First, the secret of choosing a wedding date:
Decided the profit period with female life, and chose auspicious tree. Firstly, according to women's "destiny", we choose "auspicious" months, which are divided into good luck and small profit, followed by bad luck, bad parents, bad husbands and bad women.
1, such as female life is "child, noon" year.
(1) The months in Italy are (June and December) and the small months are (January and July).
② February, August, March and September respectively.
(3) The months that hurt the husband are (April and1October), and the months that hurt the woman's body are (May and 1 1 month).
2. If a woman's life is "ugly, no" year.
(1) Italian month is (May and 1 1 month), and abortion is (April and1month).
(2) March and September are the months against the elderly, and February and August are the months against female parents.
(3) The months that hurt the husband are (January and July), and the months that hurt the woman's health are [June and December].
3. If a woman's life is the year of "Yin and Shen".
(1) The months in Italy are (February and August), and the small months are [March and September].
(2) April and October are the obstacles to the elderly, and May and November are the obstacles to the female parents.
(3) It is harmful to the husband (June, 1 February) and the woman's health (1July).
Second, the date of marriage:
1, women live mainly.
Usually, the choice of marriage is based on women's life, supplemented by men's life. Women's auspicious days are Italy month, auspicious month, Wenggu month or parents' month. Man's life is auspicious. He has four lives. Calculate his anger.
2. Leap year and leap month.
It is auspicious to get married on an auspicious day, and even days are yes-men. Therefore, the auspicious day of marriage can be chosen in some leap years and leap months, which will have good omen and good luck. In addition, leap years and leap months should distinguish between solar calendar and lunar calendar.
3. Harmony is good.
It is better to be harmonious, that is to say, the heavenly stems or earthly branches of the four pillars of the daily class should be five in six, and the six in six are ugly, yin, hair, Chen, Shen and Wu. It is not appropriate to choose the combat mode on certain days. Harmony means a smooth marriage, and conflict means an unstable marriage.
4. I like to use God Day.
Choose a wedding date, and both men and women celebrate God's Day, or Tianyi Noble Day, Tiande Noble Day, Wenchang Day, etc. If a woman's life is just the opposite of a man's life, a woman's life will be dominated by the day of loving God, and a man's life will just avoid the day of avoiding God.
5. Geely numbers.
According to the auspicious figures of the square column and the characters of both men and women, avoid some taboo figures. For example, if it is a eight-character wedding, it is best to use the sixth, eleventh, sixteenth, twenty-first and twenty-sixth days of the wedding. In addition, it should be noted that, generally speaking, eight characters prefer water to soil, so don't choose soil numbers on the wedding day, such as 5, 10, 15, 20, etc. Especially on March, June, August and September, it is not a good day for everyone to get married, which varies from person to person.
Third, the taboo on the wedding day:
1, avoid the year of spring.
The so-called year without spring means that there is no beginning of spring in a year, which is also called widowed year in some places. Widowed means dead husband, which is a taboo in marriage. Therefore, when choosing an auspicious day for marriage, we should avoid the year without spring to avoid bad luck.
2. Avoid March 7th and September of the lunar calendar.
There are some festive days in the lunar calendar, such as Qingming, Yulan, Chonggong, Zhongyuan and so on. Therefore, these months are not auspicious months when holding wedding ceremonies, and we should also avoid them when choosing auspicious days for marriage.
3. Avoid Sannianzi and Yang Gongbi.
According to legend, Yue Lao won't lead the red line for San Niang, so that she can't get married. Sanniang retaliated against Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, it is not appropriate to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of every month.
You must avoid your parents' birthdays.
In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. Because if parents' birthdays and wedding days are together, they will have the meaning of "red", which means "beaming". This is also a symbol of bad luck.
5. Avoid people who are in conflict with each other.
There are two situations that can avoid the conflict of genus. One is the genus conflict between newcomers, which can be solved by choosing an auspicious day. In addition, you can't find a bridesmaid and best man who conflicts with your wedding, otherwise it's unlucky. You can find someone from the same family to be the best man and maid of honor, which can increase your fortune.
Conclusion:
Although there are many stresses on choosing an auspicious day to get married, they are all designed to bring some good wishes and auspicious symbols to the wedding. Newcomers who are ready to get married may wish to pay attention to choosing an auspicious day that suits them according to the secret of choosing a day.