How to communicate with people? How to be a happy person and ask God for help?

Life in the world, whether it is study, work or life, is inseparable from dealing with people. Between people, emotional experience, knowledge level, hobbies and other factors may be inconsistent, and it is normal to have differences. But this kind of "difference", like a "gap" across people's hearts, needs to be connected by a "bridge", just use the word "communication" that people often say nowadays. Recently, the reporter specially invited social psychologists to talk about some skills of interpersonal communication, which may inspire everyone. Reporter: Interpersonal relationships often bother people and even affect their normal life, work and even study. Is it really that serious? Teacher: Not bad. However, it is not complicated to do a good job in interpersonal relationships. Social psychologist Anthony Robbins believes that "the greatest wealth in life is interpersonal relationship." The key is to master the skills of communicating with others. Reporter: What do you think is the most important thing? Teacher: Good attitude. For example, when getting along with people, we should learn to smile and often cooperate with good positive emotions to control negative emotions. We can use the methods of "emotional memory", "vocal training" and "others' inspiration" to cultivate the communication art of smiling. Reporter: What is the second place? Teacher: It is easy to express, and you can make good use of "praise". What and how to praise can be discussed. Catering in interpersonal communication, that is, "follow one's inclinations", is a skill followed in the process of praise. Otherwise, interpersonal communication will not be so smooth. Reporter: Besides, what else should we grasp? Teacher: It is also unusual to say a word "love". The one who loves will always love it. Of course, "love" is not limited to narrow love between young men and women. "Old people and old people, young people and young people" need psychological nutrition of "love". On the contrary, if hatred comes first, it is impossible to communicate well with others. In addition to the above points, you might as well try to always put yourself in the other's shoes, that is, change your role and change your relationship object. For example, if parents criticize their children and change their roles, the children may accept it. Reporter: Can you talk about other skills? Teacher: I think the quality of politeness and etiquette is also very important. For example, a person's cleanliness, dressing, shaking hands, saluting, language, gestures, handing business cards, sitting, standing, walking and so on. Proper manners are beneficial to interpersonal communication. Reporter: I heard that dealing with interpersonal relationships also requires the eight-character policy of equality, mutual benefit and tolerance of credit? Is this a skill? Teacher: Yes. Let's start with "compatibility". Communicating with people requires tolerance, accommodation and forbearance. As the saying goes, "endure a moment's anger and avoid a hundred days' worries" is reasonable. In fact, there is no skill in interpersonal communication, and its relationship is a psychological relationship. Just take the initiative, start with "giving" and pay attention to "complaining about others." If you can treat the people you associate with carefully and accept them honestly, you can always create more supporters' answers. Whether it is relatives, friends or colleagues at work, we must do a good job in interpersonal relationships and smile more. As the saying goes, people who don't smile? There will always be benefits.