What you are talking about is Nayin, which is actually just a misunderstanding.
Children in the furnace and thunderbolts
Both appear at the same time every two years, which is rare. Do people born every two years have the same destiny? Wrong, it depends on what destiny it is. It depends on the yen in the horoscope. If you are the fire in the furnace and receive the sound, you are probably the water destiny. Even if you are born with fire and your child is born with water, water overcomes fire. Don't feel bad. If your body is strong, you must use water to restrain it, or earth to relieve it. Don't worry, just read the horoscopes. You don't need to give me points, and I won't show you the horoscopes. I just see them occasionally and answer them to remove your worries. Keep a good attitude.