From a numerology point of view, the failure of the first marriage is caused by the failure of the Grand Canal and the passing of the year, but more often it is caused by the unfavorable factors carried by the horoscope itself. If the fortune brought by the Grand Canal is relatively easy to handle, after the unfavorable fortune passes, you can generally be happy if you remarry. But if the horoscope itself carries unfavorable factors, then they will be with you for life. If you remarry, the difficult factors you will face may not be less than those in the first marriage, or even more difficult. If you want to be happy, you must know more about marriage management in real life and pay more.
And a considerable number of remarried people, because after a failed marriage, inevitably feel a little negative emotionally, so they enter marriage again with the attitude of finding someone to live with. Most of these people are middle-aged. They all feel that after living to this age, it is no longer important to love or not to be happy or unhappy. As long as they can be stable, it is enough. Therefore, as long as the conditions are equal, they will choose to form a family to get what they have. need. However, managing a marriage is a technical job in itself. Remarried families naturally have to face more specific problems, such as:
1. Comparison. As the saying goes: comparing people to each other will make people angry. Facts have proven that remarried couples are more likely to blame their ex-wives or ex-husbands when they quarrel. This is a taboo in remarried families and will cause the most emotional harm.
2. Money. Most remarried couples manage their own money. The reason is that one learns from each other's mistakes, and because the shadow of property disputes when the previous marriage ended is difficult to erase, it is too difficult to trust again.
3. Children. These days, it’s hard to be a biological father or mother. It’s not something that’s trivial, let alone a stepfather and stepmother. If a stepfather and stepmother do a good job, that’s what they should do. If they make a little mistake, they’ll be sinners through the ages. They’ll all jump into the Yellow River. It's something I can't clean up. For children, parents are always their own good. For parents, children are definitely their own good. Therefore, children are the biggest factor that makes it difficult for remarried families to be happy. The above three points alone make a considerable number of halfway couples exhausted and even difficult to cope with.
In order to solve the above problems, Teacher Zeng Yihua believes that in the final analysis, the first is the issue of the sense of responsibility of both parties, and the second is the issue of mutual trust. A considerable part of people's sense of responsibility comes from nature, and the other part comes from acquired family education. To achieve mutual trust, it ultimately comes from love, and the enthusiasm and compatibility of each other's love depend on the degree of compatibility between the two parties' birth dates. It is a traditional cultural custom in our country to use the birth date and horoscope to match the marriage. Because it is quite reasonable, it has not only been passed down to this day, but also radiated and affected neighboring countries. From the Korean dramas that are currently popular in Asia, we can often watch it. There are plots about men and women getting married. By analyzing the horoscopes of men and women's birth dates, we can determine the personality characteristics of both parties, including their sense of responsibility. Many couples easily lose their way because they are in love, so they easily talk about marriage hastily. When getting married, experienced numerologists can give advance warnings and remind them of what they need to pay attention to, which can also make them fall in love to a certain extent. The emotions of the men and women in the film have cooled down and they have returned to rationality. Through rational choices, many problems in the future can naturally be avoided. Then, by analyzing the Nayin of the horoscopes of both men and women, the combination of stems and branches, the complementarity of the gods and joys, etc., the emotional compatibility of the men and women is obtained; finally, it is analyzed whether the future fortune information of the men and women is synchronized, and finally the fate of the men and women is obtained. A profound conclusion.