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1. Let’s talk about fortune telling first. There are many kinds of fortune telling and there are many levels of fortune telling. There are hundreds of fortune-telling algorithms, especially now, many modern people have begun to establish sects and so on. But there are different levels of skill. I don’t know if the fortune teller the poster is looking for is an expert or a lowly person. One of my teachers studied under Master Shi Suxi (the former abbot of Shaolin and the teacher of current abbot Shi Yongxin) in Shaolin Temple for 20 years, and he studied under Taoist Priest Li Chengyu of Wudang Mountain for 20 years. He said a very classic saying - if he can really give If your calculation is correct, giving him 5,000 yuan (to tell your fortune) is not much. If your calculation is wrong, giving him 50 cents is too much, and it is a waste of your time! Therefore, please first ask the poster to judge the level of the person who tells your fortune, and whether the fortune teller is correct or not!
To be fair, 95% of fortune tellers in today’s society are average. We cannot say 99%. After all, some people can sometimes be right! Originally, in order to test fortune-telling, I asked NNN people to tell me fortune-telling. I felt that they were all being deceived - because I understood the connotation of fortune-telling and I didn't say anything. In the end, they themselves were confused.
2. Marriage, if a person does not change his destiny or do good deeds in his life, then his life’s destiny is basically determined! There is a certain truth to the saying "My destiny is up to me and not up to God". The premise is - if you follow your numerology completely, then it must be up to you and not up to God!
It turns out that I was also paying attention to my own destiny all day long, calculating every year, every day, and even writing the calculations in a notebook with me. At that time, I also calculated for others online and answered their questions. ; Later I met some real masters, studied the Diamond Sutra, and tried to change myself. Judging from my life experience, it was very good!
I started learning the Four Pillar Algorithm, and later learned the Bagua Algorithm. Now it is basically a kind of induction. If anyone does what I have done before, I can sense it. Of course, this is still far from the realm of my teacher. My teacher can basically know 100% what the person sitting across from him is thinking. It is a kind of qigong that requires guidance from an expert and the opening of the Third Eye. People with enlightenment need to practice it for at least five years. More than 10 years, and those who have a good understanding of destiny will need 20 or even 30 years, or even a lifetime; my teacher was a senior at that time, but he has not yet graduated, and he is already over 50 years old this year.
My teacher practiced Buddhism first and Taoism later. His conclusion is that Buddhism and Taoism are interlinked. His explanation of fate is that it can be changed, but it depends on your starting point. For example, if you can change things through Feng Shui, such as doing good deeds, Feng Shui has great effects and quick results, but it is also dangerous; doing good deeds comes slowly but lasts a long time. Also, don’t have harmful ideas, or be too utilitarian! For example - when I do a good deed, I silently say in my mind, "I am doing this for my marriage." In this case, the effect will be compromised, so I should look at it with a calm mind.
One more thing, you should be clear when doing good deeds. If he is a fake beggar, he will just say "bring me money" when he sees you. It is best not to give it to him. If you give it to him, it is very likely that you are a beggar. It's counteracting your merits because you encourage his luck mentality of getting something for nothing! So if you are begging, it is best to give some food, use your money to buy food, and then give it to him. After he eats it, your merits will be real merits. You are also aware of the various beggar groups in society today.
In addition, if it is a person who really needs help and you also have the idea of ????helping him, then you must do it firmly! For example, there is a person in a trance on the road who is not in a normal state of mind and has no food for lunch. You want to buy him something to eat. If you have such an idea, please do it immediately! If you don’t do it, it will offset your merits! This is what we usually call "I'm sorry for my conscience!"
3, I have said a lot above, my conclusion - don't think too much about marriage, work hard and practice well; On the one hand, the family needs to be run, and both people need to make concessions. There is not much conflict of interest in living at home. Over hundreds of millions of years, among hundreds of millions of people, the meeting of two people is a rare fate in itself. Please cherish it! In addition, if you practice well and do good deeds, accumulate your own merits, everything will be perfect!
Wish you health and happiness every day!!!