1. An 800-word essay on hometown wedding customs
There was a theory of "six rites" in ancient my country, and this custom is also found in some areas today. , accept the levy, please come in time, and welcome in person. In fact, the wedding customs agreed by the people in various regions are not completely limited by these six rituals. It simplifies the process of blind date and engagement. For example, the date of invitation is combined with Naji. After the wedding, more attention is paid to the ceremonial processes such as the bride and groom drinking a glass of wine, the bridal chamber, and the "return to the door" after the wedding.
In my hometown, the wedding custom is as follows: the man posts a wedding invitation, and the basic steps for doing so are: after the groom’s family obtains the woman’s birthday and horoscope through the hands of a matchmaker, he puts it in a divination sign at home. Place, such as pressing it under the incense burner or placing it in front of the statue of the god, etc., and leave it for three days. If everyone in the family is safe during these three days, it means that the marriage has obtained the consent of the god and the divination has been successful. If an accident occurs during these three days, even if a bowl is broken, the birth date must be returned to the woman, and the marriage will not be successful. In some places, after getting the woman's horoscope, a fortune teller is asked to compare it. If the man and woman's horoscopes match, the marriage proposal is successful. Modern people often use the second type, especially when parents are dating their children. After passing the horoscope level, the man will post. The names and birthdays of both men and women are written side by side on the post on red paper and sent to the girl's home. The bride's family accepted the post and expressed their agreement to the marriage. The purpose of taking horoscopes and posting posts is to "observe God's will." This wedding custom represents the concept of "marriage is destined."
In the wedding stage, the dowry prepared by the woman is mostly pairs of quilts, clothes, cabinets, etc. On their wedding day and in the early morning before the wedding, the bride and groom will go to their respective homes to "go to the top", that is, they will choose a lucky old man to comb their hair and say some auspicious words.
The bride also needs to have her face opened, that is, her eyebrows will be smoothed. In the Hui'an area, when the groom is combing his hair, the old man who combs his hair will take the hand of a young boy and comb the groom's head three times with a comb and a lice grate respectively, saying: "Three times with the wooden comb and three times with the lice grate." Give birth to a large number of children and grandchildren."
The toilet in the new house made a boy drown on the wedding day. Sprinkle red dates, peanuts, longans, lotus seeds and other auspicious fruits on the new bed to represent the best wishes for "an early birth of a child".
When the groom leads the sedan chair to the groom's house, the custom in some places requires the mother-in-law to pull the daughter-in-law through the road paved with sacks in the courtyard. Go to the front and wait to be stepped on. This is called seeding. Some people have to step over a brazier to avoid evil spirits.
When the couple worships in the church, the host recites a congratulatory message loudly, interspersed with eating cakes for children and grandchildren, drinking Hehe soup, etc. 2. I am urgently looking for an 800-word article describing the wedding scene.
"Dong-dong-dong! Crack!" The deafening sound of firecrackers resounded through the sky. "Here comes the bride, here comes the bride!" People rushed to the door together.
I saw more than a dozen cars with red balloons tied to the doors slowly parked in front of my uncle’s house. The first white car was beautifully decorated with ribbons and red flowers. The car door opened, and my cousin walked out of the car. He was wearing a crisp suit, shiny leather shoes, and a conspicuous red flower on his chest. The word "groom" was written on the red ribbon under the flower. Behind is the bride wearing a wedding dress and holding flowers. "Wow! So beautiful!" People were talking on the sidelines.
At this time, an uncle brought several sprayers. The children swarmed up and sprayed the bride and groom with the sprayers. The bride's head and body were covered with spraying colorful ribbons, like an earthly fairy. People crowded around the bride. An uncle who was "seeing off the bride" took out a handful of candies from his bag and threw them all over the floor. While people were grabbing the candies, the cousin took the bride and ran into the courtyard. After running a few steps, several young men rushed over and grabbed the cousin and the bride. "Let's see where you are running away?" The two young men twisted their cousin's arms and pressed hard on his shoulders. "How can we take the bride back so easily? Put her on her back." The cousin was forced to squat down. Several young men pulled the bride towards her cousin. The bride blushed with embarrassment and hesitated to move forward. I just heard someone shouting: "You can't even carry it back, you can ride on your neck." The bride stopped even after hearing this. She struggled desperately, but she couldn't stand up to several young men. Someone else said: "Lift it up." Several people lifted the bride and put it on her cousin's neck. The people watching the excitement burst into laughter. Video recorders and cameras recorded this lively scene.
