Eight principles of choosing a date for marriage
Marriage is a major event in life, and choosing a date for marriage is one of the traditional wedding customs. Everyone hopes to choose a good day to get married. Let's share the eight principles of choosing a date for marriage. Let's take a look at the eight principles of choosing a wedding date. 1. Choosing a wedding date is a professional numerology problem, which should be carefully treated.
When choosing a wedding date, we should consider the forbidden year for men, the forbidden year for women, the forbidden day for women to marry in Italy, the forbidden day for women to marry, the three-phase taboo for marrying and sending women off, getting on and off the sedan chair, and the auspicious songs on various days.
second, look at the date of marriage from the perspective of "auspicious month" and "small auspicious month"
look at the date of marriage from the perspective of "female life line marries auspicious month", we should first consider the month of marriage.
in a year, each animal sign has two "good months" and two "bad months".
The formula of "Happy Moon" is:
Welcome chickens and rabbits in the first and seventh days, tigers and monkeys in the second and eighth days, snakes and pigs in the third and ninth days, dragons and dogs in the fourth and tenth days, cattle and sheep in May and November, and rats and horses in June and December.
The formula of "Little Moon" is:
Welcome dragons and dogs on the 7th, cattle and sheep on the 2nd and 8th, rats and horses on the 3rd and 9th, chickens and rabbits on the 4th and 1th, tigers and monkeys in May and November, and snakes and pigs in June and December.
In order to get lucky, people often use "good luck month". In case you can't get married in the "big month" for some reason, you can also look it up in the "small month".
Third, the date of marriage should be based on the woman's "birthdates"
The date of marriage should be based on the woman. One principle of choosing a date is to give priority to the date of birth of the bride and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes: "When a child is born, a woman marries by marriage", which shows the importance of the woman's choice of date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, which new people must not ignore.
Fourth, it is appropriate to choose a leap year and a leap month for a good wedding day
China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the saying of "leap month" and "leap year". Choose an auspicious day for marriage, preferably in a year with a leap month, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there were no "leap months" and "leap years" in those years, there is no need to force them. Note that "leap year" is divided into solar calendar and lunar calendar.
Fifth, the auspicious day of marriage must avoid those unfavorable days
As the saying goes, "The fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day of the fifth month keeps the mouse out of the temple", so the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day of each month is generally not suitable as the auspicious day of marriage. Avoid the lunar calendar in September and March. It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are all traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for happy events.
Sixth, avoid Sanniang evil spirit on a auspicious day for marriage
According to legend, Yuelao doesn't hold the red line for Sanniang, which prevents her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang rebelled against Yuelao and sabotaged the wedding ceremony of the couple. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the third day, seventh day, thirteenth day, eighteenth day, 22nd day and 27th day of each month.
Seven, the auspicious day of marriage must avoid parents' birthdays
In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious day of marriage, that is, it is not appropriate to get married on parents' birthdays.
8. The date of the wedding ceremony should be the main one.
If you decide to separate the date of registration from the date of the wedding ceremony, it's best to do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day. Eight principles of choosing a wedding date 2
1. Give priority to the woman and give consideration to the man
One principle of choosing a wedding date is to choose an auspicious day based on the date of birth of the bride and the date of birth of the man and others, and try to choose auspicious days for both parties, such as the Day of the First Lady and the Day of Noble Moon.
As the saying goes, "A child depends on his birth. Women rely on the wedding year, which shows the importance of the woman's wedding date. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce, so new people must not ignore it.
second, avoid the traditional taboo months and days
first, avoid the March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Menglan and Chongyang respectively, so it is not suitable for holding happy events.
Second, avoid the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month, which are the days of traditional taboos such as the so-called Sanniang Sha and Yang Gong taboo. According to legend, Yuelao didn't lead the red line for Sanniang, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang turned against Yuelao, specifically ruining the wedding of the couple.
the third is to avoid the birthdays of both parents. Some people often choose to hold a banquet on their father's or mother's birthday, which is euphemistically called: double happiness. In fact, in traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married.
Third, the registration and the wedding date should be separated
If you decide to separate the registration and the wedding ceremony date, it's best to choose a date for these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.
Fourth, we should comprehensively consider and balance the convenience of all parties
Wedding is a great event for both men and women's families, which can involve many relatives and friends attending the wedding, so we should consider and balance the convenience of all parties in choosing the wedding date.
Generally speaking, parents usually want to hold weddings for their children on weekends (especially on Saturdays) or long holidays, which is convenient for distant relatives to come. In fact, this is not the best choice. The disadvantages are mainly: the long vacation transportation and accommodation costs are expensive, and the traffic congestion also causes inconvenience to newcomers and guests to some extent.