Try to choose a period that is beneficial to both parties. For example, in the year of the eight-character god's reign, it happened that this person was proud of the spring breeze. Getting married at this time, this person has a good heart and mind, which is bound to be the icing on the cake. If in the year when the eight characters are taboo, it is precisely when this person is physically and mentally exhausted and has many troubles, it is not appropriate to get married at this time.
2. Choose a spouse and get married
Marriage pays attention to fate. To put it bluntly, it is whether both parties can find common ground in their respective preferences. For example, a jealous female character who is cruel to officials is full of affection and romance. If she meets a man with the same golden water, she may be like-minded and fall in love at first sight. If she is a mouse, she will meet a monkey, because this man is born a romantic and affectionate floating spirit. As a bosom friend, he can appreciate each other, but as a husband and wife who are often together, it is not necessarily appropriate.
Men who have the same hard life and can bear it, the iron colander and the copper spoon are in the same pot, restraining each other and complementing each other, and neither side will be damaged. Therefore, it is very necessary for the constellation with unsatisfactory marriage to choose a spouse to get married.
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3. Do good deeds and accumulate good marriages.
If you can do good to outsiders at ordinary times, you will naturally be good to the people around you. In the long run, if we cultivate our own self-cultivation, both sides can care about and understand each other, and the unhappy marriage will be stable.
4. Resolve from Feng Shui
Besides eight characters, some residential feng shui will also affect marriage. For men, if there is a big gap between the earthquake position, the root position or the ridge position of the house, and there are unclean things placed, then marriage will be difficult. As far as women are concerned, if there are water-related things such as wells, water towers, ponds, baths or waterworks in the exchange position, dry position or Kun position of the house, she will inevitably become a "leftover woman" despite her beautiful appearance.
There is also a residential feng shui, the room has a column angle. Whether men and women live in it, it is not good for their love and marriage. There is also a bedroom door facing the door, with flower arrangement on the bedside or pink walls, which makes it easy for married strangers to have all kinds of peach blossoms and have extramarital affairs. Over time, the two sides will part ways and the family will be broken.
5. Marriage is predictable
Marriage is a relationship that needs constant maintenance and management. The problems that many people do not show before marriage will be highlighted after marriage. A lasting marriage is nothing more than a rainy day. You have to know where the root cause is, and then you can prescribe the right medicine and maintain the heat of marriage.