The wedding scene in the countryside is really interesting. 3. Han people’s wedding customs. Write an essay. Thank you for your answer.
China is a country of etiquette. For such an important event as a wedding, etiquette is of course indispensable. The wedding of the Han people starts with the marriage proposal and includes three parts: marriage proposal, engagement and marriage.
The first is to ask for marriage. In ancient times, parents' orders and matchmaker's words were emphasized. First, the man's parents find a matchmaker, introduce the situation to the matchmaker, put forward search requirements, give the matchmaker gifts and demonstrate their betrothal gift abilities. In ancient times, matchmakers were professional. The matchmaker would go to the woman's home to introduce the man's situation according to his situation. If the woman's parents agree, the man will go to the woman's home for a blind date. Both parties are represented by their parents.
If the two parties feel that they are a match and the conditions are right, the two families will give each other tokens of engagement. If the woman likes the man, he will give him a cup of tea. If the man is satisfied with the tea, he will put a certain amount of tea money on the table (must be two pairs). number), then the marriage is finalized.
The next step is the engagement. The two parties exchanged horoscopes and gave each other Geng stickers with names, horoscopes, ages, etc. written on them. If the horoscopes do not conflict with each other, marriage will begin.
"Accepting the bride" means that both parties express their acceptance of each other. The man chooses an auspicious day 15 to 20 days before the wedding to propose to the woman by sending him a betrothal gift, betrothal hairpin, and marriage certificate, which is the so-called excessive gift.
A few days before the wedding, the marriage bed is placed in the appropriate position by the woman who is recognized as having good fortune. This person will make the bed the day before the wedding, with mattresses, sheets, dragons, phoenixes, quilts, etc., and then sprinkle various fruits symbolizing auspiciousness (red dates, peanuts: early birth of a precious son, longan: happiness, and lychee beans, etc.). This is "setting up the bed". After the bed installation is completed, no one can enter the new house or touch the new bed.
This is the man. The woman must prepare a dowry. The dowry will be brought with the girl on the wedding day. In ancient times, dowry was a symbol of a woman's natal family's status and wealth. A woman with insufficient dowry was likely to be bullied by her husband's family. On the contrary, it could help establish her status in her husband's family. Finally came the final ceremony. This is what we call a wedding. The first is to welcome the bride. Ancient weddings were held in the evening. It’s not like a modern wedding. The groom must first worship his ancestors before going out, and the bride must be groomed and dressed by her mother herself, and covered with a red hijab. After the groom arrives, the bride is taken out of the boudoir by her sister or bridesmaid and handed over to her father, who then hands it over to the groom. After the newlyweds gathered with their parents-in-law, the bride got into a car and was escorted by the groom to the groom's house.
The female members of the groom’s family open the sedan door and invite the bride out. Then a blessed female elder from the groom’s side hands the red silk ribbon tied into a concentric knot to the newlyweds. The two of them walk into the hall holding the red ribbon. .
The next morning, the bride and groom will get up early to meet their parents-in-law. The groom will introduce all the relatives in his family to his wife, and then the bride will serve tea to these elders. On the third day, the bride will be the newlyweds.
* Worship the ancestors together, so that the bride officially becomes a member of the family.
Finally, a thank you gift must be prepared for the matchmaker.
The entire wedding is officially over. The so-called "night of flowers and candles in the bridal chamber and the time of naming the gold medal" are the most glorious and proud moments for ancient men. 4. An essay on folk customs of about 800 words
"56 ethnic groups, 56 flowers". Each ethnic group has different customs and habits, as well as distinctive houses and special foods. This corresponds to the saying "the winds are different in a hundred miles, and the customs are different in a thousand miles".
