Women are getting older. Women who are around 30 years old are called older leftover women. Older leftover women are busy working after graduation. Women want to have a successful career and a higher income. Everything always requires hard work. They would rather work overtime on all their rest days just to have a place in the workplace. When they gain a foothold, they realize that they have missed the best age for marriage, and they have become what others call them. Older leftover women.
Some people seem to be very harsh towards older leftover women. When a woman is older and not married yet, no matter how good you are in other aspects, you will still inevitably suffer from gossips from others. The pressure on older leftover women does not come from themselves, but from the "excessive" concern of relatives and friends around them. The worldly perspective makes most people think that older leftover women cannot get married, or that no one likes them. So, who do the leftover women who are over 30 years old marry in the end? It’s nothing more than these three types of men.
1. Ms. Zhang is 31 years old and married to her blind date
I am 31 years old this year. When I was young, I experienced an unforgettable relationship, but later we broke up due to some reasons. After that, I focused all my attention on work and not on emotional matters, so I became an older leftover girl. I have been working in a big city. In my opinion, older leftover girls are just older. If conditions are good in other aspects, you can also reap your own happiness.
But as soon as I returned to my hometown, my seven aunts and eight aunts began to urge me to go on blind dates. So, I felt repulsive in my heart, but I also followed the advice of my elders and went on a few blind dates. Usually either people don't like me, or I don't like them. There are very few people who really like them. I met Lin Yong through a blind date, and he and I are considered a perfect match. We came together because we were suitable. Although there may be less love, we are both past the best age for marriage, and sometimes we feel unreliable. Spectrum, or appropriateness is more important.
2. Ms. Liu is 33 years old and married to a second-married man
It is ironic that after a man is 30 years old, he can still find a young and beautiful girl. Now some women I also like uncle-type men, but not women. If a woman finds a man younger than herself, she will be gossiped about by others. Even during a blind date, if a man learns that the woman is an older leftover, although he will not refuse immediately, he will be unhappy in his heart.
Therefore, some older leftover women end up marrying second-married men. This does not mean that second-married men are not good, but this is always unfair to women and may even become someone else's stepmother. .
3. Ms. Wu is 35 years old and married to a career-oriented man over 40 years old.
In my opinion, there are many outstanding people among older leftover women who are financially independent and not Who do they need to rely on? They just focus on their careers and ignore their lifelong events. She doesn't want to give in, but if they meet the right person, they will risk everything for love. Older leftover women’s vision is higher than that of ordinary people, because they have experienced more things and understand more naturally. The men they like must be excellent. They are usually elites in the workplace and are over 40 years old. It doesn’t matter if they are older. , as long as the career is successful, it is enough. Therefore, older leftover women who marry such a man are also relatively good themselves.
Conclusion: Most older leftover women will eventually marry the above types of men. If she is lucky enough to meet true love, of course she will still choose true love. Some older leftover women will be more realistic and find a man who suits them to marry. , There are also older leftover women who don’t want to make do, haven’t met the right person, and just want to be single for the rest of their lives. The path is their own choice. As long as they don’t regret it, it doesn’t matter what others say.