny can be restrained by the opponent's destiny.
(3) The Xiyongshen in one party’s destiny is not powerful enough, but the five elements in the other party’s destiny can just complement it.
(4) After the fate of both parties is combined, they will not harm each other and avoid the original wealth and longevity.
(5) After the fate of both parties is combined, they will not harm each other’s original child stars.
(6) It is best for the fortunes of both parties to complement each other
(7) The personalities of both parties do not need to be the same, but they need to mesh with each other.
(8) The age and life span of both parties can basically match to avoid the tragedy of widowhood in middle age.
The above eight items can all be inferred from the fate. This is a marriage in the numerology sense. Of course, other numerological factors should also be considered in the marriage between men and women. Such as ethics, folk customs, laws and regulations, emotional basis, etc.
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