The Manchu is one of the 56 gorgeous flowers. The Manchu costumes are particularly distinctive. Let me briefly introduce them below.
Manchu women do not bind their feet. All their shoes are embroidered with beautiful flowers and have a 10 cm high wooden heel in the center of the sole. Manchu women can walk with their heads held high and their waists swaying when walking in such shoes.
Cheongsam is the traditional dress of Manchu women. They like to wear cheongsam that reaches their feet or wear a waistcoat. The characteristics of the cheongsam are a stand-up collar, a large right lapel, a tight waist and slits at the hem. Ancient cheongsam has Pipa lapel, Ruyi lapel, oblique lapel, piping or trimming, etc. After the 1920s, it was improved with a loose waist, wide cuffs, and moderate length, making it easier to walk. It has become a more popular clothing for Chinese women. In the early 1930s, influenced by Western short skirts, the length was shortened, almost to the knees, and the cuffs were reduced in size. In the mid-1930s, they were lengthened again, with high slits on both sides. In the 1940s, it shortened, and short-sleeved or sleeveless cheongsam appeared, with a streamlined appearance. Later, the front and back parts of the garment were separated, with shoulder seams and sleeve-style cheongsam skirts. Cheongsam has an oriental color and can fully display grace and elegance. It is considered to be a typical national costume that expresses female beauty. Fame in the world. 5. Write an essay about weddings
For reference only: Shan noticed the tears on her father’s face, and her father asked Shan in a low voice: “Do you really like this boy? Is he reliable?” Shan looked at her toes and nodded.
She heard her father sigh: "Okay, then get ready to get married..." At ten minutes in the middle of the night, Shan woke up from a coma, but she had no strength at all, and her mind was blank. Knowing how long she had slept, it seemed like a century. The ventilator in the intensive care unit was still helping her breathe. She tried hard to sit up, but her legs and feet were not working properly. The man lying beside her bed was awakened by the strange sound. He raised his head, burst into tears, and shouted heartbreakingly: "Doctor, doctor, she's awake, she's awake..." Shan opened her eyes wide. I saw this man clearly. His eye sockets were sunken, his face was haggard, his temples were white, and wrinkles were carved between his eyebrows.
Shan looked at him, kindness filled her heart, "Dad..." Shan called out softly. The man was stunned for a moment, and suddenly hugged Shan tightly, choking with sobs, "You finally woke up. Do you know that you have been in a coma for four years..." "Father"'s tears fell on Shan's face.
Shan's body is still very weak, and her beautiful face looks a little pale. She can't remember what happened in the past. She learned about her story from her father: She turned out to be a teller in a bank, and she had a lot of talents. Her parents loved her, and she also had a boyfriend who loved her very much. A month before the wedding, the security guard inside the bank became evil. One day at noon, while she and another colleague were on duty, they robbed the bank with a gun. She and her colleagues shouted for help, but one of the security guards shot her. The colleague died on the spot. After being shot in the abdomen, Shan still struggled with the security guard, and during the struggle, her head hit the window sill.
Shan’s operation lasted for six hours. Although efforts were made to save her life, Shan never woke up again due to the strong impact on her brain... Shan’s mother suffered A very big ***, he was hit by a truck on his way home, and passed away with unlimited care and regret. In the past few years, my father sought medical treatment everywhere, and Shan also came to the hospital in this city, but he came to the same conclusion: the chance of her waking up was almost zero, and even if she did, her intelligence would be that of a child of a few years old. Same.
My father did not give up on this sudden result. He borrowed money from everywhere and never gave up even if he had a little hope. In order to raise expensive medical expenses, he sold his family's house, but soon there was little left.
