There are also some fortune tellers who have no real skills, saying that they are married to a certain eight-character husband (wife). This statement is also wrong. If the other person (wife) can marry you, then your own eight characters actually reflect this message, and no one can blame others.
I suggest you find a professional expert to help you make a good prediction, so as not to listen to the theory wrong and backfire. If you are interested, you can go to Baidu and search Moya Holographic Geomantic Network to learn more about some simple basic knowledge.