1. Your eight characters: Ding Mao, Wushen, Wuwu, Ding Si.
Your lover's horoscope: Chen Wu is not ugly.
2. Judging from Yin Na's five elements, you are a fire in the furnace, and he is a big forest. It is good for you to make a fire with wood.
There are peach blossoms in your life, and there should be other suitors on your yearbook, which is probably why he is attracted to you.
4. Your lover killed seven times with a seal, and helped you every day. If you meet a brother or a noble person, you will be very lucky, and vice versa. Moreover, your life roots are excellent, and entering your life will be blessed by your parents. I don't understand how he beat you at this point.
This is the shortcoming that I can see. As the old saying goes, "a dragon turns a rabbit into a cloud", but this is not a collision, but a mutual injury. The combination of dragon and rabbit makes many people happy. The key years hurt each other, and it may be your parents or his parents who disagree. However, I think this can also be solved by manpower. As long as the two sides communicate more, it is not a big deal.
6. If you get married and encounter difficulties in the future, it should be his brothers and sisters who can help you.
The above is what I can tell you, for reference only. Off-topic: I believe in numerology, but if my lover and I are really numerology, I will not give up. Neither of you is a "neutral life". The ancients said that neutralization is the most important thing in life, but is a mediocre life without great danger and great achievements really good? This is what I always suspected. If you love him too, do you have the heart to let your boyfriend down for three years? Not if it were me. My last advice to you is that I don't see any obvious contradiction between you, but it does have disadvantages, but it's not that serious. Of course, I can't compare with others. Just an opinion. If you get married, both husband and wife must communicate, and lovers should not invest easily, so it is better to run an industry. Printing and transportation can go a long way. Sincerely worshipping Buddha at home every day will alleviate or resolve your disaster (I'm not a Buddhist, I'm just saying). If you still have doubts about your numerology, you can find a regular numerology expert instead of a liar on the side of the road. Finally, good luck!
Seeking adoption is a satisfactory answer.