In order to cure Shan as soon as possible and save money, he worked sweatingly at the construction site during the day and went to the hospital to watch over Shan at night. When he was hungry, he would drink boiled water and eat steamed buns to satisfy his hunger. When he was sleepy, he would stay in Shan's hospital. Napping beside the bed, long-term malnutrition and fatigue also caused physical weakness, but he was confident that he would be able to wait until Shan opened her eyes. After a month of rehabilitation treatment, Shan was discharged from the hospital, but her speech was still a bit slurred. She had to continue to stay in this city and go to the hospital for regular check-ups and treatments.
Her father rented a room with her and took care of Shan's life during the day. At night, after Shan fell asleep, he picked up some bottles and cans in exchange for a meager income. Shan's complexion gradually improved, and she learned to dress and cook by herself.
My father bought you elementary school textbooks and taught her bit by bit. Slowly, Shan was able to read books and newspapers, and her pronunciation gradually became clearer. During the re-examination, the attending physician was surprised. In order to reduce their burden, he agreed to introduce Shan to the hospital as a cleaner.
The God of Destiny finally slowly smiled at Shan. Half a year later, Shan finally recovered and learned a lot of knowledge through self-study. Now she is enrolling in night school. She wants to find a better job to repay her father.
She works very hard in the hospital and helps the patients' families after work. The patients and family members were very grateful to her. After learning about her experience, they boasted even more and praised how great her father was. Some elderly people even sighed with tears: What a good child, what a miserable life.
Shan always smiled and said: "Fate has been good enough to me. At least I am still alive." The gentle and kind Shan aroused the affection of a young doctor named Fan, who was deeply attracted by her. Moved by Shan's spirit, he began to secretly care about Shan. Knowing that Shan was studying, he moved all his previous study materials to the hospital and gave them to Shan, and also guided Shan in her study.
After slowly getting in touch with him, Shan also felt many of Fan’s strengths: humor, kindness, and erudition. The two hearts slowly got closer, and Shan felt that happiness had begun to come.
Another year has passed. If she hadn't gone out on the street with Fan that day, Shan might have been so happy forever.
The day before Valentine's Day, Fan couldn't restrain his excitement because he decided to propose to Shan tomorrow. During the lunch break, Fan and Shan were walking on the street and passed a bank. Fan decided to buy a wedding diamond ring for Shan today, so he pulled Shan and walked in quickly.
There were not many people in the bank. Shan had not been there since she recovered. She remembered that her father always took her to take a detour. There were very few people in the hall, only three or two people were doing business. Shan looked around, and something deep in her memory was touched. She had a splitting headache, but she couldn't help but think about it. She remembered the robbery, but she never Disappeared from the brain... Shan became dizzy and fell softly to the ground.
Shan opened her eyes and found that she was already in the hospital, and saw Fan's anxious eyes. Fan held her hand: "I'm sorry, Shan, I shouldn't have taken you there.
I'm sorry..." Shan took Fan home, and Fan felt a little embarrassed. Father answered the door and hugged Shan nervously as soon as he opened the door: "Shanshan, where have you been? I'm so worried. Is nothing wrong? Do you have a headache again? Don't think about things you can't remember..." Father Only then did he see the nervous Fan next to Shan. Fan stepped forward and shook hands with him: "Hello, uncle, I am Shan's colleague."
Father turned around and went in without saying anything. Inside the house, Fan pulled Shan and followed him. In Shan's small room, Fan sincerely told her father that he hoped to be with Shan forever, and that he would take care of them from now on.
Her father waved his hand and said after a while: "You go back first and I'll think about it." After seeing Fan off, Shan noticed her father's tears.
He asked Shan in a low voice: "Do you really like this boy? Is he reliable?" Shan looked at her toes and nodded.
She heard her father sigh: "Okay, then get ready to get married..." Everything was going on, with a happy smile on Shan's face all day long, looking at the house with Fan, ordering furniture, and the wedding date was slowly approaching. 6. Then write a 450-word essay about the wedding customs of the Han people.
