1, first marriage, ignorance. Song Dandan's first marriage was at the age of 24, which should be in the 1980s of 19. At that time, people were very conservative. Marriage can be said to be? Matchmaker's words? As long as the two sides have a good impression, they may get married after a period of contact, so Song Dandan's marriage is quite hasty, so it can be said that there is no deep emotional foundation. Sure enough, the two ended in divorce in less than a year. It is normal for such a short marriage to have no children.
2. Fall in love with Ying Da and regret it for life. Later, when Song Dandan was filming I Love My Family, he met Ying Da. They fell in love and got married in a flash. Can only say that Song Dandan is very? Wang Fu? Shortly after Song Dandan and Ying Da got married, Ying Da rose from obscurity to fame, but the relationship didn't last long. Ying Da soon broke Song Dandan's feelings. During that time, Song Dandan was desperate, and only their child Batu supported her.
3, the true meaning of marriage, companionship is true. Song Dandan's third marriage, now her husband, was met and combined when Song Dandan was 36 years old. For Song Dandan, it seems that she has found the true meaning of marriage. Stability, sureness, warmth and companionship are the foundation of marriage. For her and her husband, each other is the most important person. As for the children, they don't force each other, so they have been supporting and taking care of each other since they got married. In a blink of an eye, both of them have realized that they are over sixty years old.
So look at Song Dandan's three relationships, the first is ignorance, the second is grief, and the third is stability. For children, Song Dandan thinks Batu is enough. So look at Song Dandan now, living so freely and happily makes people sigh and bless, doesn't it?