Take an individual as an example. In life, I am a person who often adds ideological burden to myself. How to add it? For example, every time I go to someone's house for dinner, I don't consciously want to wash the dishes, and I feel that if I don't do so, I will be condemned internally. For another example, when her mother-in-law asked her husband questions, her husband was silent, and I had to stand up and answer her mother-in-law's words at once, otherwise I would feel that my daughter-in-law would not do anything and leave her mother-in-law alone. For example, when my mother-in-law gives me advice, I hope I can implement it immediately, but I don't recognize it in my heart, but I will still do it according to my mother-in-law's advice. I feel that if I don't do it, I don't respect my mother-in-law ... In fact, I have given myself such a burden and actually gained the respect of others. Although I often contradict myself, it is only for a few minutes.
A person's thoughts are too silent in his own world, and he may lose a lot of better feedback from life.
For example, in the stock market, when I was still learning how to invest and how to become a stock market priest, Bitcoin rose hundreds of times. I just know that Bitcoin is really promising. Maybe if I jump out of my own circle and look at the whole world, the world will give me better feedback; For example, failure, when I am ashamed of my incompetence or my wrong move, I will indulge in regret for a long time, and when I am forced by reality, I will find another way; Another example is playing games. I thought my skill was good enough to kill my opponent, but I ignored the importance of my teammates. In the end, I was outnumbered and defeated ... when I knew that I would easily indulge in some aspects of my life and ignore others, I would remember to remind myself to always pay attention to all directions.
Life is enlightenment, constant awakening and constant breakthrough.
When I was a child, I thought that the school, family and community where I lived were a complete world. I could be willful, wild and manic, because everyone would have similar experiences in my immature and simple childhood. When I left the place where I lived for a long time and embarked on the journey of university, the pattern of the world suddenly enlarged and the three views were subverted, but I also began to understand frequently, awaken frequently and break through myself frequently.
I set my own life. I will envy others for being happier than me, but I will try my best to make myself happier. Other people's lives belong to others, so I need to build my own life so that I can move forward towards my ideal life. I won't be influenced by others, I will become more determined and feel more secure, so my spiritual wealth is a more valuable life.