How to solve the incompatible fate?

Fire and water belong to their places, water can't hold fire, and fire doesn't disturb water, so it's calm and worry-free. Underwater fire transpiration, main business day. Therefore, people who are destined to be incompatible with each other live a calm life and have no worries about food and clothing. But water is the main life, and water is like a woman. In other words, people with water destiny are a little feminine in character and behavior, which is also the reason why love is not smooth. Being a man in everything, even regardless of the consequences for his girlfriend, may get unexpected good results. In ancient times, PS was a beautiful life for both men and women. Yang Fei, the literary queen, including the grandparents and grandchildren of Xiao Zhuang and Kangxi, had this kind of life. Because there was no free love at that time, it is hard to say now.