Alarm bell ‖ Looking at human nature from Poly incident

These two days, the news of "Bao Li, a girl from Peking University, passed away" was searched again, and IQ and EQ became the focus of discussion. A well-known psychological doctor is outspoken, his emotional intelligence is too low in love, and his ability to distinguish right from wrong is weakened, so he gradually enters the trap set by the other party and falls into the mire. As a member of the people who eat melons, I have seen the evil of human nature again.

There is shock in regret and anger in shock. Bao Li, a student of Peking University, has both talents and looks, but he happened to meet Mou Mohan with distorted values and began a deformed love experience.

From 20 19 to 12, Bao Li couldn't stand it mentally any longer. She committed suicide by taking medicine and was declared "brain dead" after being sent to the hospital. Bao Li wrote the last Weibo: My fate is not up to me. You can imagine how helpless and desperate she was at that time.

At noon on April 1 1, she died in the hospital. In the face of her daughter's sudden death, Bao Li's mother was very sad and cried and said, "My child was forced to die, which is inseparable from Mou Mohan!"

Former boyfriend Mou Mohan is Gao Feisheng, from Peking University. He has a high IQ and studies well. He is the vice-chairman of the student union and a pillar of the country's future. He is the ideal prince charming in the hearts of many girls.

It's hard to paint a tiger's skin, but it's hard to paint a bone. If a person's conscience is destroyed and his morality is corrupted, he will make shameful behavior and finally take the consequences.

I'm not afraid of hooligans. I'm afraid hooligans have culture. How to distinguish love rat from the bad guys, we only need to start from two aspects: listening to his words and observing his actions. Then decipher its meaning according to words and deeds, because the mouth will lie and the behavior will expose its essence.

The Confucian classic "The Analects of Confucius" wrote: Clever words make color, fresh and benevolent. It means sweet words and pretends to be kind. This kind of person's kindness is rare.

There are two kinds of people in the world, which is terrible.

The first kind of people, clever words make color. Clever words do not mean good eloquence, but cater to your ideas and pretend to get your approval. For example, if you like a handsome guy, he will dress up carefully; if you like a tough guy, he will work hard to keep fit; if you like a warm man, he will take care of everything. In short, he can do anything you like. The terrible thing about these people is that their words and deeds are inconsistent, and they are duplicitous, confusing you with sweet words, hitting the weakness of human nature and achieving the goal of controlling you.

Another kind of person, attacking others. Such people are often not smart and rude. They are willing to vent their temper, become keyboard men and commit cyber violence against others. They also call it: I am a straightforward person with clear grievances. In fact, I don't have any constraints on myself, and I spare no effort to attack others to ease my disappointment and escape the reality that I am a loser. This kind of person is terrible, not as smart and straightforward as the last one. No matter who you are, if you go against his wishes, he may attack you hysterically. Because he doesn't know how to be kind to others and doesn't consider their feelings, he just has no conscience. When I get well with you, it won't be a big problem. If something goes wrong, you may also be the target of attack.

We can't change everything in the world, all we can do is try to "arm ourselves". This is a problem that money can't solve, only by thinking. The richer you are, the more people around you may lie to you. But if you have enough knowledge and cognitive level, you can listen better.

At present, it is very common for college students to fall in love. If someone takes pleasure in questioning, humiliating or even hurting you in the name of love, don't hesitate to communicate with parents or teachers at the first time, and don't choose to bear it alone.

Bao Li's murder once again sounded the alarm for the majority of female compatriots. When determining the correct love relationship, we should see the true face and try to stay away from love rat and the gentle trap.