The wedding customs of the Han people have a long history and are rich in national color. As early as the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a complete set of etiquette has been formed, namely "accepting gifts", "asking for names", "accommodating gifts", "accommodating levies", "asking for dates", "personally welcoming", etc., which are called " Six Rites."
"Nacai" means that the man's family invites a matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's family, later generations call it "shuo matchmaking"; "asking for names" means that both parties change ages, which in modern times is called "exchanging dragons and phoenixes", and then divination "Marriage"; "Naji" means "engagement"; "Nazheng" means the betrothal gift given by the man's family to the woman's family, commonly known as "betrothal gift"; "Qing period" means choosing an auspicious date for the wedding to seek the woman's opinion; "Welcome in person" That is to marry the bride.
From ancient times to the present, although wedding customs have been complicated and simplified due to changes in the times or differences between rich and poor, the basic ritual procedures are similar. Even in modern times, with the rise of free love, the ritual process has become more simplified, but the customs of matchmaker (introducer) communication, blind date, engagement and marriage are still retained to a certain extent.
Among the "six rites", "welcome" is the most colorful. The main customs include making a house, crying for marriage, scattering grains and beans, "raising fire", "splashing water", masking one's face, wearing red clothes, The bride does not walk on the floor, rides in a sedan chair, "saddles", pays homage to the hall, spreads the tent, hands over cups, and makes house noises, etc. For more than two thousand years, these customs of "welcoming in person" have endured. Although there have been innovations and evolutions in modern times with the progress of society, the basic aspects have not changed much.
In terms of marriage, although monogamy was common among the ancient Han people, the phenomenon of concubinage was relatively common. In modern times, it is commonly known as "asking for a younger wife" or "marrying a concubine". Widows are generally not allowed to remarry, especially in feudal society. In the later period of society, with the rise of Neo-Confucianism, the rules were very strict, and some people basically had to wear plain clothes and remain widowed for the rest of their lives.
In terms of marriage forms, in the old days, in addition to matchmaking, there were also marriages by purchase and sale, marriage between cousins, marriage by exchange of relatives, marriage by transfer of houses, marriage by adoption (commonly known as "bring-in"), marriage by ancestral wife, and marriage by child adoption. , pulp marriage, filial marriage, ghost marriage, etc. 7. Folk Customs Essay 800 words
New Year Customs
The Mongolian people in Ordos use the lunar calendar, and the most important festivals are the small year and the big year. .
Xiaonian is the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month every year; it is also called "Nianhuo". The superstitious legend is that the "God of Fire" is sent to heaven on this day, because the God of Fire is the It gives people happiness and wealth, so the Mongolian people respect fire very much. Be careful when using fire in daily life. Do not let children play with fire or cross the fire at will. When you go on a long journey, you must first offer sacrifices to the fire. When you return home from a trip, you must check for new firewood and put it in the stove to show your devotion to the fire. On the Little New Year's Day, the whole family respectfully offers lamb breast wishbones and hada, incense candles, dairy products, etc. to the "Kitchen God" on the ground. The whole family eats lamb breast wishbones together, drinks and entertains, and "sacrifice to the Kitchen God" day and night. Eat food for seven days.
