The formation of a sense of responsibility is a sign of a person's maturity. Its first meaning is to be responsible for oneself, that is, a person must know how to respect his own feelings, respect his own ideals, and cherish his precious years and life. With vitality, strive to arrange real life from the perspective of one's own life and from one's own ideals, learn to restrain one's instinctive impulses, resist various external temptations, and in a complex environment, under the impact of success and failure, in The experience of joy and pain is always full of courage to fight against fate. The second meaning of responsibility is to be responsible for society. This is by no means the product of anyone’s fantasy, but a reflection of the evolution of human civilization. Man is a social animal. To say that man is an animal is different from plants. Of course, creatures between animals and plants also exist. That is to say, there are no absolute things in this world, only relative responsibilities. In today's various social forms, because men occupy the active position in society, it can be said that men control the entire world. In this case, men naturally shoulder more responsibilities, and people with a little thought will have a sense of responsibility. From an individual point of view, men need to have a sense of responsibility for creating social value. Men belong to this society and belong to the dominant society. This is a sense of responsibility that mature men should have. From the perspective of a small family unit, due to physiological and cultural reasons, men bear the minimum family responsibilities. A man without a sense of family responsibility cannot truly have a family, let alone a career, because he Don't want to take any responsibility. From a social perspective, men are responsible for controlling the mainstream direction of the world, which requires men to have a sense of social responsibility. Edit this paragraph to see the specific manifestations of a responsible man: 1. For a responsible man, career always comes first. One point to emphasize here: It does not mean that a rich man is a man with a career, but a man’s careerism. Men who love, adapt, have passion for their work, and take it seriously will basically have the same sense of responsibility for marriage and family. It is difficult to imagine that a man who is too lazy to work can maintain a lasting passion and eternal sense of responsibility for love and family. A truly good man has a great career and a warm family. If you meet a woman who pursues money and power blindly, you can leave her. 2. A responsible man, loving his parents is his greatest virtue. Men who know how hard their parents are working, who know how to honor their parents through their own efforts, and who know that they can sacrifice their career or love for their parents, are the most trustworthy. There are not many men who can do this nowadays, and they are squandering the blood and sweat of their parents. There are many older "boys" who come to please their girlfriends and win jobs, and then complain about their parents' various shortcomings. Remember, a real man will build a blue sky with his hard-working hands, tread a broad road with his solid legs, and win the heart of a girl with his sincere heart! 3. A responsible man has the courage to admit his mistakes, dare to get up where he fell, and start over from the beginning. If you blame all your mistakes on bad opportunities, bad luck, encountering bad people, or even "you are not bad enough" and other reasons, this is not what a good man wants to do. If you don't reflect on yourself correctly, but you want to correct the mistakes you have made through more wrong means. Then it is difficult for me to imagine that his future married life will be healthy, happy and stable. 4. A responsible man is very cautious in love. He will not make girlfriends easily and will not deal with several women. When you are not sure, you will not use ambiguous words to misunderstand the girl. Once you are sure, you will treat her sincerely. He will help you by phone or text message every time you need him. No matter how busy he is, as long as he has a woman in his heart, he can show his care for others at any time with the convenient communication methods now. ...Every phone call will be on time, and every date will not let my girlfriend wait for a minute (my girlfriend is also on time), I mean every time, no matter wind or rain, no matter how inconvenient the journey is, even if we meet after breaking up, we will be on time. Stand in the rain and wait in advance. 5. A responsible and smart man will take out photos of his old parents and poor family at the beginning of a relationship with the woman he likes. Not only did he express himself candidly, but he also cleverly tested his girlfriend’s personality: if she turns away after seeing it, then she is a profiteer; if she is moved by this frank and true non-verbal expression, then she is A passionate person. He is willing to tell everything about himself to the woman he loves, instead of ignoring his girlfriend's repeated questioning. There are two possibilities for being unwilling to answer a woman's questions: first, he has something to hide and needs to stabilize a woman before he gets her; second, he doesn't care about the woman and thinks it doesn't matter whether he talks or not, because the woman understands him or not. , it doesn’t matter much to him whether he misunderstood him, because this woman’s reaction will not affect the handling and development of major events in his life. No matter which possibility it is, it shows that this man has no sense of responsibility. 6． A responsible man will put his "sweet words" into action. Unfortunately, there are many two types of men in today's society: one is a "giant in words and a dwarf in action", and the other is dull in words and deeds, waiting for a woman to confess her love to him.
In fact, in the new society, women can express their love to the man they like. This is not embarrassing or despicable. However, the latter kind of men often wait for a woman to pursue them and immediately think: Is there something wrong with this woman that makes her unable to marry? , then I can’t even ask for it! Men at both ends are not responsible men, only those in the middle are responsible men! 7. A man with a sense of responsibility will not overestimate his abilities because of his high education, nor will he belittle highly educated people because of his low education, nor will he belittle highly educated people while saying that he will be able to "do something in a certain way" in the future. Means” becomes higher education. No matter how strong a man's social activity ability is with this kind of mentality, he cannot be called outstanding. A man with a normal mentality is not proud (even if he is rich, educated, and powerful), nor inferior (even if he has nothing at the moment, as long as he is correct, sincere, and motivated). It is difficult for people with low self-esteem or pride to have a plain and warm married life! 8. A responsible man will keep his virginity until marriage. Sex is a very solemn and pure thing. A man who is casual about sex is definitely not a responsible man. Humans are animals, but men who have self-control and can control their behavior through rational judgment of the brain are higher animals. Such men have a stronger awareness and ability of marriage, family and moral restraint, and understand that the harm caused by extramarital sex to both parties is not a trivial matter. A man who has sex before marriage is definitely more likely to cheat again after marriage than a man who stays private before marriage (note: the same goes for women.) A truly responsible man will not make excuses for his impulses. A man who truly loves a woman will let his beloved woman save the good sex until after marriage. Jia Baoyu is more frivolous than many women in the Grand View Courtyard, but he can always be "in love but not polite" towards his beloved Lin Daiyu and Qingwen, and it is the two women's "clean nature and cleanliness" character that further strengthens Baoyu's heart. Love weight. The difference between liking and loving depends largely on sexual attitudes.
Only those who truly understand love can understand this