A happy marriage requires mutual understanding and tolerance between husband and wife, but it is inevitable that couples will have conflicts when they live together for a long time, resulting in emotional crises. The "seven-year itch" generally means that in the seventh year of marriage, people may feel bored due to the dull routine of married life and have to go through a crisis test. Let's learn how to resolve the "seven-year itch". . The cause of the "seven-year itch"
The "seven-year itch" is the five-element relationship between the stems and branches in the first year of marriage and the seventh year. For example, in the first year of marriage, The 1st year is "Bingshen" (2016), the 2nd year is Dingyou, and the order is Wuxu, Jihai, Gengzi, Xinchou... The 7th year is Renyin (2022), you can see the 7th year The "Ren Yin" in the passing year and the "Bing Shen" in the first year just form a conflict between the sky and the earth, where the heavenly stem and Renshui overcome Binghuo and the earthly branch Yinmu clashes with Shenjin. If there are no corresponding five elements in the horoscopes of the couple to adjust, this will really be the "seven-year itch".
The heavenly stems are the head and the mind, and the earthly branches are the physiology and body. If the heavens and the earth are in conflict, there will be corresponding psychological and physiological conflicts. There may also be physical and mental conflicts between husband and wife, and they may lack sexual aspects. and emotional harmony, this is the testing period of marriage during the seven-year itch.
(The rest of the marriage years can be deduced by themselves. The heavenly stems conflict with each other: Jiageng, Yixin, Bingren, and Dinggui. The earthly branches conflict with: Ziwu, Chouwei, Yin, Shen, and Mao. You Chong, Chenxu Chong, Sihai Chong)
How to resolve the "seven-year itch" in numerology
Resolve the "seven-year itch" in conflicting heavenly stems
< p> From the above, it can be seen that the relationship between the heavenly stems in the first year and the seventh year is in conflict, and the seven killings are in conflict. For example, if you get married in the year Bingshen in 2016, the seventh year is the year of Renyin, and Ren is the seven killings of Bing.So, to resolve the Seven Kills, you can use the God of Cookery to restrain it. The God of Cookery is like verbal communication and spiritual communication between husband and wife. Husband and wife must understand each other, care for each other, and tolerate each other as the first condition for resolution. In addition, the God of Cookery also represents children. Unless there are special circumstances, it is recommended to get pregnant immediately after marriage. According to numerology, children can maintain the relationship between husband and wife.
To resolve the "seven-year itch" when the Earthly Branches are in conflict
1. The first year of marriage and the seventh year are in conflict with Meridian, so use dragon, ox, or sheep zodiac mascots to resolve the problem.
2. The first year of marriage and the seventh year of marriage are not in conflict with each other. Use the mascots of the snake, horse, or rat to resolve the conflict.
3. The first year of marriage and the seventh year of marriage are not in conflict. If the Yin and Shen conflict in the year, use the rat, horse, or pig zodiac mascots to resolve the issue
4. The first and seventh years of marriage are in conflict with the Mao and You, use the dog, pig, or dragon zodiac mascots to resolve the issue.
5. The first year of marriage and the seventh year are in conflict with each other. Use chicken, horse, or rabbit zodiac mascots to resolve them.
6. The first year of marriage and the seventh year are in conflict. If the year is Si and Hai, use the rabbit, sheep, or tiger zodiac mascots to solve the problem
If the wedding is in Bingshen in 2016, and the seventh year is Renyin in 2022, and Yin and Shen are in conflict, it is the third situation Display mascot animals of the rat, horse, pig and other zodiac signs in the couple's bedroom to resolve the problem.
Here, I would like to remind you who have not yet reached the "seven-year itch". This "itch" is an itch both in body and mind. Marriage is not the grave of love, however! Marriage must be nourished by love. In daily life, couples should know how to communicate and share. In their free time, they should talk about each other's joys and sorrows at work, share happy things together, and share unhappy things together. Also give each other a little more space, so that each other has their own space, instead of really turning the marriage into a "sieged city"! In addition, sex is also the basis of love. Once you get married or have children, don’t always talk about being an old married couple, with no sex, no love, and no more feelings! Appropriately adding some freshness to sexual life or romance in life is of great benefit to running a marriage.
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