First, the importance of learning prenatal education knowledge
If knowledge is the most important, I say fetal knowledge is the most important, because human life begins with the fetus.
However, I advise you not to learn fetal knowledge only from a scientific perspective, but also from a Buddhist perspective, which is beneficial and harmless. Buddhism specializes in the spiritual form of life. Although it cannot be proved by scientific experiments, it cannot be proved by science. After all, science and Buddhism are different disciplines, so it is even more wrong to study them together and oppose Buddhism and technology.
Second, eggs and sperm are capable, conscious and intelligent lives.
As we all know, human life can be divided into three stages: the independent stage of eggs and sperm, the embryonic stage and the adult stage.
From the Buddhist point of view, everything is conscious. Of course, eggs and sperm are also conscious. Why does a mature egg choose only one sperm among tens of thousands of sperm to conceive? And ignore other sperm? Buddhist understanding is the causal chance of pregnant eggs and sperm in previous lives.
Scientifically speaking, pregnant eggs and sperm have a strong desire to attract each other.
In short, whether in Buddhism or science, eggs and sperm are conscious lives, they have the desire and ability to survive, and they also have the wisdom to choose and combine. The life forms of eggs and sperm are pure, quiet and almost pure spiritual life, which is essentially different from turbid, complex and eager material life.
Third, the embryonic stage is the process of life formation.
From the moment the egg is fertilized, the physical life of desire comes into being. But the fertilized egg is just an unformed primitive life, a material life without thoughts and chaos.
The fertilized egg continues to develop. By the third month, a human body weighing about 28 grams has basically taken shape, with the eyes, ears, nose, tongue and other body and mind as mentioned in Buddhism, but it has not yet formed physical functions. By the sixth month, the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and heart have primary functions, and they are aware of sound, light, temperature and taste. , and have primary memory ability and initial emotional response.
From a scientific point of view and a Buddhist point of view, the embryonic stage is already an advanced life and the beginning of life, so Buddhism resolutely opposes abortion. But from the legal point of view, the fetus is not a natural person, and there is no human right of personality at the legal level.
Fourth, is prenatal education effective? How to prenatal education?
Correct prenatal education is absolutely effective and of course necessary.
However, I advocate that prenatal education should start from eggs and sperm, to fertilized eggs, to embryos, to fetuses, and each stage has different requirements.
First, prenatal education at the stage of eggs and sperm, mainly the health of married couples, can produce very healthy eggs and sperm. In addition, the pure feelings, happiness and normal and clean sex life of married couples will have different degrees of influence on the quality of eggs and sperm.
The second is the prenatal education in the embryonic stage, mainly the mother's living environment and life emotions. The fertilized egg has strict requirements on the uterine environment, so as a mother, she is not allowed to eat, drink, smoke, prefer spicy, sweet, sour, bittersweet, take medicine according to the doctor's advice, take a bath with hot water above 39 degrees, go to places with harsh environment, be tired, have fun and worry, and have a moderate sexual life with husband and wife.
The third is the fetal stage. In addition to those taboos in the embryonic period, we should also carry out prenatal music education, and the music should be soft, soft and lively. It is recommended to use high-quality Buddhist songs.
In short, pregnancy is a very important thing for the family, and the whole family must take it seriously. During this period, families should live in harmony and avoid conflicts.
Finally, let's talk about why the eight-character calculation should start from the womb, not from the pregnancy. Although there are many feudal dross in Suanzi, the theory of "four pillars and eight characters" still contains many cultural connotations.
The theory of "four pillars and eight characters" holds that although the fetus is already a complete advanced life, it is still a chaotic life parasitic on the mother, with neither independent physical function nor ideological ability. But the baby after birth is completely different from fertilized eggs, embryos and fetuses. The baby is already an independent individual, but the individual needs to mature.
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