The New Year (Spring Festival) is the most solemn event. From New Year's Eve to the beginning of the first month, men, women and children are immersed in the joy of the festival. The Mongolian people of Ordos call the first month "Chagansa Day". 'Chagan' means white, and 'Sari' means the moon. They believe that white is the mother of all things, symbolizing purity and auspiciousness. This custom is widely spread on the grasslands. According to Marco Polo's record in his book: "Every New Year's Day for Mongolians, according to ancient customs, the Mongolian Khan and all Mongolian subjects come to visit. From the first day of the first lunar month, everyone wears white clothes; they all wear white robes, and people give white things to each other. "White is auspicious clothes" and white is "auspicious and blessed". Therefore, the first month of the year is called On the New Year's Day of the "White Moon", various Mongolian tribes in the Yuan Dynasty presented "Nine-Nine" white horses and camels to the Mongolian Khan, and neighboring countries also presented "Nine-Nine" white elephants. · Polo described: “There were more than 100,000 extremely beautiful white horses sent as tribute from several places in the country. There were 5,000 elephants in Japan. They were all beautifully dressed in brocade robes, and each carried two beautiful boxes on their backs. It is filled with all the gold and silver utensils and armor used by the palace, and there are countless camel bodies and brocade robes, carrying everything needed for the day. They all line up in front of the Khan. It is the most beautiful spectacle in the world. ”
On New Year’s Eve, a fire is lit in the southeast of the Manihong pole, and various foods are thrown into the fire as a memorial. Then, the family gathers together to eat the sheep’s head. Before the meal, the family The elders must first open the sheep's mouth. According to superstitious legends, this ceremony probably has two purposes. One is to avoid verbal conflicts for a year, and the other is to open the teeth to drive away ghosts and avoid evil. Because there is no presiding god in the world at age thirty. The ghosts have to collect food for the year, and the sheep's mouth is enough to scare away the hungry ghosts. At midnight, the whole family sits together to eat dumplings, which is called "Farewell Dinner" (for men who are away from home after marriage). Except for married women), the parents also have to call out his name, put down a bowl and chopsticks, and leave a portion of New Year's rice. At the beginning of the new year, every household lights up the plate on the Manihong pole. Sky lanterns (made of three hundred and sixty-one cotton-wrapped bamboo sparrows, dipped in oil and lit), and then the heaven, earth, fire, and ancestors were sacrificed respectively. After the memorial ceremony was completed, it was time for the early tea. At this time, the whole family. Everyone should flick the yogurt with their fingers to bring good luck. The old man will sit upright, the children will kneel down and offer khatas, and the elders will also give blessings one by one. Afterwards, the whole family (except the couple) will exchange snuff bottles. To express New Year greetings.
During the New Year, young men and women mount their horses one after another (in the old days, they did not go out on the second, fifth and seventh day of the first lunar month), bring khatas, snuff bottles and fine wine, and gather in groups to happily pay New Year greetings to their relatives and friends one by one. On the grassland, wine and meat are fragrant, singing and dancing are performed, and there is a strong atmosphere of festive joy everywhere. 8. An 800-word essay on Grandpa’s wedding
During the May Day holiday, I went back to my hometown with my mother to attend a special wedding.
Grandpa Zhang and my family are A relative is going to marry Aunt Yang from this village. I couldn’t believe it at first. My mother told me that Grandpa Zhang’s wife passed away when she was in her thirties. Grandpa Zhang has become both a father and a mother over the years. After suffering all the hardships, he raised his two children and started their own families. Grandpa Zhang used to be a poor family in the village, and he often had to worry about what he wanted to eat. Later, thanks to the support of the party, he could not eat anything. , Now we are living a good life. The chicken farm run by Grandpa Zhang is famous far and wide, and the annual income is very considerable.
