My friend did something wrong recently.
Because he has a bad temper, he always loses his temper with each other on impulse.
Once at work, because the customer was dissatisfied, he was asked to modify the design draft many times.
At first, he could accept it, but his friends always felt that the customer was deliberately messing with him, either this or that.
The manuscript is almost perfect, but customers always find fault with eggs.
After work, he was depressed and went to the bar for a drink. I didn't expect a friend to call a client and talk nonsense with each other, which was ugly.
My friend didn't know the seriousness of the matter until the next day, but it was too late. Knowing this, I fired my friend in a rage.
This year is a special year, and it is not easy to find a job. Now that he is unemployed, he is very anxious and blames himself for his bad temper.
There are too many such people in life. It was obviously a small matter, but because they lost their temper, they made a big deal out of it.
People with good temper have clearer brains and know how to avoid negative emotions.
If you want to live a good life, you must have a good temper. Sometimes, a person's life depends on his temper.
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There is a kind of fish in the basin called mullet, which has a bad temper and is the absolute overlord.
Although powerful, it always dies because of the humble pointed-billed fish.
It turns out that when the sharp-billed fish is chased by mullet, it always runs to a complicated hole to avoid chasing.
The mullet was very angry after seeing it, and wanted to hit it and force the pointed-billed fish out.
Pointed-billed fish is also very smart and deliberately provokes mullet, so mullet will launch a more violent impact.
When it cracked, the pointed-billed fish swam into the mullet, and it opened its mouth.
Sharp-billed fish are slender. If it gets stuck in the throat of mullet, mullet will die because it can't eat anything.
If in normal times, the pointed-billed fish is no match for mullet at all, because of mullet's anger, it has ruined its own life.
Not only fish, but also irritable people are more likely to do out-of-line things than peaceful people.
When a person is controlled by anger, it is actually a very terrible thing.
Because of anger, people can't make rational decisions, but only make a series of wrong behaviors according to their own instincts.
It's really cool after the relationship, but the consequences are not what you can predict, or even what you can't make up for.
The mess after negative emotions, no matter serious or not, needs to be borne by yourself.
No matter what happens, you should learn to be calm and deal with it rationally.
When you think of a better way, big things will become small things, and even the most difficult situations will have solutions.
Solving emotions first and then solving problems is the correct way for an adult to deal with emergencies.
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Zhou Zeng said: "It is instinct to find fault with those close to you, but it is an education to overcome your instinct and not lose your temper with those close to you."
Come to think of it, it's true. We are kind to others outside, but we always give our family the worst temper.
Shi Tiesheng has become irritable since his legs were paralyzed.
I always leave home suddenly and come back without saying anything. I always smash things and hit my unconscious legs hard.
Always hysterical, vent the worst temper in my family and vent it on my mother.
No matter what Shi Tiesheng did, his mother silently embraced him, grabbed his hand and said to him, "Let's live a good life, live a good life ..."
What Shi Tiesheng didn't know was that his mother had advanced liver cancer and fell ill at night, so she couldn't sleep in pain.
On one occasion, my mother inadvertently touched the critical point of stone temper. She went out quietly so as not to make the child angry.
Unexpectedly, it was their last time.
The kind neighbor carried her mother to the car, and her mother was vomiting blood. Before she died, she finally said, "I have a sick son and an underage daughter ..."
Say that finish, then die.
Shi Tiesheng therefore regretted it very much. This is the attitude he used to treat his mother, and now he regrets it.
Not all apologies and guilt can get the forgiveness and results you want.
Although people make mistakes, not all of them can be made, and not all of them can be made up by you.
Shi Tiesheng once said: "I want to tell you not to lose your temper with the people closest to you." I have understood, but it is too late. "
Many people always rely on the deep feelings of themselves and their loved ones and always do whatever they want.
Bring indelible harm to your family, but they will always tolerate and forgive your mistakes.
Don't wait until you have no chance to regret it, and wake up when your family leaves.
Home is our harbor, and whenever, we should leave our good temper to our family, because they are your backing and confidence.
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I once read a story.
A little boy, very naughty and bad-tempered.
Every time I am with other children, I throw stones at others when I am wronged, and even smash other people's windows when it is serious.
Adults say that such children must be worthless when they grow up.
So I'm worried that in order to control the boy's temper, let him nail a nail on the board every time he loses his temper.
In just one day, the boy nailed more than twenty nails.
? Tell him to pull out a nail when you can control your temper.
As time went on, the number of nails became less and less until the boy pulled out all the nails.
Teaching boys to lose their temper is like nailing a nail on a board. Even if you control your temper, it will bring harm to others.
Once said: "People who can control their emotions are greater than those who can win the city."
We live in the world, there are too many unpleasant things, and we will meet too many unpleasant people.
If you get angry when you encounter bumps, it will only waste time. It is better to use this time to work hard.
If you always have negative emotions and complain about life, you will accomplish nothing in the future.
If you control your temper, spend your angry time doing useful things and take a long-term view, you will lose your temper and become excellent.
Behind the temper is a person's cultivation and pattern.
Good temper can bring you a lifetime.
For the rest of my life, I hope everyone has a good temper and controls his own life.
The above is related to the futile eight-character peace of women's life, and it is about the sharing of the two sexes. I read the eight characters of a female life without an official star, I hope this will help everyone!