Is it really impossible to get married when the difference between men and women is 369 years? Listen and analyze

Q: Can men and women really not get married at the age of three, six and nine? A: There are special reasons for the difference between the eight characters of men and women, which are three years old, six years old and nine years old. The argument that the age difference of six years is inappropriate mainly comes from the eight characters called "Six Reds", which means Woods Chong, Ugly Buchong, Shen Yinchong, You Mao Chong, Chen Xuchong and Hai Si Chong, and the age difference is just six years, so some people think that the difference of six years is not good. It is also based on the theory of "three punishments" and "six evils" in the eight-character theory. However, the mistake of exaggerating some usages and ignoring other important factors is made here, because the annual branch (that is, the Chinese zodiac) is only a column in the eight characters, and the influence of "year" is not even as important as "month" and "day", so we will know that they are unreasonable application rules without discussing actual examples for the time being. Those so-called four-year-old and seven-year-old marriages are happy and auspicious, mainly based on the trinity of birth and birth, and the six-in-one (that is, the "zodiac"). Similarly, this is also a rumor and should not be trusted. Because we have seen many examples, the relationship is still good when you are six years old, and you are divorced when you are four years old. This situation illustrates the fallacy of "six years short, four years short". If the two characters are inconsistent, we should refer to the whole character, that is, the "four pillars" formed by year, month, day and time, in order to make a correct judgment. It is a one-sided and irresponsible lie to judge only by the difference of several years, that is, to look at the "year of birth" instead of "month, day and time" So, we don't have to miss a great marriage because we are six years apart. Only by referring to all factors can we decide the fate of the two!