When my mother and I came to Grandpa Zhang’s house, the courtyard was full of people, talking and laughing. I couldn't wait to break free from my mother's hand and squeeze through the crowd. I saw Grandpa Zhang with a radiant face, a Sanqi hairstyle, a black woolen suit, and a big red flower hanging on his chest. He was really no less than a young groom in the village! People gathered around him to congratulate him: "Congratulations, brother. Now you don’t have to worry about mending things.” “I heard that the bride’s place has several large rooms, which are perfect for a chicken farmer like you. If you want to open a second chicken factory, you will definitely get richer! "Grandpa Zhang was beaming with joy, smiling from ear to ear, saying hello to everyone and sharing lots of wedding candies. I heard from him: "Thank you for the support of the Party! I never dreamed that a person like me could marry a wife when he is old, *** Okay! He led us out of poverty and into prosperity! "As soon as Grandpa Zhang finished speaking, the whole yard burst into applause, and people's faces were filled with happiness. They coincided with Grandpa Zhang. Every time I go back to my hometown, there are changes. You see, every family in the village is rushing to buy the building. Household appliances are complete, and people's lives are getting sweeter day by day. The auspicious time has come, the firecrackers are crackling, and the suona is blowing. "Look at the bride!" "So the villagers all walked towards the new house. I am small, and as soon as I finished speaking, I squeezed into the new house curiously. I saw that the new house was covered in red and colorful lights, with twinkling lights, TVs, air conditioners, washing machines and brand-new modular furniture. The whole room was filled with luxurious Simmons beds covered with brand new silk quilts in red and green colors. Aunt Yang was so beautiful today. She was wearing a purple cheongsam, black high heels, gold earrings on her ears, and her slightly curly hair was natural. Draped on the shoulders... Several young people shouted: "Uncle Zhang, tell us how you and Aunt Yang got together. "Grandpa Zhang was a little shy, but he couldn't win over everyone. He held Aunt Yang's arm and said, "Now, our life is better. We don't have to worry about clothes. We have everything at home, but we are missing a wife. In the past, we were poor and didn't have that thought, but now we have the conditions to find a wife to support each other and walk the rest of the way. "
After Grandpa Zhang finished speaking, everyone burst into applause again, and the applause almost shook the roof. Participating in this special wedding is something I will never forget. 9. How to write a 1,000-word essay on customs and customs
1. Introduction to the concepts of customs and customs:
China has had a tradition of attaching importance to customs since ancient times. "In order to govern, one must first study customs" and "observe customs and know gains and losses" are the principles adhered to by monarchs of all dynasties. The supreme ruler should not only personally inquire about the customs and customs, but also appoint officials to inspect the customs and customs, use them as an important reference when formulating national policies, and record them in the annals of history by historians, leaving behind the experience of governing customs for future generations. .
Customs are the behavioral patterns or norms that people in a specific social and cultural area have followed consistently. The diversity of customs is the behavioral norms that are often caused by different natural conditions. Differences are called "winds"; and differences in behavioral rules caused by differences in social culture are called "customs." The so-called "winds vary a hundred miles away, and customs vary across a thousand miles" appropriately reflects the fact that customs vary from place to place. Customs are a kind of social tradition. Certain fashions and customs that were popular at that time will change over time, and the inappropriate parts of the original customs will also change with the changes in historical conditions. The so-called "changing customs" is exactly This meaning.
2. The difference between customs and customs
The ancestors of customs said: "Customs change people, and wise people cannot escape it. "Nowadays, every piece of clothing, every hat, every utensil, every word, every word, and all kinds of actions are all sung by one person and followed by a group of people, which is called "fashion." Some people still sit in a seclusion, others rise in a group and sit in a seclusion; People gather together to repent, people gather together to memorize sutras, people to recite sutras, people to read rhymes, people to comment on essays, and prose, monks to study in a group, hundreds of thousands of monks, people to study calligraphy and poetry, The words of scholars and officials have become popular and coincident with each other. Those who are dedicated to meditating and chanting Buddha will sing without following.
3. Customs and customs! The role of customs
Customs are formed historically and have a very strong behavioral restriction effect on social members. Customs are the foundation and complementary part of social morality and law.
