The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea.
Only by respecting others can people be respected.
People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev
A great man has two hearts: a bleeding heart and a tolerant heart. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun
Those who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. -"Mencius Li Lou"
The famous writer Long Fang once quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance refers to allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own or accepted views. China Modern Chinese Dictionary explains tolerance as: magnanimous, unconcerned and not pursued.
1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny.
2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy.
3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "There are poplars everywhere, and every family has Chang 'an Road. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing.
Tolerance is a strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings.
6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows in thorns." If we can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad.
8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness.
9. The motto about tolerance:
Violet left its fragrance there and squashed its ankle. This is forgiveness. "-Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. (Analects of Confucius)
Taishan does not let the soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese)
"Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. -a line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice
Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help)
The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)
Generosity is the greatest thing (Irving)
● There are many occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment, what you can achieve through forgiveness, and what you can achieve through forgiveness. -(Sidney Smith)
Forgive sincerely, and then forget it (UK)
Forgiveness is human and forgetting is sacred (James Glenn)
● Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the most intolerant (bernays)
The noblest revenge is forgiveness (Hugo)
● People who have not tolerated others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)
God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth)
Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never tolerate it. It's not in his nature (Stern)
Tolerance is either good or bad for people (Burke)
● Never approach a person who hurts others' teeth but opposes revenge and advocates tolerance-(Lu Xun)
● Want to be warm and smooth, don't want to observe, and cut it clearly.
● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend
● Strictness is love, looseness is harm, and it will deteriorate if you are not careful.
● Pet is harmful, and strictness is love.
● Cultivating you is to love you, and spoiling you is to harm you.
Love is deep, but responsibility is severe (France)
● The family is not strict to recruit thieves, and people are not strict to recruit risks.
● Poor teaching leads to teachers' laziness.
● If you want to be a party, the rules must be strict.
Gentlemen love virtue, while villains love tolerance.
● Be lenient with others and be strict with others.
● Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.
Forgive others with affection and reason with law.
Be hard on yourself and be nice to others.
Treat others with spring breeze and treat yourself with cold wind.
● Be generous to others and humble to yourself; The responsibility should be thick and the responsible person should be thin.
● Blame yourself with the heart of others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself.
Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Silas)
When you have to let go, you must let go, you must forgive and forgive.
● People who are not as good as themselves cannot be sick (Xue Mingxuan)
People should be tolerant of each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed (Keats)
In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow everyone to keep their individuality (Schopenhauer)
● Wide to strict, strict to wide, wide to strict (Zuo Zhuan)
Low compassion, kindness and power.
● Combining leniency with severity can accomplish things.
● Wide and chestnut, strict and warm "Huainanzi"
● The way to govern the country is to care about fierceness and leniency (Song Zhuxi)