Doctor's boyfriend has poor emotional intelligence. Why are highly educated men so stupid?

I am a young woman in literature and art. I like drinking coffee and reading famous books in my spare time. Because of this, I am full of romantic and sweet yearning for love. I believe in love at first sight, and I long for one day to meet my true love inadvertently and love each other forever. It is because of this naive idea that I am only 30 years old and still single. My family is heartbroken about my personal problems. All the topics in my family are marriage except blind date.

Last year, with the help of my family, I met my boyfriend Luo Hao. On that day, I met him for the first time in a western restaurant, which didn't leave him a good impression: he was black and thin, and he looked a little funny in a slightly wrinkled white shirt and tie on a hot day. Aunt Li, the introducer, warmly introduced him to me and praised him for his cleverness and ability. He was admitted to a doctor at a young age and worked in a scientific research institution with an annual salary of several hundred thousand. Mother nodded again and again, and Aunt Li said, "Young people have something to say together, so we won't join in the fun. Come on, let's find a place to have tea. "

Only he and I were left, and the atmosphere suddenly became dull. He took the initiative to find a topic to chat with, tried his best to please me and kept making friends with me. Out of courtesy, I have to ask him and answer him. After fidgeting for half an hour, I offered to go first, but Luo Hao insisted on seeing me off. The road is under construction, and people and vehicles are mixed. He always walks outside me and protects me firmly inside. This little detail makes me feel that he is still a very careful person.

In this way, Luo Hao and I kept our distance. Half a year ago, I went back to his home with him to meet his parents. I can feel that his parents like me very much, and his father's words have always revealed the meaning of urging us to get married. Similarly, my family is also very optimistic about us, and both parents are at home. While preparing for the wedding, Luo Hao suddenly called me and told me that he didn't want to consider getting married now, and asked me to find another suitable boy. He said he couldn't afford the happiness I wanted.

Luo Hao's attitude surprised me. I didn't know until I asked him again and again It turns out that his family thinks that my horoscope is not in harmony with his, and I will not be happy when I get married. It happened that his father was ill during that time, and his family put the problem on me. Listening to my boyfriend's words, I am really in distress situation. An educated intellectual should believe these idealistic things.

At that moment, I looked up with a smile, just afraid that tears would flow down unwillingly and let him see my fragility. When I was leaving, he kissed me mercilessly regardless of my struggle. He said he just made me hate him and I'll never forget him. Later, I left in tears. Instead of chasing me, he sent me a message to forget him and find my happiness as soon as possible.

I have invested a lot in this relationship, and I can't let go easily. I am in pain now and have no confidence to continue living. I am struggling in pain, and this feeling is really tired. ...