4. Give some examples of customs and customs
Spring Festival: Spring Festival in the Year of the Tiger
At the beginning of the year, everything is renewed, and the main activity is to eat New Year's Eve on New Year's Eve Dinner at night, sacrifices and keeping the New Year's Eve, etc. In addition, the first, second and third day of the first lunar month are the three days of the New Year, and sacrifices and offerings are also required. During these three days, you generally don't do any work except cooking, you are taboo to say unlucky words, and you have to visit close relatives and distinguished relatives. From the first to the fifteenth day of the Spring Festival, various temple fairs, social fires, rural operas and other activities are held in various places. It is the most lively and extravagant festival among traditional festivals. Eat Yuanxiao during the Lantern Festival
Lantern Festival: The fifteenth day of the first lunar month is the Lantern Festival, also known as the Lantern Festival, Shangyuan Festival and Lantern Festival. During the festival, there are customs such as eating Lantern Festival, watching lanterns, playing social fire, and guessing lantern riddles. In addition to eating Yuanxiao, there are many different dietary customs in various places. People in Shaanxi eat "Yuanxiao tea", which is made by putting various vegetables and fruits into the noodle soup; people in Luoyang and Lingbao in Henan eat jujube cake; people in Kunming, Yunnan eat more bean dough. February 2: Commonly known as "Dragon Heads Up", also called Qinglong Festival, it marks the beginning of agricultural production in the year. Activities include spreading ashes to attract dragons, smoking insects, picking vegetables, and avoiding needlework (to prevent "piercing the longan"), etc. There are records about the customs of this festival in the Tang Dynasty. As for what to eat and drink on February 2nd, instead of eating greasy food during the Spring Festival, we will adopt a vegetarian diet. Cold Food Festival and Tomb-Sweeping Festival: Visit ancestral graves, go on an outing, and avoid fireworks. 10. An 800-word essay on Grandpa’s wedding
During the May Day holiday, I went back to my hometown with my mother to attend a special wedding.
Grandpa Zhang and my family are Relative, I want to marry Aunt Yang from my village. I can’t believe this at first.
According to my mother, Grandpa Zhang’s wife passed away in her thirties. Grandpa Zhang has been married for so many years. Being a father and a mother at the same time, I endured all the hardships and raised my two children, and each of them started a family again. Grandpa Zhang used to be a poor household in the village. He often had to worry about eating one meal and not knowing the taste of meat all year round.
Later, thanks to the support of the party, we are now living a good life. The chicken farm run by Grandpa Zhang is well-known and the annual income is very considerable.
My mother and I came here. When Grandpa Zhang was at his house, the courtyard was crowded with people, chatting and laughing. I couldn’t wait to break away from my mother’s hand and squeeze through the crowd.
I saw Grandpa Zhang with a radiant face, a three-seven-style hair style, and a black woolen suit. There is a big red flower hanging on his chest, which is as good as the young groom! People in the village gathered around him to congratulate him: "Congratulations, brother. Now you don’t have to worry about mending things.” “I heard that the bride’s place has several large rooms, which are perfect for a chicken farmer like you. If you want to open a second chicken factory, you will definitely get richer! "Grandpa Zhang was beaming with joy, smiling from ear to ear, saying hello to everyone and sharing lots of wedding candies.
I heard from him: "It's a blessing to support the Party! I never dreamed that a person like me could marry a wife when he is old, *** Okay! He led us out of poverty and into prosperity! "As soon as Grandpa Zhang finished speaking, the whole yard burst into applause, and people's faces were filled with happiness. They and Grandpa Zhang coincided.
Every time I go back to my hometown, there are changes. You see, the village Every family is rushing to build their buildings, and the household appliances are complete. People's lives are getting sweeter day by day.
The auspicious time has come, and the firecrackers are crackling and the suona is sounding. The whistle started to tick. Someone in the crowd shouted, "Look at the bride!" "So the villagers all walked towards the new house.
I am small, and as soon as I finished speaking, I squeezed into the new house curiously. I saw that the new house was decorated in red, with twinkling lights, TVs, air conditioners, A washing machine and brand-new modular furniture were placed throughout the room, and the luxurious Simmons bed was covered with brand-new red and green satin quilts. Aunt Yang was so beautiful today. She was wearing a purple cheongsam, black high-heeled shoes, and gold earrings. Her slightly curly hair hung naturally on her shoulders... Several young people shouted: "Uncle Zhang, tell us how you and Aunt Yang got together. "
Grandpa Zhang was a little shy, but he couldn't win over everyone. He held Aunt Yang on his arm and said, "Now, our life is better. We don't have to worry about clothes. We have everything at home, but we are missing a wife. .
In the past, we were poor and didn’t have that thought. Now we have the conditions and find a wife to support each other and walk the rest of the way. "After Grandpa Zhang finished speaking, everyone burst into applause again, and the applause almost broke the roof.
Attending this special wedding is something I will never forget.