Do I still need to ask this question? I think you can stop moving on with him now. I think there is no need to get married. Since you now feel that the man owes 200,000 in gambling debts, you have no way to live well with him, and the man’s family Since I also feel that it is because of your bad horoscopes and the man owes 200,000 in gambling debts, then your goals coincide, so there is no need for you to get married.
But I am very curious, why does your horoscopes not match, causing the other party to owe 200,000 gambling debts? I think this is completely unreasonable. Are the other people’s families such pedantic people? Isn't there any sensible person here? Even if the other person is unlucky because of your bad horoscope, then why does he want to gamble? If he doesn't gamble, how can he owe 200,000 yuan in gambling debt?
So I think the reason for this matter is because this man prefers gambling, so this matter has nothing to do with you. There is no need for you to feel guilty about this matter, and even if it is you When the two of you are together, he will still continue to gamble, and if you win, he will say that it is your responsibility. So I think you really don’t need to continue in this relationship. Let’s go. If this goes on, you will be criticized all the time, and you will feel very tired, so I think you should have a good talk with your parents and cancel the marriage.
I think even your parents should not agree with you marrying this man now. Even if their family has paid off the 200,000 gambling debt, who can guarantee it? He will never gamble again in the future. As long as he gets involved with a man who gambles, it will be a huge pressure on the family.