In many poor areas, women are often trafficked. Some older men buy abducted women from traffickers when they can't find a wife. In order to prevent the bought daughter-in-law from escaping, her personal freedom will be restricted, and she will be beaten, intimidated and imprisoned. In this way, these bought daughters-in-law have become fertility machines and entertainment tools, and their rights and interests are not guaranteed at all. In such a family, many girls are driven crazy and the human tragedy is chilling. Their suffering is almost outrageous. In many particularly poor areas, due to economic underdevelopment, a large number of young men can't find wives, and some even are old bachelors in their fifties and sixties. They took out their life savings and bought abducted women from traffickers. The girl they bought is their tool in their eyes, with a very good purpose. They are used to have children and have fun. They don't treat these women as human beings, ranging from threats to beatings. Not long ago, there was a heated discussion on the Internet. An old man in his sixties bought a female college student from a trafficker, and abruptly tortured the girl into a madman. Later, although the old man was arrested by the public security bureau and the girl was rescued, the pain left in her heart could not be cured in this life. Such a case is too big. Just like the Fengxian incident some time ago, men chained the bought plums in a pigsty like animals, turning them into fertility machines and tools for enjoyment. The audience was sad and smelled tears. For these abducted girls, it is simply a hell on earth.
Therefore, I will not let my daughter marry away to poor areas, often poor areas. Due to the influence of educational environment and other factors, most young men in these areas do not respect the concept of women's rights and interests. In their minds, women are tools to have children and have fun. They will be placed under house arrest for fear that their married daughter-in-law will escape. If they run away, they are often arrested, threatened and beaten, and then locked up and not allowed to go out.
Although I don't have a daughter, let alone a daughter, neither does my wife. Take my cousin for example. She met a young man when she was working in Shenzhen. This young man is very handsome and usually cares about my cousin. My cousin was moved by her and became a lover with him. They fell in love for a year. By the end of the year, she followed the boy to his house. However, after arriving at his home. Because the boy's home is in the poor mountainous area of Wanyuan County, it can be described as a family with four walls. There are three low-rise earth-walled houses at home, which are very simple and shabby, which makes my cousin very desperate. At this time, she regretted having made this boyfriend and wanted to leave, but she couldn't leave. She was imprisoned by a boy. Finally, one day, my cousin thought about it and said that she was sick and caught a cold, begging the boy to buy some cold medicine. Let my parents watch her. After the boy left, my cousin pretended to have a stomachache and made a phone call in the house. At this moment, the boy's parents opened the door and gave her some water. Cousin said she hadn't heard from her for a long time after she came back. She wants to call home to report her safety and ask them to return her mobile phone. Just a phone call. At first, the boy's parents didn't agree, but the cousin pretended to be very poor and said that she had lived here with peace of mind and didn't intend to leave. Her parents haven't heard from them for a long time, so I dare not call the police, so I want to give them peace. Finally, the boy's parents believed him, returned his mobile phone to his cousin and monitored her to call her. After the cousin called home, she only said that she was safe and told her parents not to worry. Finally, she hung up the phone. Afraid of being discovered by boys, I quickly deleted the chat record. At this time, the boy's parents urged his cousin to hand over his mobile phone, and his cousin gave it to them with a smile.
Later, after the menstrual alarm, the police located through the mobile phone, took more than 20 people with Uncle Menstruation, and went to the mountainous area of Wanyuan County to rescue his cousin, even without thinking about it.
The reason why you don't want your daughter to marry in a poor area.
First, economic factors.
Due to the objective reasons of economic conditions in poverty-stricken areas, girls often have poor living conditions after marriage, which can not guarantee the happiness of marriage, so this is also the reason why many parents do not want their daughters to marry in poverty-stricken areas.
Second, the man will exercise control over the woman.
Because it is difficult for men in poor areas to find a wife, once they have a wife, they will control it, and girls will lose their freedom and personal rights. They are often locked up at home like animals and will eventually become a tool without thinking.
Third, women's rights and interests are not guaranteed.
The rights and interests of women in poverty-stricken areas are not guaranteed, which is also because the educational conditions in poverty-stricken areas are relatively backward, which has spawned a large number of abductions and sales of women as commodities, so this is also the reason why many people do not want their daughters to marry in poverty-stricken areas.
I won't agree with my daughter marrying in a poor area, because marrying in a poor area can't guarantee her happy marriage and personal rights and interests can't be guaranteed.